November 2013 Babies!

[luna_19]

Pregnancy can throw your thyroid hormones out of whack. Do you know specifically which thyroid test they did? If it was a tsh (thyroid stimulating hormone) and was slightly high that means possible hypothyroidism which means your thyroid is under active. If it was something else like t3, t4 or free t4 and that was high that can mean that your thyroid is overactive. Overactive thyroid can cause a slightly elevated heart rate among other things.

My baby has more and leas active periods all the time

 

[luna_19]

My phone wouldn't let me finish my thought! But I was going to say I think it's really normal for baby to be less active sometimes

 

[whittnie117]

I'm not quite sure what test it was. It MAY have been t4. I think I remember seeing that on the test form.

The only reason I felt wrong about his movement is because I feltonly one movement from the time I woke up to my appointment time at 2pm. It was the first time I had not felt him for so long.

 

[wantb502]

I concur with Luna. They probably did tsh, t3 and t4. It really depends on how high the number is. If the t4 is slightly elevated but the tsh was normal,
I wouldn't worry about it.

I always second guess myself about calling the doc when LO is quiet. I've realized he is most quiet during the days that when I wake up at 3 am he is kickin the crap out of me. So makes me think he has his nights and days are messed up and I think he's quiet but I'm just actually asleep when he's awake!

L and d get people all the time worries something is wrong. I would go with your gut. It's always a hard call. Did you try to drink some caffeine to see if that would get him going.?!?

Was te doc concerned at all about the swelling?

 

[whittnie117]

No, she didn'tseem concerned because my blood pressure was normal, but wanted the urine test asap. She was more concerned with my high heart rate.

Also, I don't drink caffeine. If I do, I can't stop drinking it. He's moving around now. I think he was just having a super quiet morning/early afternoon. It worried me though there for a bit.

 

[Rockinmomtobe]

Whitt- Glad everything is ok. Hope your tests come back good and your mind is a little more at ease. Im with everyone else on movement. Its always a hard call. Id say go with your gut. I know my little guy is different during the week when Im in my routine and on the weekend hes much more lax about movement. I think hes resting while I am lol. I havent had caffeine since I got pregnant (aside from the bit in chocolate) and I would be too scared to drink it now, lol who knows what it would do to me. But Ive noticed certain foods or cold water will get my LO moving. Im sure everythings fine.

AFM- People at work are telling me I look like Im about to pop.....well thanks, only 8 more weeks, lmao I know i look fat and tired I didnt need you to remind me. I fell asleep on the couch last night at 830. I felt so bad, I didnt cook dinner, Ijust came home, showered and sat down. It felt so nice, but I felt pretty guilty about it too. I need to find a balance. Im definitely looking forward to the weekend

 

[wantb502]

Rockin: so glad I'm not the only one... I'm exhausted. Even after sleeping well, I just don't want to do anything. It's so frustrating. I'm looking forward to the weekend too. I'm going to stay at my parents house on Friday so that means that I don't have to cook! Yay!

 

[The Alchemist]

On movements, by 3rd trimester, there will be periods of fetal rest, less movements and then periods of lots of kicks, nudges, punches, etc. It's normal. I think it's when you don't feel much movements or none at all is when that warrants a call. But it sounds like everyone's lo is moving and just being lazy at times, making mommy worried hehe.

Has anyone gotten their hospital bag ready? Or when will you? Last pregnancy for me, I had gotten it ready but took some things out. When I went in and got admitted, I didn't need much at all. But bottle of water, few snacks, and clothes to change into. I stayed for 3 days, even though I could have signed AMA and left at that same day. I decided to stay the 3 days because one, I was a ftm, I wanted to take advantage of speaking and seeking help from nurses and especially the lactation consultant, who had seen me on the second day. They also did a pku test and hearing test on baby. So that's why I just chose to stay. However, since I had gotten afeel of my hospital, I will be signing out AMA a day early after they run their screenings.

 

[missjenn]

My boy is moving constantly...we have no issues getting him to move and he pretty much does on his own most of the time. All I have to do is lay down and we can watch him move about my belly.

Rockin - everyone tells me I look like I am ready to pop too! I sure wish I was!

No hospital bag packed yet but I should get to that soon too.

We are so ready for him...I sure hope he comes two weeks early!!!!!!!!!!

 

[Rockinmomtobe]

Want- youre definitely not the only one. Like I said, fell asleep at 830 last night, woke up at 6 (so 9 1/2 hours of sleep) and still dont feel rested. Its frustrating and if ONE MORE PERSON says its my bodys way of preparing me for baby, Im going to hit them.

Dont have my hospital bag ready yet....for those of you that are already moms...I keep seeing things about disposable pants? Am I just out of the loop, I mean, Im not wearing dress pants out of the hospital or anything, but...if I get some pads, wont that take care of everything thats going to be going on down there? Should I get like....heavy duty pads? Im confused on exactly whats going to be transpiring down below after birth. In my class we learned that its normal to bleed a few weeks after delivery, but...will it be period like or heavier?

Aside from that question....I figure Ill bring a book, a robe, some comfy clothes for on the way home and the iPad...and the baby stuff. Ill bring the diaper bag with baby things, but the hospital said theyll send us home with diapers.

Frankly, its a little overwhelming now that I think about it, lol. I should get on this.

 

[luna_19]

you are all way too organized! I'm planning to pack mine and baby's bag maybe around 37/38 weeks.
The hospital gave me a list of stuff to pack, there really isn't that much.
Personal Supplies:
-house coat
-pajamas
-slippers
-clothing for wearing home
-6 pairs of underwear
-toiletries
-hair tie
-breast pads
-kleenex
-sanitary pads (regular and maxi)
-water bottle
-your own pillow if you want

Support Person:
-toiletries
-towel
-pillow
-blanket
-change of clothes

Baby:
-sleep wear
-onesies
-receiving blankets
-diapers

I'm also going to bring my laptop, camera, kindle, snacks.

 

[Co_Cowgirl]

I am doing one of two things with sleep. Either I drop off for 11 -12 hours and I still feel like crap when I wake up. Or like last night. I lay there for 3 hours tossing and turning. Get 4 hours of sleep. Wake up WIDE AWAKE. Went down and mopped my kitchen and then laid down for another 2 hours.

Right now life is Chaos. If you watch the news tonight and you hear about flooding in Colorado we are right on the edge. Our house is safe but work has been nuts with closing buildings, moving personnel, all while trying to contract family members and make sure they are all staying safe. I wish my boss would take a rain day excuse *Sigh* if only it were snow . . .

 

[The Alchemist]

Rockin - the first time, I didn't even know to take some pads but fortunately, my hospital provided almost everything we needed, minus clothes. The pads they gave were HUGE, long, and thick. Think pads for night time wearing just thicker. My hospital also provide mesh undies to wear. I think those are the disposable undies.

I took some hospital baby items home hehehe. Think itook some of those mesh undies, big ole pads, and receiving blankets.

And I toootally love and am thankful that they have the spray for your perineal area. Can't remember the name, goodness. But without that, it would sting to pee/poop because my labias was torn and I had a hard time going either pee/poop since it stung so bad.

I think if you ladies haven't already installed the infant car seat, do it asap. We waited last mine on the dayI was in labor! And I was 9 days early.

 

[whittnie117]

Always came out with a super pad in a purple package that I'm going to get. I think they are Ultra Maxis. They are HUGE. Some women opt to get the adulr diapers, a specific type because they are easier and help prevent leaking. I've been reading that some women fill a pad every half hour for the first week. With my luck, that'll be me. And since I'm not going anywhere, the Ultra Always should be enough to help stop leaks. They go all the way up the front and all the way up the back.

As for the bag, I just bought the mini toiletries to add to mine, but I haven't started the actual bag. I'll probably get it out of my car later today to just begin it. Don't forget disposable flip flops to wear in the shower. Many women choose to bring dark undies and dark pants just in case of a leak. I've read to bring your own towel too.

 

[Nariah01]

I haven't packed my bag, I am waiting until we move, but the babies bag is packed. So ladies I am in need of help, I feel like I am loosing my mind here.

So yesterday I had my app. did the GD test, hopefully all came back fine, the LO is fine and healthy, and they gave me the TDAP vaccine and a shot of rhogam, which is for my blood type. And I don't know if it has to do with the shots or what but today I feel like shit.

I am tired all the time, I think I have only been awake for like five hours total today, my arms are killing me, I have a horrible headache, I am sick to my stomach and on top of that I feel depressed. Even if I didn't feel sick to my stomach I have no desire to eat at all, I only am because I know I should. I've been really stressed recently with all we've got going on over here plus being pregnant, and I am hoping that its all just kind of caught up with me and I am not truly depressed, I have never felt so hopeless.

I guess I just need some advice, or know that I am not the only one and that this will get better.

 

[wantb502]

Nariah: I think it's normal to be overwhelmed. Our horomones are out of whack. If it is too much for you to handle I would consider talking with someone. I know that exercise seems counterproductive when you are so exhausted but, it can really lift your mood, gets you in the fresh air, and actually increase your energy. I always feel better about everything when I'm out in nature. I always think taking a little extra time and pampering yourself does a world of good too. My go to is a pedicure. I hold a lot of stress and tension in my feet and to have someone rub my legs and make an ugly part of my body pretty does good things for my soul.

I haven't even thought about a bag.....

 

[Nariah01]

Nariah: I think it's normal to be overwhelmed. Our horomones are out of whack. If it is too much for you to handle I would consider talking with someone. I know that exercise seems counterproductive when you are so exhausted but, it can really lift your mood, gets you in the fresh air, and actually increase your energy. I always feel better about everything when I'm out in nature. I always think taking a little extra time and pampering yourself does a world of good too. My go to is a pedicure. I hold a lot of stress and tension in my feet and to have someone rub my legs and make an ugly part of my body pretty does good things for my soul.

I haven't even thought about a bag.....

Thanks for the advice Want.

I did talk to DH this morning about it all, but I still felt pretty overwhelmed. I think I just need to take a step back for a while. I might take a walk tomorrow with the dog, as for the pampering as wonderful as it sounds, I think it would only work if it didn't cost anything. Considering one of my current stressors is money, and I don't know how productive it would be to spend money to relax...

But a pedicure does sounds nice.

 

[Rockinmomtobe]

I haven't packed my bag, I am waiting until we move, but the babies bag is packed. So ladies I am in need of help, I feel like I am loosing my mind here.

So yesterday I had my app. did the GD test, hopefully all came back fine, the LO is fine and healthy, and they gave me the TDAP vaccine and a shot of rhogam, which is for my blood type. And I don't know if it has to do with the shots or what but today I feel like shit.

I am tired all the time, I think I have only been awake for like five hours total today, my arms are killing me, I have a horrible headache, I am sick to my stomach and on top of that I feel depressed. Even if I didn't feel sick to my stomach I have no desire to eat at all, I only am because I know I should. I've been really stressed recently with all we've got going on over here plus being pregnant, and I am hoping that its all just kind of caught up with me and I am not truly depressed, I have never felt so hopeless.

I guess I just need some advice, or know that I am not the only one and that this will get better.

Oh Nariah, Im glad you and little one did well with the GD test, but so sorry youre feeling like this. Speaking from experience, depression, if thats what it is, is hard. I started talking to someone around 5 months and its seemed to help me. But I agree with Want, exercise, especially when exhausted, is not something that sounds good, but it helps me soooo much and do try and do something nice for yourself, take a long bath, read a book, listen to some music, watch your favorite movie. Itll be ok and we're always here if you need to complain

Rockin - the first time, I didn't even know to take some pads but fortunately, my hospital provided almost everything we needed, minus clothes. The pads they gave were HUGE, long, and thick. Think pads for night time wearing just thicker. My hospital also provide mesh undies to wear. I think those are the disposable undies.

I took some hospital baby items home hehehe. Think itook some of those mesh undies, big ole pads, and receiving blankets.

And I toootally love and am thankful that they have the spray for your perineal area. Can't remember the name, goodness. But without that, it would sting to pee/poop because my labias was torn and I had a hard time going either pee/poop since it stung so bad.

I think if you ladies haven't already installed the infant car seat, do it asap. We waited last mine on the dayI was in labor! And I was 9 days early.

Thanks for the advice very helpful. In our L&D class they showed us the mesh undies lol but I have a feeling when the time comes Im not going to care what Im wearing, Im just going to want to be comfy

Always came out with a super pad in a purple package that I'm going to get. I think they are Ultra Maxis. They are HUGE. Some women opt to get the adulr diapers, a specific type because they are easier and help prevent leaking. I've been reading that some women fill a pad every half hour for the first week. With my luck, that'll be me. And since I'm not going anywhere, the Ultra Always should be enough to help stop leaks. They go all the way up the front and all the way up the back.

As for the bag, I just bought the mini toiletries to add to mine, but I haven't started the actual bag. I'll probably get it out of my car later today to just begin it. Don't forget disposable flip flops to wear in the shower. Many women choose to bring dark undies and dark pants just in case of a leak. I've read to bring your own towel too.

Mini toiletries! I didnt even think of that. Thats a great idea! Thanks. And Ill look into some pads....or adult diapers...just in case ugh! lol

Cowgirl- Stay safe with those floods out there! It looks scary.

AFM- nothing new...I forgot to set my alarm last night and woke up half hour late, ate breakfast in the car driving to work and now Im crabby and I want to go back to sleep. Im really trying to stay positive, but Im going to be miserable if the next 7 weeks are like this

 

[berniegroves]

Rockin - I bought maternity pads last time and whilst a bit uncomfortable because they're so thick they did their job. I've heard that maternity specific pads are best as sometimes the top layer on normal period pads can catch on stitches if you have them. So I stuck with maternity pads for the first week or two and then switched to the nighttime period pads.
I believe disposable knickers are suggested because sometimes you bleed so much it can overflow the pad. I just bought a few packs if big cheap knickers (lol!) as then if they got wrecked I could throw them away. Also having some big knickers means if you end up with a c-section they will sit above your scar.

I am shattered all the time! Lol! So I think it's just a pregnancy thing that most women have. It's really hit me hard this time as I'm constantly on the go with my toddler and as much as I love her I do long for 20 minutes to sit down and have a nap!

Nariah - sorry you're feeling crappy at the moment. I think it's normal to feel overwhelmed by everything as its a huge change. I wish I could offer advice but we're having our second and I feel overwhelmed this time too (for different reasons) so I think it's about finding a way through. When you hold your baby in your arms it will all be worth it.
X

 

[The Alchemist]

Nariah - I can relate somehow. I've also felt overwhelmed lately and even the most smallest thing can throw me off life balance. For me, I keep thinking about if I go crazy with just one kid who NEVER sit still for anything, how will I ever feel sane with 2? I'll be one of the ladies with 2 under 2. These days, I find being a sahm can be hectic with normal everyday chores and balancing that with a toddler. Stress has never gotten so much to me until this pregnancy. I think it's all a mixture of hormones and the unknown of what's to come post baby. But I know everything will be okay. I'm telling that to you and myself. Everything will come together. In the meantime, when you feel down and overwhelmed, take a step back and yes, going for a walk can help. Hope you feel better.