Not sure what to think! 10-11 dpi

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My LMP was started 12/24/13. Based on that, I should have ovulated between the 6th and 7th of January. (I wasn't tracking temps, cm, or using opk's) I took a test on Wednesday just because I had been feeling so tired and keep getting horrible headaches, but of coarse it was neg. Yesterday 1/17/14, I started to get cramps like I was about to start my period, which would be early. Then when I went to the bathroom, I noticed some spotting mixed with cm in my undies, but when I wiped, there was nothing there. I continued to have cramps last night and thought for sure I would wake up with my period. Still no sign of af and I still have cramps. We really have our hopes up and I am praying that this isn't af, but it's a little late for implantation right?

Also, I was wondering, if I got a frer today and took it later today, would it be negative because it's not fmu? i should probably just wait until tomorrow and af will probably come I don't normally get cramps before af, I just get a feeling like I'm going to get it and then she comes. If I do get cramps, it's light cramps and then I get it that night or day.

sorry for my rambling! just looking for other peoples experiences or suggestions!

Thans ladies!