@Mummy2Corban
Lovely photo hon. I still need to get one of Tommy and Harley but Tommy is having none of it haha.
I'm definitely happy were gonna give it one last shot but it's knowing the time to try that's difficult. I want to hold out as long as possible and enjoy Harley but at the but at the same time I'm worried leaving it to long I will be too old.
Keep seeing lots of stories of womon naturally getting pregnant and having healthy babies at 42 43 and even 44 and 45 but when u look at the statistics on Google its pretty depressing saying its only about a 2% chance past 42.
And then I keep thinking am I being selfish.
I know if it doesn't happen I will get upset I keep saying I won't, but I know when it comes down to actually ttc I will be upset if it dont happen or if I have to go through more losses.
I think what we're gonna do is not try but not prevent either when the time comes.
Ideally I want to wait untill I turn 43 because Harley will be 15 and a half months old then.
But I just don't know if it will be to late.
My husband says he don't mind when I come of the mini pill I can choose when. He has even agreed to trying next spring summer but then if I fall quickly (not saying I will) the age gap is gonna be so close. So ideally I'd rather hold off as long as possible so Harley will be 2 and Tommy 4 by the time a new baby wud be born.
I had overion reserve bloods done on 29th Dec and never got the results because I fell pregnant with Harley in the beginning of January.
But I've booked a appointment with the Dr for my nose and I'm gonna get them blood results at the same time.
But I had it done in Dec so that was 11 months ago now so things may of changed alot since then. According to a lady on here she said that from 40 onwards our fertility declines on a daily basis.
I did get pregnant 5 times in 11 months tho at 40 and then 41 pregnant with Harley so I'm hoping that's a good sign i am still fertile and I've still have a few more years yet b4 peri menopause starts.
I just wish a little person cud tell me how long I have left but I know that's impossible.
I just have to go into it with the unknown and see what happens.
What wud u do in my situation hon. Wud u hold out or wud u try sooner.
I mean is 42 and 43 gonna make much difference ?
@topazicatzbet
Aww the hair makes me melt. So adorable.
@daniyaaq definitely nesting hon. Hopefully not long now.
@Reiko_ctu
Hope baby comes soon. I'm on tender hooks when I come on here.
Can't believe all the babies will be born soon.
Scary how fast its all gone.