November 2013 Babies!

[missjenn]

My left ankle is really swollen and I just noticed. Has anyone had that happen during their pregnancy....only one is swollen and it came out of no where?

 

[whittnie117]

So many posts to respond to. I really need to not sleep half the day, lol.

I haven't been reading at all. I usually read a lot, but it is like I have no patience for it anymore. I really have want to do anything I used to do. All I do is look things up for the baby. Everything revolves around the baby now.

You guys look amazing.

Rockin, glad your GD free. That's amazing. Don't worry about decreased movement unless there is not more than 10 movements per day. You're to the point where you are going to feel less because there is less room.

Miss Jenn, it could be because of the extra pressure on the blood vessels. There is a lot more blood pumping through our veins right now. I would call the doc just in case though. It is weird that it is only one of your ankles.

Mama, there are more deals on woot today for gear.
https://kids.woot.com/plus/from-strollers-to-playards-back
A lot of it is sold out already, but I bought the Infanto Gym for my baby. It's 25$ less than any I have seen, so I couldn't pass it up. There is also another bouncer on there, but it's not as good of a deal as the other, but still good. But there ISSS a swing on there for 79.99 instead of 150. I think all you girls should check that one out. I am just pissed because I put one on layaway this weekend for 164.95 and then that one comes up.

On Zulily, there are some bras under the maternity section for nursing that would fit a lot of you girls and all under 20 dollars. Check out the baby shoes and toys while you're there, there are some good deals all around the website, not just on their 'New Today' tab. Under the " Last Day" tab there is shoes under 10 dollars as low as 6.99 and really cute. The brand is called Ten Little Piggies.

I am going to post deals that I see that I think are worth it if you girls don't mind. At least if I can help save a little money to at least one of you, it would be good. I am glad you were able to get that bouncer Mama

 

[berniegroves]

What does your hubby do for work? It sounds as though it's something that takes him away from home often? Sounds like you are isolated a bit and that can be lonely for sure! I totally need to be around people!

You don't have any family that are within driving distance to help out?

My family live in another province and you have to cross one of the most expensive bridges to get there....$44.50 and about an hour drive from where we live.

Hubby is a paralegal for Intel. He goes to the US about twice a year. On a normal day he is only gone for just over 9 hours which is awesome in comparison to before we moved. But since we moved he has started arranging a mud-run as a private business venture. And it's that which is taking up most of his time. He spends hours on it each night. And he's just told me that he's arranging another one for 4 months after the baby is born and that one is hours and hours away from our home so will take a lot of travelling time etc.

We have family within driving distance, but they just don't want to help. Our parents don't really want to be hands on grandparents. They only see us every few months and then it's just briefly. I'd love love LOVE to have parents who were interested in us or our daughter (and bump)

 

[mama.luv]

Aww Bernie hang in there. My hubby will only be off work for a month after the babies are born. He doesn't want to be off work long because he likes to do a lot of overtime, which will help us out because at a point during my maternity leave, I will only be getting half of my pay. My parents live only 7 minutes away and they are more than willing to help. They will probably be toooo helpful. Also my SIL is coming from Texas to help me out for a month. I'm glad everybody is willing to help but sometimes I just want my space and don't like being bothered. The thought of having all of these people in my house trying to help me out is kind of freakin me out.

MissJenn: My ankles are swollen too. My left foot and ankle is actually bigger than my right foot. The Doc told me to keep them elevated while at work. The Doc also put me on baby aspirin, calcium and vitamin D for the remainder of the pregnancy. She put me on baby aspirin to keep me from getting pre-eclampsia. I don't know why I have to take the calcium and vitamin D, maybe she feels the babies are not getting enough nutrients because one is behind in size.

 

[luna_19]

that sucks bernie

here's my pic from this week, I definitely grew!

 

[wantb502]

Wow ladies! You guys look amazing as ever and I can't believe how big everyone's bellies getting each week!

Bernie: I'm sorry about your DH. I get frustrated that my hubby works 12 hour days. I couldn't imagine him having to organize a mud run too! I spent so much time working on organizing a water stop for the Drby marathon....
That's a lot of responsibility.

missjenn: freakin' cute as ever! The one ankle swollen thing always worries me as a nurse. Swelling should be bilateral and pretty equal. Is it hot or red? If it doesn't get better i would definitely call your doctor. Drink lots of water and def put your feet up!

AFM: I'm exhausted! I worked an 11 hour day today... These past three weeks have kicked my ass at work... When Saturday rolls around I am completely worthless.

I had a meltdown (it's been a while) on Sunday. TMI but DH and I were getting intimate (he'd worked 10 hours) and things were going okay but I had to keep repositioning because of discomfort. DH didn't last and I just felt like a big fat disappointment. I feel huge, stretch marks are so unflattering, and I just don't look or feel like myself. I started crying and then it went down hill from there. It always snowballs. I told DH that he needed a sexual replacement while I was so pregnant. I just worry that I can't give him what he needs. He reassures me all the time that he doesn't need sex... But give me a break! I need it! I know it could be worse but it just makes me feel like crap.

 

[wantb502]

Here's my "Sunday" bump day photo! I just got done walking and it was raining outside

 

[The Alchemist]

Missjenn - I agree with Want concerning your swollen right ankle. It should be both but hey, maybe it's just something about pregnancy. Definitely keep it elevated. Lie on the couch/bed and prop those legs up high, they should always be above level of heart. And yes, keep drinking that water!

Want - I totally relate to you on not feeling yourself. The whole changes of pregnancy just madness having sex so different and can be frustrating for both parties. Fortunately, your dh seems very understanding about it. I guess if I can give a suggestion is to find a comfy position. The good ole spooning position seems the most comfy out of all.

We're not even having sex over here, and luckily, OH hasn't even complained lol. I just don't even think about it, libido's definitely gone downhill, yikes! This us the longest we've gone without sex; even last pregnancy, we were humping like rabbits. I hope it comes back soon so I can start feeling myself regarding sex!

 

[wantb502]

Missjenn - I agree with Want concerning your swollen right ankle. It should be both but hey, maybe it's just something about pregnancy. Definitely keep it elevated. Lie on the couch/bed and prop those legs up high, they should always be above level of heart. And yes, keep drinking that water!

Want - I totally relate to you on not feeling yourself. The whole changes of pregnancy just madness having sex so different and can be frustrating for both parties. Fortunately, your dh seems very understanding about it. I guess if I can give a suggestion is to find a comfy position. The good ole spooning position seems the most comfy out of all.

We're not even having sex over here, and luckily, OH hasn't even complained lol. I just don't even think about it, libido's definitely gone downhill, yikes! This us the longest we've gone without sex; even last pregnancy, we were humping like rabbits. I hope it comes back soon so I can start feeling myself regarding sex!

How long has it been?!?
We had a pretty healthy sex life before pregnancy 2 x at least a week and now.... Well Sunday was the first time in 2 weeks. We had even good with once a week, but I feel so much bigger the last couple of weeks. We tried the spooning... I'll try it again next time...

 

[Rockinmomtobe]

So much to respond too ill have to catch up tomorrow. I'm exhausted. Just wanted to post my 29 week bump. Not much change.

 

[The Alchemist]

Want - it's been since June, hah! Typically, we're on it like 3-4 times a week! We should try to, though. These days on his off days, if he's not out at friends (which is once every 2 weeks), we're home individually doing our own thing, minding our own business. He'd be watching his car shows on tv. I'd be in the dining room on my phone texting. Or we'd both be on our phone. Sometimes we'd watch a movie. We don't even snuggle anymore lol, but we're not arguing or anything like that. It just turned out this way *shrug* Are we normal?!

 

[berniegroves]

Rockin - you look awesome! Lovely bump.

Want and alchemist - me and DH haven't had sex in much longer. Think it's like 5 months or something insane. Initially it was because my morning sickness was so bad that I couldn't stand it. Then we had a major heatwave and I was so uncomfortable. But now it's just because we aren't spending any time together and I need to feel close to him to want to have sex. If you see what I mean.
Before getting pregnant we did it maybe once a week or once a fortnight. When we had the energy really as having DD changed things. Lol.

 

[missjenn]

Here's my "Sunday" bump day photo! I just got done walking and it was raining outside

You look frigin great!!!!!!!!! I would miss having sex with ya! Ha!

Your lucky to have amazing husband who is supportive through the pregnancy. Just focus on the big picture and don't let the present get you down. After the baby your sex life can get back to normal!

 

[missjenn]

Rockin, love the bump! Pink is a good color on you...I think I might have said that before!

Luna, you are progressing so nicely....a bit at a time...I feel like I packed it on all at once!

Bernie, that makes me feel so sad...I could not imagine my family being that way. I really hope that will change for you :s

Edit - Alchemist and Bernie - our sex life has changed as well in the sense that its not as frequent with the pregnancy but I think I would be really scared to lose the intimacy with months of no sex....I need that kind of intimacy...especially when I am feeling good!

 

[missjenn]

I did call the nurse yesterday and she said to keep my leg elevated and that it was normal to be on one side...if the baby was spending more time on that side? I'm don't feel very confident about that answer but my next appointment is Tuesday so we will see how it is at that point.

 

[wantb502]

Thanks guys for your responses... Sometimes I feel like I'm the only one goin through these things. It's always nice to know its normal.

Missjenn: glad to know the nurse wast concerned. If it changes color, size, temp or because painful... I would def call again or go to an urgent care center.

 

[The Alchemist]

Pregnancy causes lots of funny things to happen. Even though I'm struggling with pelvic pain in this pregnancy, I can say it's treating me better, emotionally, than the first. I am not sure if it's because this is the second time or not, but I definitely wouldn't want to go through what I'd gone through the first time with ongoing sickness, pain, and the emotional roller coaster back then - wow. There were lots of fighting and lots of crying. I only laugh at myself now lol.

One funny/odd thing in this pregnancy is it's causing my hair to shed so much. I thought it sheds AFTER having a baby? Plus, I'm finding myself having to shave my legs and armpits every 2 days, instead of weekly. I have to shave my hoo ha every few days too oppose to every 2 weeks. I didn't go through this hairy hassle last pregnancy. Jeez...

 

[whittnie117]

Hubby and I don't have sexual relations often at all, even before BFP. It was 7 months prior to conception last time and maybe 3 times since BFP. He has a problem because of medications he takes, so it isn't his fault. I am all for it all the time though. But not with the big belly and I don't feel well most of the time I am glad that he doesn't really want it either.

I took my blood tests and GD test today. I nearly passed out because I got so dizzy, I am so glad that is over. I had to lie down for the remainder of the test. That drink is nasty. I feel terrible now.

Anyhow, here is my 26 week 2 day photo.

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[whittnie117]

Also Alchemist, it's the same with me totally. If I didn't have so much unrelated back and other pain, I'd be shaving my legs every 2 days as well. Right now I look and feel like Chewbaca or cousin it. Seriously, it' bad. Poor OH. I have never shaved my arms though. Not since teen years.
My head hair is shedding so much too. Everyone here keeps finding my hair everywhere and I can't control it, it's really embarrassing.


EDIT: It's a Woot Off day on all the Woot sites. There are really good deals on there, but they are selling out fast. Right now it's a video monitor for 89.99 on Kids Woot. If I didn't already have gift cards to amazon electronic, I would get it.

 

[luna_19]

My leg hair is growing way slower and thinner than usual...weird.

I realized the other day that I can't see to shave my lady bits at all anymore I usually would shave it all off every week or two but I was scared to do it blind so just did my bikini area