Now a single mummy....or after tonight anyway!

[lauraperrysan]

Well after nearly 3 years together and 4 m/c's our relationship has come to and end I know it's for the best as all we do is argue but i'm still sad about it. We never talk (my OH just wont open up or speak to me....EVER) never has done to anyone. He has become very short tempered lately towards me and my daughter (from previous relationship). We we've not been happy for a while but still a big step for him to actually move out. He's meant to be moving out tonight and taking his stuff (including the bed and washing machine, great)!! Also the lovely car I drive is his so have no transport to get to work and anywhere, why is life so complicated after a break up.
So I guess it's going to be a hard few weeks.
However once I am all sorted I hope I feel happier than I do now
xxx

 

[Jkelmum]

Are you on benefits ? If u are you can apply for a bugeting loan that will help you pay for the washer ect ....also if your not but are going to be applying and this as left you with little money you can apply for a crisis loan ....hope things get better for you xx

 

[Alexas Mommy]

 

[lauraperrysan]

Are you on benefits ? If u are you can apply for a bugeting loan that will help you pay for the washer ect ....also if your not but are going to be applying and this as left you with little money you can apply for a crisis loan ....hope things get better for you xx

Thanks serina, Im not at the moment but I will be once he moves out. I only work 18 hours a week. But im worried coz we have 4 months left of our tenancy with both names on it so im worried the council wont accept a claim from me as a single person? Do you know about this? xx

 

[Jkelmum]

Are you on benefits ? If u are you can apply for a bugeting loan that will help you pay for the washer ect ....also if your not but are going to be applying and this as left you with little money you can apply for a crisis loan ....hope things get better for you xx

Thanks serina, Im not at the moment but I will be once he moves out. I only work 18 hours a week. But im worried coz we have 4 months left of our tenancy with both names on it so im worried the council wont accept a claim from me as a single person? Do you know about this? xx

They will hun as long as you declare he as moved out ...you need to imform tax credits helpline and tell them your changes ...you should get help with rent also single persons discount on council tax plus they may even help you on that too https://www.entitledto.co.uk this site is good for helping see what you can get

 

[lauraperrysan]

thank you so much serina, im such a mess right now. dont know what to think. i'll call them tomorrow, dont think i can do it at the mo....thank you

 

[Jkelmum]

Yw pm me if u need to chat xxx

 

[lauraperrysan]

thank you. i'll let you know how i get on tomorrow...just seen we both have daughters called Lily.....it's such a pretty name xxx