ArtIsLife
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...so I'm VERY close with my grandma, we called her Grammy. Anyway, she just turned 80 but you would never guess it, she has always been a healthy person. And she has a glow about her and everyone she has ever met she has helped and been there for, she is an AMAZING person... everyone LOVES HER TO DEATH.
...in November we found out she has pancreatic cancer (found out 2 days before my wedding) and now we just found out its in her lungs and liver. She has only a few months left.
I feel like I have no one to talk to about my hurt because not only am I super sad about losing her soon but its been a dream since I was a child that my future children would be able to know my grandma. Its tearing my heart apart to now know that probably won't happen. My DH thinks I need to not think about that and think about what's best for HER right now, which I get. But I feel like its selfish and no one would understand. :.( it kills me that my child will never meet my Grammy.
Anyone have children that know their great grandparents? Or hope their future kids will?
...in November we found out she has pancreatic cancer (found out 2 days before my wedding) and now we just found out its in her lungs and liver. She has only a few months left.
I feel like I have no one to talk to about my hurt because not only am I super sad about losing her soon but its been a dream since I was a child that my future children would be able to know my grandma. Its tearing my heart apart to now know that probably won't happen. My DH thinks I need to not think about that and think about what's best for HER right now, which I get. But I feel like its selfish and no one would understand. :.( it kills me that my child will never meet my Grammy.
Anyone have children that know their great grandparents? Or hope their future kids will?