ugh.. i still drink pepsi with all the fast food i eat, i know how bad it is with the caffeine and all, but ive gone cold turkey on tea and coffee so maybe its ok once in a while?
i had to have a tea today. massive headache, slept for over an hour, woke up, no appetite, at 8pm, dehydrated, drank water, had cold compress packs on my forehead and a cup of tea, then drank some more water and its still not going !
tried inhaling the smell of this eucalyptus type oil thing and applying it on my forehead, to no avail !
im so sick of being sick i tell you ! i do consider myself lucky that i havent thrown up once and only had mild MS once in a while, but apart from that its been the headaches i cannot bear... plus my tail bone seems to have frozen! its so painful, i cant bend or stretch.. im walking like a robot !
im done with feeling so ill, wish i could cough up that baby soon.. got 6 more months to go ! ugh... i do feel blessed im not complaining.. well maybe just a little, but today has been a nightmare with the headaches.. my tolerance with pain is actually real good but ive weakened so much !!
sorry about your friend sarah
its awful that he cheated on her .... its quite horrible how men seem to do that to their wives,, and then yes its worse that he did so with a 24 yr old, but hey..ahem.. it just makes me feel like woops.. you know my situation.. weve got a huge age gap too.. in my case.. im the early 20's girl hes gone and married and is having a baby with.. so i dont feel like i come in that category.. i know for a fact that sometimes women in social gatherings such as work etc.. in my experience like at DH's work do's , those women that stay in the UK or even live here with their husbands, dont seem to well , make an effort to speak to me much , they are in their late 30's or whatever and they probably feel that what if their husbands went off with a younger girl .. especially the ones that travel.. but thats not fair on me, because i go over the top to try and be nice to these women and its not like my DH was married or left someone for me, he just married me and now we are having a baby together so i hate women who think i fall into the other category just because of age difference. its horrible because it goes to show how narrow minded some women can be and they maybe insecure, but i didnt do anything to create that feeling ! they just feel that way when they see me with an older guy.
thats how society works..and thinks.. and with or without meaning to say it, you did mention "he went off with a 24yr old..hes in his early 40's how horrible".. well what he did was wrong !! totally wrong..im not trying to say you said it keeping me in mind at all !! ofcourse you didnt..

just saying what i think.. that regardless of how open minded you or anybody may be with the whole age thing, given your situation as well, you still felt that it was wrong that he was in his 40's and the girl he cheated with was in her 20's.. thats just how society is .. and i dont blame you for thinking that way.xx
its what they call kitten in hollywood..hahahahaha i fall in that category.. and you fall in the cougar category.. .. somehow that cougar category seems real nice !!
then again if anybody has anything to say about this, i have a list of over 25 celebrity couples with a hugeeeeeeeeeee age difference.. so we're not out of the norm.. !! these are people we admire on a daily basis so who are others to criticize?
huggles, yay for your scan, will be looking forward to seeing the pics..
well ive still got the massive headache so im off to bed..hope everyone else is doing great !!
FX'd for all your BFP's