ok so who wants to get pregnant in 2011? (closed group)

[Kylarsmom]

Sarah, just wanted to stop by and say hello! How are you doing hun!?

Hi Kylarsmom!! Im doing great thanks, on my 2nd cycle since my polyp removal so wish me luck!! how are you doing, when is your due date??! doesnt seem that long ago you got your bfp, time goes fast. You will be trying for your 3rd when Im still trying for my 1st thanks for checking in, I do pop on your thread every now and then to see if you updated

sorry took me so long to respond! how was the polyp removal ? Was it a surgery or just a procedure? Was it painful? I really hope it helps you ! Im sure it will! No I will not be trying for my 3rd anytime soon dont you worry about that!! Im due Aug 5 but having a csection July 26 , so next month!! cant really believe how fast it has gone! crazy!!!!!!!

 

[sarahincanada]

I just was looking at the notes in my FF chart as I hadnt before and it says

"Possibly Triphasic on Day 21"

I was like wtf?? I looked it up and it said its a 2nd shift up so I guess thats why they put that. Im annoyed as it will now get my hopes up grrrrrr. but it also said that a lot of non pregnant chart gets them and Im sure my temp with plummet tomorrow just like last month at 11 dpo

 

[sarahincanada]

Sarah, just wanted to stop by and say hello! How are you doing hun!?

Hi Kylarsmom!! Im doing great thanks, on my 2nd cycle since my polyp removal so wish me luck!! how are you doing, when is your due date??! doesnt seem that long ago you got your bfp, time goes fast. You will be trying for your 3rd when Im still trying for my 1st thanks for checking in, I do pop on your thread every now and then to see if you updated

sorry took me so long to respond! how was the polyp removal ? Was it a surgery or just a procedure? Was it painful? I really hope it helps you ! Im sure it will! No I will not be trying for my 3rd anytime soon dont you worry about that!! Im due Aug 5 but having a csection July 26 , so next month!! cant really believe how fast it has gone! crazy!!!!!!!

omg I cant believe how fast its gone, amazing!! I will check in with you nexy month and I will let you know if I ever get my bfp!!!
operation was fine as I was put under general, recovery was fine too

 

[Dew]

I just was looking at the notes in my FF chart as I hadnt before and it says

"Possibly Triphasic on Day 21"

I was like wtf?? I looked it up and it said its a 2nd shift up so I guess thats why they put that. Im annoyed as it will now get my hopes up grrrrrr. but it also said that a lot of non pregnant chart gets them and Im sure my temp with plummet tomorrow just like last month at 11 dpo

Sarah, however much I want you to get BFP ASAP, I am not the one to push people in believing things which might not be true and may hurt later. I'll continue to pray that your temps stay high and I'll be jumping up and down if you get pregnant this cycle but just so you stay grounded I'll point out that you had high temp on 9dpo last cycle too, right? It can go either way from here so let's hope for the best...

 

[Dew]

But definitely your temps are much much better than last time...

Lately, my temps were not as I would expect and yesterday I realized that low battery symbol is flickering on thermometer so now I know the culprit

 

[sarahincanada]

I just was looking at the notes in my FF chart as I hadnt before and it says

"Possibly Triphasic on Day 21"

I was like wtf?? I looked it up and it said its a 2nd shift up so I guess thats why they put that. Im annoyed as it will now get my hopes up grrrrrr. but it also said that a lot of non pregnant chart gets them and Im sure my temp with plummet tomorrow just like last month at 11 dpo

Sarah, however much I want you to get BFP ASAP, I am not the one to push people in believing things which might not be true and may hurt later. I'll continue to pray that your temps stay high and I'll be jumping up and down if you get pregnant this cycle but just so you stay grounded I'll point out that you had high temp on 9dpo last cycle too, right? It can go either way from here so let's hope for the best...

yes thats why Im assuming it will plummet tomorrow!

however the 1 random high temp on 9dpo last month is quite different to this month....they didnt suggest triphastic last month, where this month starting from CD21 theres a 2nd shift in temps with 3 higher temps making it possibly triphastic.

I was just annoyed as I was letting myself down gently after the bfn and then read that..but reading non pregnant charts have it makes me still think Im out!!! Im very careful not to get my hopes up in fact Im quite the opposite

 

[Dew]

Yes Sarah, definitely chart is looking b'ful this time *touch wood*

I am like you too, very cautious when it comes to raising hopes, I would rather think negative and be pleasantly surprised later

Do you have any symptoms?

Here is what I believe...that it is your turn to get pregnant on this thread, once you get your BFP, next will be me

 

[sarahincanada]

Yes Sarah, definitely chart is looking b'ful this time *touch wood*

I am like you too, very cautious when it comes to raising hopes, I would rather think negative and be pleasantly surprised later

Do you have any symptoms?

Here is what I believe...that it is your turn to get pregnant on this thread, once you get your BFP, next will be me

no nothing that I havent had before....I tend to not look for symptoms and so dont notice any anymore!

see Ive always believed I will be the last to get a bfp on this thread, and you will be first!!

 

[nypage1981]

I just can't wait to see what your temps do tomorrow sarah. I hope stay up, but I just want to konw either way, im feeling all anxious now! Come on temps....please surprise us, we need a happy surprise!!!

 

[babyhopes2323]

Fx'd for you sarah, let it happen. xx

 

[flyingduster]

FX'd Sarah!!! I was totally the same as you; expecting a BFN, being ok with a BFN (disappointed, but ok with it) but keeping a little hope for a BFP, "one day". The month I got my BFP I was feeling particularly 'blah' about it, and was fully expecting a BFN and was already planning my next cycle and just wanted AF to hurry along so I could get on with it... haha! I think it's a good mindset; sooooooo much easier being (incredibly) happy and surprised than to be dropped into depression all the time... I know you'll get your BFP one day, lets just hope it'll be sooner rather than later! heh. It'll happen though, we all know it, and you know we'll all be jumping over the moon with you!!!

 

[Huggles]

I was similar. The one month I was totally expecting a BFP and was so completely and utterly depressed when I got bfn after bfn (af arrived 4 days late!). Totally gutted.

The next month, however, I was convinced i hadn't ov'd and was totally expecting AF and planning my next cycle. Had even just received IC opks etc. My plan was all set. Then i got a bfp instead and didn't even get to use the opks!

 

[NDH]

Same with me. I'd decided to start temping and had ordered a thermometer for the next month and tested just to see the bfn and prepare myself for AFs arrival.

Funny how it seems to be the month we least were expecting to see that second line that we all got ours.

 

[MummyCat]

ladies!!!

Sorry for my absense... all is okay with me, last week Thursday Hubby was involved in a rather bad car accident on the motorway. Got the call at 11:45pm from him, to say he's been in an accident, the car was a complete write off and that he was in pain and had to go as the ambulance had arrived. BUT.. not to worry... he'll be fine!

Yep...saying that to a pregnant woman is going to result in her calmly going back to sleep!! Uhm NO... so I spent a lot of hours in tears and stressing. Speaking to my Mum in SA.. who is ahead by an hour and trying to contact him. I didn't know that when he first called it was from someone elses phone (he called the home phone and we don't have caller ID) turns out his phone was lost in the wreck that was our car.

Anyway. He got home at 3:30 and since then I've been looking after 2 babies! He's been able to help less with Lottie so it's been a bit tough as I've been very tired. Also having to sort out insurance, car settlements, finding a new car, sorting out the hire car, discussing claim options and Mike getting sorted with physio etc. I've managed to update my journal a little but not managed to get round to visiting the threads I normally do.

I hope you're all well! Flying I'm so thrilled you're getting great movement! Happy 20 weeks to NY!!!

Sarah I love the temps.. they're looking good. We had some good news this morning. Mike's best friend and his wife have been trying to conceive since before we fell pregger with Lottie. (so before June 08) and after recently packing up and moving from Johannesburg, to Durban (a coastal town with a more relaxed way of life - similar to Cape Town) they've fallen pregnant! She also left her stressful job to make the move... so I think that was the biggest factor. Anyway.. they're 8 weeks and Mike and I screamed when we heard their news! I don't think I've ever been more happy for a friend!

Anyway... just thought I'd share the good news! After 3 years, they did it!!!

Hope everyone is well, I'll try keep up a bit better... but in a week's time my folks arrive from SA for 10 days and so all my internet time will be limited as I'll be entertaining them!

 

[NDH]

Oh my goodness! No wonder you've been absent for a while. I'm glad he's ok but that would have been terrifying! If he didn't have even one overnight in the hospital though that's a good thing. You must be exhausted physically and emotionally right now though.

Hooray for your friends! I love love love hearing about people who have been trying for a long time having success (it breaks my heart when people struggle for so long but it's always cause for celebration when they finally get pregnant.) And a former coworker of mine is from Durban, I've heard many stories

 

[babyhopes2323]

flying, yay for all those kicks, must be awesome

omg mummy !!so sorry to hear about the accident but glad that mike is ok and that you are settling down now. it must be tough what with lottie and everything, but so glad youve been able to cope and take care of things..hope he feels better soon ! and great news about your friends.. xx

 

[MummyCat]

Thanks ladies... yeah the car was a very safe one (had a good safety rating) and he did very well to get out of it with no broken bones. He was very badly bruised on his back though. He'd come to a stop as there was a queue of traffic joining the next motorway and the guy behind him didn't notice. He hit Mike at about 50mph (so the other driver says) thats about 80kph i think. Not great if Mike was stationary, he basically spun Mike into the car in front and then the car spun more into the middle of the motorway. A lorry driver very cleverly parked his truck lengthways across the road so that only one lane was open and had to slow down and go around the truck and so not have any more cars smash into Mike until the police had arrived.

Anyway... he's doing great now and think the shock of it was more difficult for him! Lots of worrying thoughts for him though like - Thank goodness Lottie and I weren't in it..etc etc..

I'm trying to find someone I can see about a possible infection! in a few min I can try and see if the nurse can fit me in for an appointment. I tried earlier but the said to try again after 1pm.

 

[Huggles]

hope you get an appointment soon mummycat

 

[sarahincanada]

omg mummycat thats crazy!!! I kept meaning to check your journal and didnt see anything on facebook about it, my god I would have been in a panic after that call too. so glad to hear everything is ok, although caring for 2 babies is not good how long does he get off work? and how come you think you have an infection? hope you get an apt soon and everything is ok xxx

thanks everyone for the kind words. Another bfn today but my temps is still up where this DPO last month it went way down. Sure it doesnt mean anything and can still plummet anyday.

Flying you said it great...

FI think it's a good mindset; sooooooo much easier being (incredibly) happy and surprised than to be dropped into depression all the time... I know you'll get your BFP one day, lets just hope it'll be sooner rather than later! heh. It'll happen though, we all know it, and you know we'll all be jumping over the moon with you!!!

Im totally ok with it not being my month, every month that goes by means its more likely to happen somepoint soon! after so many months I have somewhat lost the excitement of it all, but that will come back when I get my bfp.

going for a massage today then lunch with hubby yay, and I think we are going away for the weekend over the border (havent decided for sure yet). if my period comes tuesday then 2 weeks later I get another try its all good. And Dew you get another try very soon

talk soon, have a wonderful day everyone

 

[Dew]

OMG! Glad Mike is doing fine and you and Lottie were not there in the car when the accident happened. Me and DH have been in a very serious car accident so just the thought of it scares me to the core. Hope Mike recovers very soon...thank God for his safety! take care

Great news about your friend's pregnancy....I love to hear conception related success stories. Every night before sleeping, I visit 'BFP Announcement' section of this forum and read all the news with a smile on my face, then i go to bed with a hope that I too will be able to make that announcement soon

Ugh! What infection are you talking about? Hope it's nothing and you feel better soon....have fun time with your folks