Oh dear....I promised oh some time tonight

[Gingerspice]

40 weeks tomorrow. We've not dtd for weeks (months!!?) And I stupidly agreed to give it a go tonight. Why did I do that! Lol

 

[jzgrace]

Lol you never know it may kick start labour! And give oh some attention before lo gets here. Dh and I have been pretty active throughout. I dont want him feeling left out lol. I just dont look forward to the 6 week recovery time.....

 

[lemongrass]

We've been doing it more to try to help labour along. I'm not saying it's good lol, but we're doing it.

 

[Mummy to be x]

I did this the other day, and then I broke my promise

Tomorrow, I hit 37 weeks so I've told OH I need him for sex

 

[MollyNorwood]

The last time DH and I DTD was about a week ago. It takes me a little bit to get going as its awkward and things hurt but have enjoyed it on average about once- twice a week this whole time.
We were talking last night and I have said I think thats it for now... I have SPD, and my hoo-ha feels like it is about to fall out of my body, also my tummy hurts when I move in bed too much so.... lol.
Sucks because I still WANT to, just can't anymore!

 

[krulci]

We were pretty consistent throughout until a few weeks ago... Preterm labor signs sent DH running. After hinting (ie: pleading) and getting no results, I decided to corner him in his sleep. Worked!! If he doesn't seem interested again, tonight, I'll do the same. When we DTD the other night, the next day I was consistently crampy all day, so I think it helped!

Either way... that six week wait. Yick. I need to get my fill now.

 

[Gingerspice]

OH works away a lot so we're used to extended periods on inaction so it isn't too bad for us!

Well we managed it anyway. Due date today plus full moon. We'll see!!

 

[hanni]

Total opposite for us..
I jumped on him last night and after 2 seconds jumped off because it felt awful! It felt like someone was poking a bruise or something.

Poor guy was left hanging and very confused 😖😂

 

[KrissyKris22]

Lucky for some of you. I couldn't even if I wanted to. The thought of it makes.my body hurt. And I know I wouldn't enjoy it the way I really want too. So were jus waiting until after I have the baby lol :'(.

 

[Pix]

I told DH it was a go now! Lol. So maybe we are doing it to induce and progress but at least its fun!

Wasn't too terribily awkward and felt good to be close like that again.

 

[londonangel]

We're waiting until we've had the baby as I'm carrying ridiculously low and last time we tried we couldn't actually do it, if that makes sense! Plus I'm far too knackered!

 

[curlykate]

I've learned that rule the hard way.....NEVER promise it! Promise that you'll try, but don't promise the actual deed! I have a really hard time getting in the mood with this pregnancy, and there are some days where I just can't fake it through. I'm also more likely to get in the mood, if I know it's not expected of me, if that makes any sense.
Poor OH. When I was pregnant with DS, I wanted it ALL. THE. TIME. I think he feels a bit cheated this time.

 

[siobhankerry]

i feel bad, cause i wanna but i really dont know how to get fired up for him, just dont feel like a woman anymore
its been a goood old length of time since we DTD, last time we tried we got into the rhythm for like 1 minute and i was in tears with pain

would loveeee to be like some of you ladies who can just GO for it & actually enjoy it hehe!!

happy Lovin'! xox

 

[amyleigh89]

My bits just hurt. I couldn't face it without a tonne of lube and good hour of foreplay. Even then my back hurts, pelvis hurts and I'm paranoid because I've got piles a teeny bit. That just about ruins any position we can try and makes it all seem a bit like a military operation.

I can't really face any intimacy... I just tell him to head to the toilets with some tissues. Lol. With DD we had sex at 3 weeks post emcs - I was gagging for it so I hope that'll be the case this time too!!

Good on you all for soldiering through! X