not sure what to do!

[starsaphire]

Hi, I'm new here so I apologise in advance if I get anything wrong lol.

I've got a healthy child and have had 3 miscarriage' s my last was a year ago now, when I had that one I didn't know I was pregnant untill I went hospital because of how much blood I was losing ( sorry for to much info ) and the amount of pain I was in, I was 3 weeks late so I was roughly 7 weeks I lost the others at 8 weeks and 13 weeks.
At the moment my husband and I are trying for a baby and I'm just over 2 weeks late, I'm needing toilet more...a lot more lol I feel sick too. I do want to take a pregnancy test but I'm so scared of basically everything I'm getting pains in my back and pelvic area so I'm worrying it's either my period or miscarriage and I'm worried that if I take a pregnancy test I'm going to jinx myself.
I am so worried and not sure what to do I'd appreciate any advice or anything.
Sorry for babbling

 

[wildflower79]

Hi, I'm really sorry you've had so many losses to deal with I really have no advice, but just wanted to say I think its very normal to be feeling so scared and worried after what you've been through.

Last month I was a week late and got myself into a bit of a panic thinking I might be pregnant (even though we want another baby), I just felt so scared! Anyway, my period did come on. If you're over two weeks late and feeling sick, then you could very well be pregnant. I understand how your feeling about taking the test though. Also, pains and cramps are normal in early pregnancy - I had lots with my first daughter and she was a healthy problem free pregnancy.

I really hope if you are pregnant, or when it does happen that things work out for you this time and as time goes by you'll start to feel less anxious about things.

 

[mjemma]

I felt exactly like this a few days ago. Missed period, scared to test as if I didn't know the answer I couldn't worry about it and it wasn't real. In the end I was making myself more anxious not knowing so tested. For me it was a BFP and I feel much calmer than I thought I would. Whichever way it goes for you, I think the not knowing can be scarier than the answer. I hope it's good news xx