Shakeitout
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My OH is a smoker. When I became pregnant he was all "right I'm going to give up" ect, but he hasn't, when j was first pregnant he stopped smoking around me, then as the pregnancy went on he got bored of making the effort and started smoking around me / just before seeing me so he stank of it all the time. I was annoyed but put up with it for a few weeks before putting my foot down again. Now he doesn't smoke before seeing me, but it's still on his clothes, in his hair, in his car ect and it's really annoying me.
We don't live together at the moment, thankfully, but are moving in when baby is about 3/4 months old. I live with my mum and have completely done out my room to make it ready for baby and he still lives out of his teenagers bedroom at his parents house (he is 32!). I asked him yesterday if he was planning on cleaning it up to make room for when we spend time there with baby and his reply was that he would move some stuff back on his desk and the baby's basket can go in there... Seriously!?
Since I found out I was pregnant I've not have one drop of alcohol, have eaten well, taken care of myself, I've been ill for the past 5 weeks and taken nothing for it because of the pregnancy, and the 1 thing that he could do to make a difference for the baby is to give up smoking and he's just not interested. It has just made me really angry. :/
We don't live together at the moment, thankfully, but are moving in when baby is about 3/4 months old. I live with my mum and have completely done out my room to make it ready for baby and he still lives out of his teenagers bedroom at his parents house (he is 32!). I asked him yesterday if he was planning on cleaning it up to make room for when we spend time there with baby and his reply was that he would move some stuff back on his desk and the baby's basket can go in there... Seriously!?
Since I found out I was pregnant I've not have one drop of alcohol, have eaten well, taken care of myself, I've been ill for the past 5 weeks and taken nothing for it because of the pregnancy, and the 1 thing that he could do to make a difference for the baby is to give up smoking and he's just not interested. It has just made me really angry. :/