November 2013 Babies!

[wantb502]

Sorry for the novel!

 

[therealdalia]

hey all, had my 12 week scan today and got good and bad news. Bad is that one of the babies stopped growing around 6 weeks but good is that the other baby is doing just great NT was normal and heart rate was 144bpm

I am so sorry to hear that. But happy to hear the other baby is fine.

As for me, my tummy is all kinds of ouch. Anyone having pains that aren't cramps, but radiate the entire lower belly? I though it was gas (tmi), but I am not so sure. No bleeding or back pain, just looking for an answer.

Also, like I said, I am a big woman, but I can feel my bump now. It's so surreal to know that there is so much going on in the body and you have a little person growing inside you.

Same here! I agree that it's uterine stretching, and haven't gone nuts over the 'pain' because it only lasts 10 seconds at a time and it's not accompanied by any bleeding. My next checkup is next week so I'll ask the doc then.

Sorry for the novel!

It's ok. We are here to support.

 

[therealdalia]

Yeah, so I am now 10 weeks/3 days and starting to freak out over my genetic counseling visit. I took a category X prescription drug (Oxandrolone) before I knew I was pregnant. I had never taken it before and took it for five days (from 3weeks0 days until 3weeks6 days.) My doctor seems to think it was too early in the pregnancy to have any effect, but there is a slight risk. But so far, everything appears normal. He said a genetic counselor could give me more details about environmental effects on the baby, but overall should be fine. I hope he's right!

Has anyone gone to a genetic counselor yet? Also, they took 8 vials of my blood for DNA purposes, which will be used for the genetics visit....should I suggest that they take my husband's blood as well because they're only getting 50% of the genetic code, right? I am a bit confused about that. Wouldn't they want genetic information from BOTH parents?

 

[luna_19]

As for the medication I agree that is too early for it to cause a problem, you don't start sharing blood supply with baby until week 5. Did your doctor give you a reason for doing the genetic testing? I had the nt scan and quad screen blood test but I think that is different.

 

[therealdalia]

As for the medication I agree that is too early for it to cause a problem, you don't start sharing blood supply with baby until week 5. Did your doctor give you a reason for doing the genetic testing? I had the nt scan and quad screen blood test but I think that is different.

I think that's the same thing. My doc said he sends all his patients to the genetics counselor for the screenings, but mentioned that he will note my concerns about the drug so that I can discuss it during the genetics visit. I believe the genetics folks screen for any abnormalities -- not just those of the genetic variety.

Luna...did you have to go to a different office for the nt scan?

 

[luna_19]

yes. here doctors don't have ultrasounds in their office anyways but I did have to go to a special place because they need a high definition machine to do it. I wasn't offered a genetic counselor, it's funny how everyone does things differently. Personally I had no issue doing the testing, my brother and sil declined it and found out their baby had a severe chromosomal abnormality at their 20 week scan last December and ended up losing her so it makes sense to know early if at all possible.

Oh and I'm sure the counselor will explain that these tests just determine if there is a risk of a problem, if there is a high enough risk they might recommend more invasive testing like an amnio.

 

[Storked]

Second trimester

 

[therealdalia]

Congrats! Is your morning sickness gone?

 

[missjenn]

Hmmm...I didn't get offered any kind of genetic counseling or an NT scan or anything that you guys have! I did get 8 vials of blood taken at my first prenatal appointment....I assume that is the genetic testing?

I'm super worried today...the weight I gained is gone....I don't feel pregnant at all....3 days ago I thought i was getting a bump and today not really . I have my next appointment on Tuesday and Im terrified there won't be a heart beat. I have read way too many stories on here about missed miscarriages and I am freaking out!

 

[Rockinmomtobe]

hey all, had my 12 week scan today and got good and bad news. Bad is that one of the babies stopped growing around 6 weeks but good is that the other baby is doing just great NT was normal and heart rate was 144bpm

So glad that youre being positive, youre a better person than I am and glad your little bean is healthy

Hey girls, sorry I have been distant. Still reading everyone's posts.

Luna, I am so sorry to hear your news. I am glad that you are looking at the positive that you still have one in there kicking around and growing really well. Your ultrasound picture looks really good.

Rockin, perhaps not getting the last townhouse was a blessing in disguise. Sure you loved it, but this new place is bigger! More room for, ack hem, more babies!! I do agree that a childless couple could actually cause more trouble than a couple with a baby on the way. Weird.

Want, I am sorry that your having some rough days. You are keeping strong though, I would have broke. And if my closet broke after all that, I would have probably cried and threw things around, then cried some more because I would have had to picked up those thrown things. You just have a little time left before family time, hold your head up.

As for me, my tummy is all kinds of ouch. Anyone having pains that aren't cramps, but radiate the entire lower belly? I though it was gas (tmi), but I am not so sure. No bleeding or back pain, just looking for an answer.

Also, like I said, I am a big woman, but I can feel my bump now. It's so surreal to know that there is so much going on in the body and you have a little person growing inside you.

Stomach pain is pretty normal, im around 190 (so im a little bigger) and have some mild stomach streching pain, BUT, it could be gas too like you said. Gas does strange strange things to your body, lol, trust me.I had issues before I was pregnant so this has been a trip

Rockin: I agree, I bet this is a blessing in disguise! I really hope this all works out soon so you can rest easy in your new place. I am totally jealous about your energy. I can't wait for that day... And the sex drive! I feel like mine went on vacation and decided to stay an extra week!

Luna: I'm sorry to hear about the other baby. I am so happy you posted that US though! I must say, that is a gorgeous looking baby! Congrats, it looks perfect!! I am so excited and VERY nervous for my 12 week scan.

Whit: I haven't kept it together at all. I am having a very very hard time this week. Normally, I would be able to handle all this and then some but I have lost completely two different days this week. Last night I had a major break down. My sister has bipolar disorder and She is going through a rough period. I think her (new)psych put her on a stimulant because she convinced him tht she has ADHD. Well now she is UP UP UP and it's very bad. The last time she was like this, she had to be commited. I am scared for her. Because of that and other things like exhaustion, i freaked out because I am so worried all this stress is hurting the baby. I am so scared that when we go to the scan on the 14th they will say that it's heart isn't beating and it will be all my fault for putting so much stress on my poor baby. I cried hysterically last night and my poor DH probably thinks I'm crazy. He said I need to exercise more and of course then I cried because I am worried he thinks I'm fat (I know he said it because exercise always makes feel better). I can't run because my boobs kill and thats the only exercise I really enjoy My birthday is the 22nd and we were going to have a cook out and tell all our friends but Dave picked up an extra shift. So I'm canceling the party.

Everything seem so much more difficult. These hormones are doing a number on my emotionsl stability. I know I need to step back and take a deep breath!

In regards to the low belly pain, I'm having that too. It's not pain per se, but achy and almost feels like movement. I am 10 weeks 4 days and I think it's jut round ligiment pain and uterine stretching. I can feel a difference in my belly, but I really can't wait to be nice and round and actually look pregant, not just chubby. I don't think we need to worry about it!

I repeat: you are a goddess. Im sorry about your sister and your birthday party, thats awful and a lot to handle while you feel like the walking dead. Ive had a series of emotional breakdowns in my first trimest and knock on wood....everything seems to be easing a bit. Im still fairly hormonal, but the enrgy is coming back slowly and I feel a little more capable. Granted....Im still growing a human, so, it has some draw backs, but, I was literally MISERABLE my first 12 weeks. Im less miserable now, lol. Hang in there. And I hear you on the weight gain....I know Im heavy, but I exercised very frequently before I got pregnant and for a good month, i just couldnt. I was too exhausted. Dont beat yourself up. AND youre NOOOOT fat. Youre beautiful

Hmmm...I didn't get offered any kind of genetic counseling or an NT scan or anything that you guys have! I did get 8 vials of blood taken at my first prenatal appointment....I assume that is the genetic testing?

I'm super worried today...the weight I gained is gone....I don't feel pregnant at all....3 days ago I thought i was getting a bump and today not really . I have my next appointment on Tuesday and Im terrified there won't be a heart beat. I have read way too many stories on here about missed miscarriages and I am freaking out!

DONT BE WORRIED!!! Im sure baby is doing juuuuuust fine. Everyone shows at different times. I look like a cow because I had extra fat on my stomach to begin with so Im bloated and backed up (TMI) and all kinds of fun stuff. I have a little bump around my pelvis in the morning when im lying down. Itll come. Missed miscarriages are ssuuuuuuper rare and EVEN more rare in your second trimester. Itll all be ok.
As far as genetic testing, Id ask your doc about it. We just got tested at our 12 week appt but Ive heard of some places doing it later, but they shouldve given you options for testing and things like that I would think. Just ask. Try and relax

AFM-looking forward to hearing for sure on our townhouse and taking it easy this weekend before we go into packing mode. Everything baby-wise seems to be good, nothing crazy or weird, just....growing

 

[Storked]

Congrats! Is your morning sickness gone?

Well, I have acid reflux that has me puking but I take a Zantac for it


Missjenn, I didn't have any of that testing either so it is ok. Chances are high that your baby is just fine in your tummy

 

[whittnie117]

Hmmm...I didn't get offered any kind of genetic counseling or an NT scan or anything that you guys have! I did get 8 vials of blood taken at my first prenatal appointment....I assume that is the genetic testing?

I'm super worried today...the weight I gained is gone....I don't feel pregnant at all....3 days ago I thought i was getting a bump and today not really . I have my next appointment on Tuesday and Im terrified there won't be a heart beat. I have read way too many stories on here about missed miscarriages and I am freaking out!

Don't get too worried about this. I went down in bloating a bit and lost quite a bit in my tummy randomly from one day to the next. My weight also leveled out. Perhaps you just got to the point where the placenta is beginning taking over and symptoms are settling a little??? Oh, and when it happened, constipation kicked onto full gear for me the next day.

 

[wantb502]

I want to thank all of you. You guys keep me sane! Thanks for your support!

 

[missjenn]

Yeah...I am 119 today...lol...talk about weight changing!!

I have my appointment on Tuesday so I'm just going to try and stay sane until then.

My wedding shower is today, yipee!!!!

 

[wantb502]

Yeah...I am 119 today...lol...talk about weight changing!!

I have my appointment on Tuesday so I'm just going to try and stay sane until then.

My wedding shower is today, yipee!!!!

Ohhh have a great time! Are you doing a co-Ed or women only shower?

 

[sunnysun]

Stalking

 

[wantb502]

Had a much better weekend so far. We went to 2 kentucky derby parties yesterday and my father in law almost spilt the beans to the whole family! I caught him before anyone heard....hooefully. I managed to fool my friends and drank a "mixed" drink with lemonade and club soda. We have our second scan (@12 weeks and 2 days) in 9 days!!! Not that I'm counting or anything. Starting to feel pregnant yippee!

How's did everyone's weekend go?!?

 

[whittnie117]

Ack!! So glad you caught him Want2, my mom already told the important people in the family. I cried when I found out and was so angry that she took that away from me. My older brother wont even talk to me now!!

Anyhow, my weekend involved The Rocky Horror Picture Show on Friday night. Yesterday went to see Iron Man 3 with my bf and his eldest daughter and now I am about to go over to my moms to take care of my little brother while she is away for the week. One thing I wish I got more of...sleep. Seems to be a rarity nowadays, especially since waking up on cue is pretty much a normal thing now too.

 

[therealdalia]

My weekend is going great. The morning sickness is GONE and I actually had enough energy to hit the gym this morning. I have been shopping for wedding gowns with my sis...who is getting married on the island of St. Lucia (British West Indies) in August. I can't believe I'll be six months pregnant during such a dream vacation. Oh well...I can watch everyone else party and I'll just chill out while others are doing the adventure tours.

I have been worried that I'm showing way too early, but I was super happy while picking a bride's maid dress. I told the sales person I'll need a maternity dress and she was like wow, your tummy is super flat. I have been self-conscious about being in that phase where I don't look pregnant -- it looks like a pot-belly. Guess not...it made my day.

I actually can't wait until I have that official "bump." Anyone else looking forward to having that full baby bump? I think baby bumps are so cute!

 

[luna_19]

we told the parents last night, that went well. I'm definitely in the is she pregnant or did she put on a few pounds phase so am really looking forward to actually looking pregnant

my hubby is hilarious, yesterday he asked when I was going to be really big...I told him probably by the end of the summer