So... we've been trying for some time now (almost a year now) and we gave up for a while (about 3 months). It was getting depressing not being able to conceive.. We both were thinking "what is wrong with me"... well, last night, we tried to 
and.... we couldn't...well, he couldn't. This isn't the first time either. he actually tried Cialis before and it didn't work. So, back to the doctor to see what else we can do. This is SOOOO FRUSTRATING!!!!!!!!!! 
and.... we couldn't...well, he couldn't. This isn't the first time either. he actually tried Cialis before and it didn't work. So, back to the doctor to see what else we can do. This is SOOOO FRUSTRATING!!!!!!!!!! 
Been there, done that. (Or not done that, actually! 
) We've been ttc #1 for over two years and several months ago DH started having trouble keeping it up. The stress of it all was really getting to him. He went to the dr about it and the dr said that it sounded like he really needed counseling - DH said yeah, we're already doing that but my wife is 37 and we can't afford to lose the time waiting for therapy alone to work! The dr understood and gave him some cialis and viagra to try and see what worked. The cialis generally does the trick when he needs it. Has your DH tried any other drugs? They each work in slightly different ways, so if cialis isn't working for him, perhaps try a different one. 
