not too sure whats going on!

[Gatorade]

I'm very surprised they didn't give you an emergency ultrasound right then and there. I also had bleeding at 14 weeks and my little man is stille cooking away in my oven, and they also gave me an ultrasound in the hospital then a followup a few days later.

Try to stay positive, it is not uncommon to bleed... best luck to you.

 

[Sarah88]

Be sure to let us know how you go! My fingers are crossed for you, but I don't think they need to be. It's exactly what I went through. The main thing is no pain.
It didn't help that I had an inexperienced Doctor who used me as a pin cushin an told me my cervix had opened.

 

[Gatorade]

Pain does not always mean miscarriage either though, I had terrible cramping before I began bleeding and it was just my uterine lining.

Remember, your odds are much better now you're past 12 weeks.

 

[Sarah88]

Oh really? Wow, I didn't know that. I'm sorry. It is a good sign though.
What happened to your uterine lining? I've never heard of that, mind you i'm very new and inexperienced to this.

 

[Gatorade]

Yeah, but the cramping could've been due to stress, though... So again, stress is definately something to avoid, especially in the case of bleeding.

I just shed some of my uterine lining unexpectedly. My fiance had broken up with me the previous day, so I blame it on that. But apparently is does just happen.

 

[jonnanne3]

I hope all goes well with you! I didn't read what happened because the server was down. I hope it went well. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. God bless!

 

[vickilouise]

hi joanne, yes everything is fine now i did put a post up about it but i seems to have been lost.
i went for my scan sunday and we saw the baby's head arms legs spine and most importantly its heartbeat. they have no idea where the bleed is comming from but they said everything surrounding baby is intact.
i have never been so scared in all my life.
as i said in the post that seems to have gone missing
thanks to everyone for their kind words and support it meant a lot to me as i didnt want to vent at my OH as i was trying to be strong. xxxx

 

[jonnanne3]

That is wonderful! Congratulations! I am glad everything went well! God bless you and have a H&H 9 months!

 

[danielle19]

Glad everything is ok x

 

[toot]

So glad to hear you got to see your little bean and that all is well, wishing you a H&H 9 months

 

[Ann-Marie]

Thats fab..... I only just read the thread... from beginning to end...... what a Happy ending

 

[vickilouise]

aww thanks everyone shucks im like a big cry baby, im so happy everything is okay.
never thought anything could be so harrowing.
note to oneself and everyone else never ever google anything it made me worse.

once again thanks to everyone xxx

 

[Ann-Marie]

Thats exactly my philosophy..... I refuse to google anything now.... I always post on here instead

 

[Gatorade]

Oh lord google is terrible. I remember googling when I had a bit of spotting, and some websites were pretty much telling me it was a sure sign of death and cancer.

 

[Gatorade]

Oh, and VERY glad for the good news.

 

[Sarah88]

I told u everything would be fine! Great for you to have gotten confirmation though! I know the waiting to know is the worst part!

 

[x-amy-x]

I'm glad everything is ok

take it easy... feet up and everything

xxxx

 

[vickilouise]

well its started again... almost a week on, im shitting myself again. i didnt know where to post this i dont know much at the minute.
i went to bed early tonight and ive not long woke up to a bleed its not as much as what i woke up with on sat morning but at the same time its not a little amount like ive had through the week. ive spoke to the womens hospital emergency dept and they've told me to monitor it and if it contains clots darkens or i get cramp like pains to come straight in also if it persists throughout the night. im back in limbo again.
add to this i had a row with my OH before and now he is apparently out with his friends and i cant get hold of him, my brothers are both out and my dad is in spain until tuesday i feel so alone. i have called OH's mum shes now on standby to meet me at the hospital if need be she wants me to come round but i cant i want to stay curled up in my duvet.
im so scared again, i want my dad OH or someone to be here to hold me and tell me everything will be ok. but neither are here so im on here, the support i got last week was amazing.

 

[Sarah88]

I had bleeding about a week after my blood sack had burst. It was the rest of the sack coming out. I wouldn't be too worried. It's probably the same reason as the last bleeding.

 

[vickilouise]

they didnt give me a reason sarah, they didnt know.
i hate this feeling i dont know if its okay or not its killing me. i cant go through the rest of my pregnancy (if it sticks) like this. ive prepared for the worst twice now.