ok so who wants to get pregnant in 2011? (closed group)

[nypage1981]

Oh sarah. I am sorry of your dad's passing, but think it is such a lovely story that your DH came there and asked your dad for your hand in marriage. I know it sounds weird but thats just such a nice story. That is just something very special.

 

[sarahincanada]

Oh sarah. I am sorry of your dad's passing, but think it is such a lovely story that your DH came there and asked your dad for your hand in marriage. I know it sounds weird but thats just such a nice story. That is just something very special.

I know I love that too! We fell in love so early, and with the 9 year age difference who'd have thought. Heres another weird fact: before meeting hubby I loved the movie Meet Joe Black. Not sure if you know it, but the main story is a daughter and dads bond and how he wishes she finds true love and he dies at the end. i used to cry all the time at it as it reminded me of my dad and me. (the movie is a little odd but something about it I loved)

anyway on our first date we were talking about movies and I said 'I have a cool movie collection, not too many chick flicks' and my hubby says 'oh I know a good chick flick...meet Joe Black'. I looked at him and said 'ok you have to marry me now'!!! for him to mention that movie was shocking to me. Its not even a typical chick flick movie and quite obscure and odd.

I really feel that I was meant to meet hubby for him to get me through the worst time of my life. So since then I have really believed the 'meant to be thing'. As frustrated as I am its taking some time for me to get pregnant I do have that strong feeling that it will happen when its supposed to and I cant do anything about it.

 

[nypage1981]

While that movie was coming out it was my favorite movie at the time! I haven't seen it in ages but used to love it!

 

[Dew]

Sarah, I cried reading your message. I love my dad the most in this world and any story, scene in the movie, TV commercial etc that involves dad and daughter makes me very emotional...I am so so sorry that your dad left you....I don't even want to imagine how this must have hurt you, there can never be a good timing for such news...still I love how you found something positive to remember out of it...as NY said, it's a sweet story...you and DH seem to be growing stronger 9-10 years later so it's all a good sign....I like your plan to bring your dad along at the time of delivery but remember he'll be there watching and blessing you...

 

[sarahincanada]

While that movie was coming out it was my favorite movie at the time! I haven't seen it in ages but used to love it!

I cant watch it, too emotional! I even have the soundtrack and the music makes me ball too!!

 

[nypage1981]

Now I feel like I need to watch that but OH is surely NOT a girlie movie kind of guy. Its usually something I hafta do on my own time. Although hes been much better lately with chic flicks, maybe feeling badly for all that coffee he is constantly making that I can only look longingly at......sigh.

 

[sarahincanada]

Now I feel like I need to watch that but OH is surely NOT a girlie movie kind of guy. Its usually something I hafta do on my own time. Although hes been much better lately with chic flicks, maybe feeling badly for all that coffee he is constantly making that I can only look longingly at......sigh.

haha! so what other things do you really miss? I will have to decide if Im going to cut out tea completely or have a couple of teas a day. I cant drink defaf, but my teas are very weak so I think i will still drink a couple as I love it.

hubby is pretty good with movies, although he doesnt like any kind of thriller type ones like I like. I put on 'the lovely bones' the other day and when he found out that someone dies he asked me to turn it off! he mainly likes comedies. I dont like horror movies but I like the detective/serial killer type interesting movies and he thinks Im weird

 

[babyhopes2323]

dew, i had changed my avatar, hence no snow !! you know something.. our losses are what makes us how we are right now and it is probably a way of teaching us to cope with things and make us feel strong for more challenges in our lives later on !

when i lost mine, i thought oh i got pregnant once and then when DH and me were trying for sooo long and it didnt happen, i thought this was gods punishment to me for my termination and that i would not have kids again.. but it did work out in the end so there is always hope... and when you do end up preg dew,, it maybe more worrying for you and everything, and you will be worried just like everyone else, but you will make it through, because your last experience would have taught you by then to be stronger and that will power itself will get you through it !! praying for your BFP that you deserve !

sarah, i cant imagine losing my parents so i can only say im ever so sorry about your loss and it has made you who you are today.. when it comes to losses, i prefer to think that they are in a better place than this world and they are being watched and taken care of..and that helps in the recovery process.. remember when you fall pregnant and have your child, your dad will be watching over you and he will always be there and you will feel it, if your the kind that talks to him in your prayers..sometimes these things do happen,.. and losing a parent or a child or anything in general , at the end, it is a loss and we are allowed to grieve and its ok because the greiving process is going to help us in the long run..i hope you feel better soon.. xx


i have not watched that movie, but i just might download it !

on a lighter note.. im glad the crisps influenced some people !!

ive had an unhealthy pack of salt and vinegars again today, but i think i made up for it by having some carrot and cucumber ! or i like to think so !!

hope everyone else is doing ok..

 

[babyhopes2323]

and sarah great stuff, if not this cycle, then next cycle youll have more energy and maybe you can follow SMEP.. but lets hope those two miserable sessions have done their magic because it usually turns out that way !!! :babydust:

 

[nypage1981]

Sarah- I liked scary kinda thriller movies before pregnancy. IDK what it did to me, but I was watching "Case 39" the other night and was like WE NEED TO TURN THIS OFF a lot of times. Im just more uninterested in seeing bad things right now! But I still can watch all the criminal shows on court tv or whatever it is. They are investigation shows. Love them. I have always wanted to be in forensics or a medical examiner so am not squeamish but that movie really disturbed me!

Sarah- i really miss my wine. We are huge wino's. Or we used to be. So now I have no wine and no coffee. I love sushi also. Although im not really craving that at the moment at all, i still miss OH's and I's special sushi dates with wine. Life sure changes when knocked up! But I would miss hearing my LO heartbeat and feeling fat if i weren't preggers

Baby- Good job on the veggies. I am NOT doing well with veggies and healthy stuff. Im hopeless right now since I dont want anything thats good for me. Last night all I could think of was getting a Blue Raspberry sucker. ???? I haven't had a sucker since probably being a kid and no idea why i wanted that but certainly not healthy.

 

[Dew]

I watch at least one movie every Friday/weekend with DH and I haven't seen the movies you guys are talking about ...I am definitely not watching 'Meet Joe Black'...don't think I can handle that kind of story I love chick-flicks, thrillers, action, drama, comedy etc etc...scary movies not so much especially the gross ones with lots of ugly stuff, blood and all...I watched 'Paranormal Acitivity', it was intelligent scary movie...still give me the creeps when I think of it. My favorite actors are Matt Damon, Leonardo Di Caprio, Mark Wahlberg, Tom Hanks, Clooney, Denzel etc....Last week we watched 'The source code' and now we are waiting for 'Fast and Furious'

Preethi, I woke up late so missed seeing your earlier avatar pic...this one is good too. You are right about loss....learning....and becoming more intelligent and stronger with every such experience.

Does anyone like Dill Pickle Chips?? I do

 

[Dew]

Sarah: So, do you feel pregnant? FXed for you girl!!

 

[Dew]

Q for all the pregnant ladies: What is it that you are avoiding/avoided eating in first trimester because it might not be healthy for yourself and the baby???

 

[flyingduster]

Oh wow Sarah, I'm so sorry about your dad... I can only imagine... I'm not super close to my dad (I am more of a mummys girl), but I still adore him, cos he's my dad! I'm lucky in that he lives in my town still, and he's a taxi driver so he often calls by to see me at work if he's in the area; so I see him every week or so for a few mins at least. I can only imagine......

I am a very very firm believer in stuff that 'is meant to be', there has been SOOOOOOO much in my life that 'has meant to be' that I can't NOT believe in it! Call it God, or Fate, or Luck, or whatever, I don't really know, but something in my life is influencing the direction of it... And in hindsight, it all makes a lot of sense (though at the time it may not! lol). So yes, you WILL get pregnant when you're supposed to get pregnant! That goes for NDH & Dew toooooo!!!




And for Preethi, here is her 9w 2d scan:
https://i80.photobucket.com/albums/j162/flyingduster2/9w2.jpg

and her 10 weeks 5 days scan:
https://i80.photobucket.com/albums/j162/flyingduster2/10w5.jpg

 

[babyhopes2323]

thanks flying.. you can do my 12 week pic too.. forgot your into photography so anything to do with it, ill know whom to come to ! xxx


dew, im avoiding very runny eggs, soft cheeses like feta although i loveeeeee ittt

and in our culture they say pineapple and mango are fruits that cause heat to the body and it is true btw, so to avoid any type of period etc.

thats about it really, i dont eat seafood or red meat anyway so im fine in that category.. im a fussy eater and eat only chicken.. but really thats all i avoid.. i eat every thing else.. junk food, pickles you name it !!

 

[babyhopes2323]

source code has only released this weekend for us.. is it any good? i wanted to watch "paul" .. i saw limitless and really liked it.

 

[sarahincanada]

Sarah: So, do you feel pregnant? FXed for you girl!!

I dont know! its so hard as Ive had quite a few months where I felt pregnant and nothing happened, and then one month with no symptoms and nothing happened. however in the past I could have conceived but not implanted, so I dont know what to think. The sore nipples are hard to ignore, but I think Ive had them before. Also feeling tired, lots of creamy cm etc. Im writing it all down so then I will know what to ignore next cycle!!

Meet Joe Black is a good movie, its sad but also uplifting in many ways. I do recommend it! I love Mark Walberg too, and people think my husband looks a bit like him Im trying to think what we have watched lately....Gone Baby Gone was a good movie, its about a missing girl but theres a twist and really good. Theres an erotic thiller called 'Chloe' thats quite good for a Canadian film (! sorry but theres not that many good CND films lol) it has Julliana Moore, Liam Neeson and Amanda Seigfried. I saw Love and other Drugs on the plane to the UK, it was alright for a rom com. I want to see The Fighter and the Black Swan! And Limitless looks good, but I always wait till it comes out on DVD as dont go to the movies much (we purchased a projector and 80" screen years back, best purchase ever and less cost than a big TV)

 

[Dew]

source code has only released this weekend for us.. is it any good? i wanted to watch "paul" .. i saw limitless and really liked it.

It's not bad, you can watch it once. I could predict its story. 'Limitless' was making me dizzy with those fast camera effects. I would rank them both the same. We are saving 'Paul' to watch on DVD later.

Thanks for the food list to avoid.

 

[Dew]

Sarah: So, do you feel pregnant? FXed for you girl!!

I dont know! its so hard as Ive had quite a few months where I felt pregnant and nothing happened, and then one month with no symptoms and nothing happened. however in the past I could have conceived but not implanted, so I dont know what to think. The sore nipples are hard to ignore, but I think Ive had them before. Also feeling tired, lots of creamy cm etc. Im writing it all down so then I will know what to ignore next cycle!!

Meet Joe Black is a good movie, its sad but also uplifting in many ways. I do recommend it! I love Mark Walberg too, and people think my husband looks a bit like him Im trying to think what we have watched lately....Gone Baby Gone was a good movie, its about a missing girl but theres a twist and really good. Theres an erotic thiller called 'Chloe' thats quite good for a Canadian film (! sorry but theres not that many good CND films lol) it has Julliana Moore, Liam Neeson and Amanda Seigfried. I saw Love and other Drugs on the plane to the UK, it was alright for a rom com. I want to see The Fighter and the Black Swan! And Limitless looks good, but I always wait till it comes out on DVD as dont go to the movies much (we purchased a projector and 80" screen years back, best purchase ever and less cost than a big TV)

Those are good symptoms but I am like you too and don't like to put too much faith in symptoms...let's just wish they mean a BFP for you

Oh you are lucky DH looks like MW I forgot to mention Liam Neeson, I like him too now after watching his movie 'Taken'. I have seen Gone Baby Gone and I know there was a twist but hardly remember it now. If I am not wrong it's first movie directed by Ben Affleck...have you seen his Town? It's awesome! Fighter was my pick for Oscars this year. Not a big fan of actors in Love and Drugs so gave it a miss, might watch on DVD though. Don't remember Chloe but will look for it in Redbox. Haven't watched Black Swan either, DH wasn't interested.

80" screen...that sounds crazy good!

 

[nypage1981]

Black swan was insane. Even for a guy, its not really a chicflick.

Dew I avoid deli meat, caffeine, sushi, soft cheese, hollandaise sauce like eggs Benedict, mayonaise, and fish with high levels of mercury, and sushi of course cuz anyhig raw is a major no no. Suppose raw cookie dough is out too alho I never liked that.