Aphy
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I had my mirena removed beginning of March and had my first period last week. Initially DH and I said we wanted to start ttc #2 but we are so ambivalent that I think we are currently more going to ntnp and only start actively ttc later in the year. It was a struggle to fall pregnant with my ds and eventually I was diagnosed with pcos and so had to do the temping and clomid thing. My problem now is that because of how involved I had to be last time, whether I like it or not, I know when my fertile time is and also am aware of when my cm indicates fertility. I cant stop being aware of it so now I dont know whether I should be avoiding dtd around fertile time or encouraging it. DH and I dont have a very active sex life and when it does happen, I usually have to initiate it so as much as I want to have a relaxed approach towards it for now, I cant. I pretty much dont have a libido to speak of so its not as if I will get carried away with lust regardless of the timing and thus forget the date etc. Dtd is always a conscious decision and effort I make. I am enjoying our ds so much currently that I am ambivalent about ttc which is why I would prefer the ntnp approach for a few months