oh dear here i am again

[mummy2anangel]

hi ladies just come back to this site as i have had a few months away as i was gettin obsessive with the whole TTC malarky, well here i am now 8dpo and going insane even though i told myself the whole 'if it happens it happens' i have found myself obsessively POAS since 6dpo and still get upset when i see BFN erm what else do i expect to see that early????? anyway i was just wondering if spot breakouts and cramping in lower left hand side of my back are a good sign? then again i could just be imagining it its so easy to get fully drawn into this 2WW isnt it haha xx

 

[Lynsay]

Hi, I can't really give you any advice, but it might help to know that we lost our little one and didn't find out until the scan at nearly 14 weeks.

It's torture being so close to having something so perfect then having it snatched away...but you need to stop stressing yourself out, it can't be a good thing for you or your future baby.

It's hard though, I do understand. You get stuck in a cycle of desperately trying then getting stressed at testing.

I was thinking of taking a TTC break too, did this help you at all?

Take care xx

 

[ClaireyF]

Hi hun, i am a POAS addict and even though i am not due AF until 14th I have already done a couple of tests and have obviously been BFN...why do we torture ourselves??? and everything i experience is a sympton...i think i'm just convincing myself that I am pg!! xx

 

[mummy2anangel]

its just so annoyin isnt it, month after month we torture ourselves just to be dissapointed then we vow we wont do it again but hey the next month were still at it its crazy haha, yes lynsay i get what your saying and im so sorry to hear of your loss too life is just too cruel sometimes yes it did help me a little we found we were spending more time doing fun things as a couple instead of obsessing so much but now im slipping back into it but never mind ill try and control myself this time round good luck to both of you and thyanks for replying xx

 

[seoj]

Glad to know I'm not the only one going insane! lol.... we just found out a few weeks ago that my hubby's 2nd reversal worked (the first one didn't take and it was 6 months b4 we found out... )-- We found out much earlier this round, so there is relief, of course, that it will work this time... but the waiting, no matter how much I said it would be easier, is still killing me! lol. I was fine the first week- but the closer the day get's to testing, the harder it is to put out of my mind... I guess you really can't huh? Least not for long...

It's just so not fair... let's make sure your boobs are sore, your bloated and emotional (whether your pregnant or just premenstrual)--- THEN try to stay rational all week while you wait to take a test! LOL. Um... not so easy I try not to read into every little symptom, as I know it could go either way... now if there was just a safe pill we could take to turn off our brain this week... ??? aaaaah, how nice would that be?!

GOOD LUCK TO YOU ALL!!!!