**** October Bumpkins 2010 - 3rd Trimester - Born so far 50 Boy's and 48 Girl's! ****

[MadamRose]

No one has BB i got a thread in teen parenting and no one has. I think people are quite worried nothing on facebook or here

 

[brunettebimbo]

I keep checking Facebook, I'm so worried about her, do you have her number?

 

[MadamRose]

yes but last i knew her phone was in for repair so she didny have a phone
im really worried 2 she was my bump buddie and eden was due same day as chloe

 

[MommyKC]

I really hope Em is okay. Hopefully she's just too busy with Edie to update us.

Jules - Feeling sick and nauseaous can definitely be a good sign. They say when you're close to labour, our hormones go wild and this can give us a big rush of them making us feel sick. Fingers crossed for you!

Claire - When I had a sweep done with my daughter, I didn't find it bad. Basically just made me feel crampy, similar to period pains. Bring a pad with you because you will probably spot/bleed a little afterwards. They are only painful if they're done when you aren't dilated or effaced at all, but most midwives won't do them unless you're one or the other. I'm having one done this Friday if I make it there... seriously, don't be afraid of them. They aren't bad at all.

3 days until I'm due, and still no signs at all!!!!

 

[juless]

Some people don't have any signs then kablammo! LABOR! I hope that happens for you soon MommyKC! I'm getting some cramping today and bad back pains, also looots of cervix pains! I'm heading into town after work (yep, I'm still working.. but it's just looking after my disabled aunt for my mom so lots of time to put my feet up!) to do some last minute things before Rose arrives. I'm hoping the walking around helps things to get going more!

 

[MommyKC]

Yeah I know lots of women who had no signs at all, and then labour started. So you never know, I am hopeful in a way, but also hopeless in another way. I feel like she's never going to come, even though I know better... I'm just getting more and more impatient. Either way, only 11 days TOPS until induction... but I soooo want to avoid that.

I walked around a bunch today, went to the mall with my mom and walked around like 3 times... and still nothing other than my hips are even sorer than usual.

 

[MadamRose]

I really hope Em is okay. Hopefully she's just too busy with Edie to update us.

I was hoping that too kate. just been on my facebook to see if she had updated and im no longer on her friends and she doesnt come up in the search

 

[Twiglet]

Hmm, how odd

If it helps ladies I had NO signs before my labour began...and my first contraction I wasn't even sure if this was it 2 hours later I was holding my beautiful son

 

[brunettebimbo]

O no me neither Phillippa

Jules I stared throwing up the week before I had Tristan

 

[juless]

I hope it means it will be soon!
I had lots of lower back pain during the night.. no fun.. Before bed last night I had a sudden urge to do the dishes and tidy/organize the kitchen. So I was up cleaning at 11:30 at night - nesting much? hehe I was annoyed that my husband was sleeping and I couldn't vacuum and mop too. Going to today, after I eat a ton of food cause I'm starving!!

 

[angelpuss]

If it helps ladies I had NO signs before my labour began...and my first contraction I wasn't even sure if this was it 2 hours later I was holding my beautiful son

I didn't have any signs either until I was woken up by a contraction and then the start of my waters breaking!!

Although, I wasn't quite as quick as you Twiglet...I had to wait 5 hours before I could hold my gorgeous little boy

 

[Hann79]

Felicity Annabell was born at 9.56am weighing 7lb 13Ozs. Totally beautiful and totally in love with her already. Xxx

 

[MommyKC]

Oh no I can't search Em either. Gosh I hope everything is okay!!!!

Well, still no signs... I'm hoping no signs is a good sign? Although I am getting more and more pain everyday... so you never know! I never had any real signs with Kyree either, other than some of my mucous plug falling out... and I went into labour on my own. So fingers crossed!!!

I am not sleeping well at all anymore. I'm exhausted but I just lay in bed at night, waiting and waiting. And on top of being uncomfortable... I just don't sleep. It sucks because I NEED to sleep while I still can, and then I end up being exhausted all day and taking a nap in the afternoon while my daughter naps. My schedule is just messed right up and Im sooo tired. I wish I could sleep before I REALLY can't sleep, ever.

 

[MommyKC]

Congrats Hann!!!! How amazing!

 

[Serenity81]

Aww, huge congratulations Hann xx

 

[claire911]

Congrats Hann79

Its reassuring to hear from the other ladies who have had no signs before their contractions started

And thanks for sharing sweep stories, keep them coming for me!!

Due date is today!!!!!!!!!

 

[juless]

Congrats Hann!!!!
Happy due date claire911!!!!
MommyKC - hope you can get a good night's sleep soon! I know how you feel.. I wake up feeling less rested than when I went to bed usually!
I'm feeling pretty crampy today! My sister is coming down today with my nephew to take over for me looking after my aunt once the baby arrives. I'm really glad because it's a weight off of my mind! I really feel like I could go into labor at any minute. I just this odd feeling or something. I'm sure I'm completely wrong though and will still be pregnant this time next week, lol!

 

[brunettebimbo]

OMG has anyone received a private mail from Em? I'm so shocked

 

[Twiglet]

I'm personally rather disgusted...sorry to all who knew her

I had 5 sweeps with Caitlyn btw, none of them hurt, they were uncomfy and I bled after each one! My last one worked but I was having irregular contractions then anyway.

 

[brunettebimbo]

Ok so you all know...some of you don't have her as a "friend" on Facebook.

This is the message we received -

"I’m sorry.
That’s the only thing I can think to say to even try and make it a little better.

But I know that won’t help in the slightest.
It’ll just maybe show you that I regret doing what I did.
There’s nothing I can say to justify it. I could say that it’s because of my life. And all the things that went wrong.
I could say it’s because I was told there was a small chance I could conceive; and that caused me to become baby obsessed. I could tell you my parents split up and remarried, over and over again. And that this past year my life has been turned upside down.
I could tell you that I was on another site. And I got really close to people who I spoke to everyday for a year. And it turns out they’re not who they say they are. And it hurt.
I would tell you that I just wanted other people to know how I felt, so I hurt them in the exact same way.
I could say that I wanted to be pregnant so bad, that maybe if I imagined it, or hoped enough, it would happen.
They’re ALL just excuses.
You can’t justify something like this.
I joined the site in April when I first thought I was pregnant. I just looked around at first and by my calculations I should’ve been about 10 weeks along. I didn’t know for sure if I was pregnant, but I was positive.. the rules said only girls who were pregnant could post. So I said I was.
I took a test a few weeks after and when it came back negative, I guess I just didn’t know how do say I wasn’t. I talked to you girls and you were so nice and all the while I had this nagging voice in the back of my head saying “how am I going to get out of this?”.
The truth is that I didn’t really want to. I became the person who I wished I could be. It was like a fantasy life. I know that most of you didn’t wish this to happen. And that you would warn girls NOT to be in your situations by choice. But that was the only thing I wanted.
I became the person that I wanted to be; his girl who had a happy life and was expecting a daughter and had a loving boyfriend. This life became better than my real one. And that is why I couldn’t let go.
And when I talked to you girls, I felt like I was really her. It was an escape from my real life.
Yes, I’m sick in the head. I’m pathetic and disgusting and what I did isn’t even wrong, it’s so much more beyond that.
And I know that explaining this won’t make it better, and I’m sure over half of you have stopped reading and are either happy you were right or are lost for words.
I guess this is selfish and more for my own peace of mind. I just wanted you to know that I didn’t set out to intentionally hurt anyone. And this escalated into something I never wanted or expected it to.
And the sane and normal thing to do would have been to just say I think I’m pregnant. And then when I found out to say it was negative.
Every time I came on, I felt sick. And guilty. And I deserve that. It became like a gambling problem. A bad habit.
I know some of you may think this is all a lie to get attention or sympathy or to get me off the hook. I don’t deserve forgiveness or understanding.
I’m selfish and horrible and all the other words I can think of. And I’m so sorry to everyone I’ve hurt.
The best word I can think of is coward.
I’m sorry I led you all on to believe I was someone I wasn’t.
And that it went on for so long.
I’m sorry for the pain I’ve caused to all of you who kept believing me and who wanted to keep giving me the benefit of the doubt. And to those who stood up for me even though others were against you.
I’m sorry I took the time out of your lives and to whoever I spoke to for taking up theirs.
As for the pictures; my mum told me once that I looked so fat, I could be 6 months pregnant. So when I thought about it, all I had to do was take a few pictures.. and I could be this girl.
I don’t have a boyfriend. I guess that was another aspect of this life I wanted. I didn’t want to be the girl who got pregnant the first time she did it with a randomer at a party. It seemed easier to lie.
I’m sick. I know.
I am 17. And I am a girl.
My name is not Emeline, but I never go by my real name online.. at least at first.
I’m just trying to make sure I don’t leave anything unanswered for those still reading.
I’m just sorry.
I wish there was more I could say or do to make it better.
But I don’t believe there is.
Except me disappearing out of your lives.
So I’m sorry.
This was more for me than for you, obviously.
I’m sure most of you would have been happy not to read this.
I just hope this doesn’t make you doubt other newcomers. Most aren’t sick in the head and are looking for honest advice, and someone to be there for them when the rest of the world isn’t.
I’m a faker. And I am truly sorry.
I hope you all have amazing and happy and successful lives. And that you know how much of a gift you’re children are.
You’re amazing all of you. And I wish I could have gotten to know you as the real me.
I wish this could make it all better.
That’s all I could think to say.


I didn’t send this to Jade. I don’t want to ruin what should be the best day of her life.
So whoever wants to tell her, go ahead.
For whatever it’s worth, I’m sorry. "

I have reported her to admin.

PLEASE don't turn this into a hate thread, I do not want this thread locking because of her, I just thought you all had a right to know.