nikky0907
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The closer I am to my due date the more stuff goes through my mind.
I started thinking about what happens if I die in childbirth or something happens to me while she is very young.
I know,morbid and crazy but this stuff happens and I really want to be prepared for this so she suffers as less stress as possible and there are no confusions.
I mean is her dad the person she goes to? If I die in childbirth he still has to sign the birth certificate,does that mean she automaticly goes to his care?
Or should I write some kind of a paper that says to whom the custody goes to?
I am now worried if that happens how will he deal with her? Maybe it's better to give the custody to my sister,she is already raising one boy(her stepson) and is really good at it?
What do you guys think? And what are your plans?
Exuse the depressing,crazy,'gives me the chills' kind of theme....
xxx
I started thinking about what happens if I die in childbirth or something happens to me while she is very young.
I know,morbid and crazy but this stuff happens and I really want to be prepared for this so she suffers as less stress as possible and there are no confusions.
I mean is her dad the person she goes to? If I die in childbirth he still has to sign the birth certificate,does that mean she automaticly goes to his care?
Or should I write some kind of a paper that says to whom the custody goes to?
I am now worried if that happens how will he deal with her? Maybe it's better to give the custody to my sister,she is already raising one boy(her stepson) and is really good at it?
What do you guys think? And what are your plans?
Exuse the depressing,crazy,'gives me the chills' kind of theme....
xxx