lilesMom
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I'm just wondering if I'm over reacting
Or its justified crossness
4 nights last week, he wasn't home until we were in bed.
Worked late twice.
Took colleagues to dinner once ( had to, work thing, doesn't happen very often)
Then last night, went fixing his car outside.
Our ds cant walk, our bedroom is upstairs and my back is dodgy
He usually lifts ds up to bed
Today being sat, he had a sleep in.
Then went right out fixing his car again.
I know he has to do it.
But could he not spend an hour with his son first.
My back and hips are sore anyway
Now they r extra sore since I've been alone with my 20 kg ds all week.
Both days of the weekend he sleeps in.
I get no sleep in ever.
I know ye will prob say talk to him
But i do,
He might get better for a tiny bit
Then back to square one again
I honestly feel like a single parent a lot of the time.
Hats off to genuine single parents
Cos its bloody difficult .
He came in finally at nearly 5 pm.
So I said I'm going for a nap.
I really just need a rest and a break.
Ok that's my rambly rant
Am I being unreasonable cos they r genuine things that keep him away mostly
Or is he being unfair expecting me to be the only parent in the house
While he just flits in and plays every now and then?
Beyond the odd nappy change that is honestly all he does.
I go to bed with ds and stay with him
Cos of his epilepsy every single night.
Oh never takes a turn of this ever either
I know its half my fault for allowing it
But now ds is so used to me,
He wont want his dad to do it.
I'm goosed when next jelly bean comes along.
I'm done feeling sorry for myself.
Just needed to get it out and off my chest!!
Xx
Or its justified crossness
4 nights last week, he wasn't home until we were in bed.
Worked late twice.
Took colleagues to dinner once ( had to, work thing, doesn't happen very often)
Then last night, went fixing his car outside.
Our ds cant walk, our bedroom is upstairs and my back is dodgy
He usually lifts ds up to bed
Today being sat, he had a sleep in.
Then went right out fixing his car again.
I know he has to do it.
But could he not spend an hour with his son first.
My back and hips are sore anyway
Now they r extra sore since I've been alone with my 20 kg ds all week.
Both days of the weekend he sleeps in.
I get no sleep in ever.
I know ye will prob say talk to him
But i do,
He might get better for a tiny bit
Then back to square one again
I honestly feel like a single parent a lot of the time.
Hats off to genuine single parents
Cos its bloody difficult .
He came in finally at nearly 5 pm.
So I said I'm going for a nap.
I really just need a rest and a break.
Ok that's my rambly rant
Am I being unreasonable cos they r genuine things that keep him away mostly
Or is he being unfair expecting me to be the only parent in the house
While he just flits in and plays every now and then?
Beyond the odd nappy change that is honestly all he does.
I go to bed with ds and stay with him
Cos of his epilepsy every single night.
Oh never takes a turn of this ever either
I know its half my fault for allowing it
But now ds is so used to me,
He wont want his dad to do it.
I'm goosed when next jelly bean comes along.
I'm done feeling sorry for myself.
Just needed to get it out and off my chest!!
Xx