ok so who wants to get pregnant in 2011? (closed group)

[babyhopes2323]

thank you so much ladies !!! its so nice to have so much support from all of you

i have been classed as grade 1 so its minor and 1.2 cm, it is not previa, previa and grade 4 low lying is when it completely covers the cervix whereas mine is small and thats why its classed as grade 1, i have anterior low lying placenta which means it has a greater chance of moving but also chance of bleeding, i am not bleeding yet so thankful for that.

i read on one forum that diagnosing placenta at 13 weeks is ridiculous because it is still too early and placenta is usally a little low and does move as uterus grows , maybe ,marcus saw but ignored or he did not pay attention. he did say he was not qualified to carry out radiology type scans, this one was done by radiologist, i am going to go to marcus and when i asked this doc today she said absolutely nothing to worry about as it does not harm baby, but to put my feet up..

dew , mums not in the country at the moment so cant stay with her just visiting my sister who stays at my mums house.

mummy, thank you so much for the information, i am totally not upset reading it, i have googled a lot today and read on previa and i dont have previa. and most of the forums that ive read on, they tend to go on and deliver normally when the placenta moves or have a csection if it does not move. i dont care if i have a c section, i just hope i dont bleed thats all..

they say at early stages not to worry but if placenta does not move and at about after 20 weeks if you have bleeding etc then you got to worry but im trying to stay positive.

i will read on all the links you all have sent me.. thanks a lot ladies.. i hope all of you are doing better. ive got such a bad headache i could try.. but thanks a lot again !

 

[Dew]

Sarah: white circles mean you took the reading beyond the usual time range and so this reading cannot be relied upon. Also, not everybody gets a dip before ovulation, and those who do don't get it in every cycle. A spike in temp followed by at least 2 more high temps indicate you ovulated day before the spike. charting can tell you what day you ovulated after ovulation has occured and not before, for that reason you combine it with OPKs. Hope it helps. I like your BD pattern, wish we did it this way.

ahhh that makes sense, my usual time is 8am, but I did have a 9am and a 10am after sleeping in a bit. good to know! and good to know about the temp dip thing. I guess I am waiting for my spike in temp followed by 2 high temps then! and yes, Im only temping to confirm my ovulation sticks, as I want to make sure it looks like I do actually ovulate after the LH surge, as a lot of people dont. thanks for answering!

this is my first time doing the BDing every other night thing. I planned it so that if I get my smiley face on friday I can also do that night as well, just because every other around ovulation seems too little even though Im sure its plenty. if I dont get my smiley face till saturday or get it tonight I will be annoyed as I didnt get to BD the night before!! my FS said to do it every other night, and I know sperm can last up there for days, but around ovulation I get panicy and it seems too far apart! you doing it 3 days in a room is good too, when exactly where the 3 days compared to ovulation for you?

Our BD Pattern for this cycle:
CD 10- no smiley, BD in PM
CD 11- smiley, BD in PM
CD 12- don't check once I see smiley, BD in PM

Cycle I got BFP:
CD 9, CD 11 (smiley), CD 12, CD 14

My gynec had told me to save sperms and do it on the day of surge and next day or do it every other day starting CD9. I too panic around ovulation time and mess with my BD plan in desperation.

 

[sarahincanada]

I thought my O was off last time b/c I usually have W or EW CM before O but when I got my it was all creamy the day before.

to tell you the truth I dont really get the differences between egg white and creamy etc, and dont bother checking, but when Im wet enough to actually notice it then I notice I also had some globby pieces, but that could have been from the day befores BD semen globs????? ewwww sorry TMI but Ive heard people saying that!!!

 

[sarahincanada]

thank you so much ladies !!! its so nice to have so much support from all of you

i have been classed as grade 1 so its minor and 1.2 cm, it is not previa, previa and grade 4 low lying is when it completely covers the cervix whereas mine is small and thats why its classed as grade 1, i have anterior low lying placenta which means it has a greater chance of moving but also chance of bleeding, i am not bleeding yet so thankful for that.

i read on one forum that diagnosing placenta at 13 weeks is ridiculous because it is still too early and placenta is usally a little low and does move as uterus grows , maybe ,marcus saw but ignored or he did not pay attention. he did say he was not qualified to carry out radiology type scans, this one was done by radiologist, i am going to go to marcus and when i asked this doc today she said absolutely nothing to worry about as it does not harm baby, but to put my feet up..

dew , mums not in the country at the moment so cant stay with her just visiting my sister who stays at my mums house.

mummy, thank you so much for the information, i am totally not upset reading it, i have googled a lot today and read on previa and i dont have previa. and most of the forums that ive read on, they tend to go on and deliver normally when the placenta moves or have a csection if it does not move. i dont care if i have a c section, i just hope i dont bleed thats all..

they say at early stages not to worry but if placenta does not move and at about after 20 weeks if you have bleeding etc then you got to worry but im trying to stay positive.

i will read on all the links you all have sent me.. thanks a lot ladies.. i hope all of you are doing better. ive got such a bad headache i could try.. but thanks a lot again !

hi hunny bunny well thats good to know, and try not to think about the WHAT IF as Im sure you wont have any bleeding and it will just correct itself. get lots of rest....is hubby going to have to do all the packing etc now??

 

[Dew]

Preethi, so happy to read your message...you sound very positive as is required. I always thought your mom lived in Dubai so may be they are in England...probably that's why you have planned that trip Keep praying and wishing for the cute little baby (boy) you have always dreamed of

 

[Dew]

I do get stretchy transparent as supposed to white CM 2-3 days leading to ovulation. It eventually turns watery on O day...and then various degrees of creamy/lotiony/sticky/ blobby(?)/yellow post-O.

 

[sarahincanada]

Our BD Pattern for this cycle:
CD 10- no smiley, BD in PM
CD 11- smiley, BD in PM
CD 12- don't check once I see smiley, BD in PM

Cycle I got BFP:
CD 9, CD 11 (smiley), CD 12, CD 14

My gynec had told me to save sperms and do it on the day of surge and next day or do it every other day starting CD9. I too panic around ovulation time and mess with my BD plan in desperation.

I think what you did this month sounds perfect, I would be happy with that as you BDd the 2 days before Ovulation and the day of (if you ovulated 24 hours after your smiley which is the average).

the month you got your BFP, I wish we could know which exact spermy from which day did it!!! I bet it was the CD11 or 12, but who knows.

sometimes I think I should stick to the every other day and not fill in the extra day around ovulation, but I feel the exact same and panic. A lot of people say the sperm need to regenerate etc, but then I read thats only if theres a problem with the sperm. my hubby has excellent counts so I think every day is fine around O but I think I will ask her this again when I see her next week.

 

[sherylb]

Dew, if it's stretchy I would consider it EW. None of my other types were stretchy.

Sarah, Creamy is lotion-like and not stretchy. EW you will probably see as stringy and it stretches very obviously between your fingers.

 

[sarahincanada]

Dew, if it's stretchy I would consider it EW. None of my other types were stretchy.

Sarah, Creamy is lotion-like and not stretchy. EW you will probably see as stringy and it stretches very obviously between your fingers.

for some reason the info goes in one ear and out the other, I cannot get to grips with all the different types and it looks the same to me oh well, Im temping and doing ov sticks that should be enough!!!

 

[sherylb]

You are probably just fine. No worries.

I on the other hand am dead tired for the second day in a row. Can't wait for our phones to get delivered tomorrow.

 

[sarahincanada]

I totally forgot this morning to point out that we're over 200 pages now! wooooohoo!!!

Baby, I'm so glad all is feeling better and the doc is finding answers too... I hope your move goes well, we'll miss you until you get back!!! Can't wait to hear how it goes!!!


NDH, I'm still soooooooo happy for you!! You've been trying for so long! I was thinking of you today at work too, and it reminded me of the feeling when I got my BFP and I got all giddy with happiness again! haha.

Dew & Sarah, you WILL get it tooooo! This thread has been so amazing...


Everyone else; I hope all is well!!


I was thinking earlier today how when I think of someone else being pregnant, I think of how utterly incredible and amazing it is that they've got a little human growing in their belly! Wow! I imagine it! And it feels so incredible to even try to contemplate it... I know it seems weird, but it's almost like I'm 'used' to being pregnant myself that while I don't forget I'm pregnant, I have to go on with my life so much that the awe of it fades at times. Every now & again I'm utterly struck down with the thought of growing a human in my belly, but I'm still more in awe of others than I am of me! lol!!! It's bizarre...


And speaking of all that, all of a sudden I'm looming on 15 weeks! wtf!? 15!!!??! I'm only 5 weeks away from being HALFWAY! wooooooooah! Seriously!?
I'm having one of those awe-inspired feelings right now, can you tell? lol!


to all! I can't wait for another year when we'll ALL have bouncing babies!! heh.

hi!!! I totally understand what you mean, I am in contstant awe that you and other people I see are growing a person inside. I mean, thats just crazy! so thats interesting to know once its happening to you it feels a little different. my best friend, shes in the uk so I didnt see her at all during her pregnancy and when I saw her baby I was just in shock that she, who Ive known since the age of 12, gave birth to her! even when she showed me a photo of her bump I just couldnt believe it.

also now that I know how hard it is to get pregnant, whenever I see a large group of people I think to myself wow all these people started with someone getting a bfp!

yay for being close to half way!! we will have to have another online party for you. thats wild, it doesnt seem that long ago you got your bfp.

I think NY has quietly slipped into 2nd tri and isnt preethi next week?

 

[NDH]

Preethi massive looks like you're doing the right thing though and becoming informed but staying calm. I hope your placenta moves up in the coming weeks and you don't bleed.

 

[nypage1981]

Hi girls!

Sorry ive been MIA. Had to work all day yeseterday, then today was errands and cleaning, and im pooped.

Preethi- glad you are fine! Sounds like its nothing to worry about to me. Im sure the UTI is just where the pain was coming from.

Sarah- I never had that EWCM. I was so mad! I took so many things for it too. Lol. Finally then month I got bfp i had just ordered preseed to help the spermies live but never needed it! Just like the maca I ordered with it and my BBT. So weird that the cycle I was gunna use all this stuff I never got that far. I had spent $120.00 bucks on amazon for fertility stuff and a few days after receiving it,,,,,bfp!

Sounds like if you have lotiony CM, its going to turn into the fertile stuff soon. I am no good at temp advice since I never got to do it....glad you are having fun with it though, it will tell you a lot I think and is very good to keep doing.

I am 2nd trimester finally! Wooohooo. Hard to believe that one, but I feel like a real pregnant lady now!

 

[nypage1981]

Hello everyone else I wil be off to color easter eggs now, hugs to everyone in here!

 

[Dew]

Hello everyone else I wil be off to color easter eggs now, hugs to everyone in here!

How do you color the eggs? I might color either tomorrow or day after...if I do will post pictures

 

[Dew]

Hi girls!

Sorry ive been MIA. Had to work all day yeseterday, then today was errands and cleaning, and im pooped.

Preethi- glad you are fine! Sounds like its nothing to worry about to me. Im sure the UTI is just where the pain was coming from.

Sarah- I never had that EWCM. I was so mad! I took so many things for it too. Lol. Finally then month I got bfp i had just ordered preseed to help the spermies live but never needed it! Just like the maca I ordered with it and my BBT. So weird that the cycle I was gunna use all this stuff I never got that far. I had spent $120.00 bucks on amazon for fertility stuff and a few days after receiving it,,,,,bfp!

Sounds like if you have lotiony CM, its going to turn into the fertile stuff soon. I am no good at temp advice since I never got to do it....glad you are having fun with it though, it will tell you a lot I think and is very good to keep doing.

I am 2nd trimester finally! Wooohooo. Hard to believe that one, but I feel like a real pregnant lady now!

Actually, I am having more EWCM now after MC...may stop by next cycle because it wasn't much earlier. I used to worry about it too, tried green tea, mucinex/robitussin, preseed (DH hated it so used it only once), water etc....

Yay for the feeling of being 'really' pregnant that's a good feeling and you should relax and enjoy it!

 

[Dew]

NDH: I just noticed your pregnancy ticker....how cool is that!! So how are you feeling...guess waiting for Tuesday's doctor's appointment

 

[sarahincanada]

Hi girls!

Sorry ive been MIA. Had to work all day yeseterday, then today was errands and cleaning, and im pooped.

Preethi- glad you are fine! Sounds like its nothing to worry about to me. Im sure the UTI is just where the pain was coming from.

Sarah- I never had that EWCM. I was so mad! I took so many things for it too. Lol. Finally then month I got bfp i had just ordered preseed to help the spermies live but never needed it! Just like the maca I ordered with it and my BBT. So weird that the cycle I was gunna use all this stuff I never got that far. I had spent $120.00 bucks on amazon for fertility stuff and a few days after receiving it,,,,,bfp!

Sounds like if you have lotiony CM, its going to turn into the fertile stuff soon. I am no good at temp advice since I never got to do it....glad you are having fun with it though, it will tell you a lot I think and is very good to keep doing.

I am 2nd trimester finally! Wooohooo. Hard to believe that one, but I feel like a real pregnant lady now!

I remember telling you that you would get pregnant after ordering all that stuff!!! just like I remember telling Sheryl she will get pregnant as she was going to not try for a few months due to work. hmmm perhaps I should do something to bring it on!

my FS said not to use preseed, as she doesnt feel any lubricant is totally sperm friendly. shes read all the data but feels most of the data is put out by preseed. a lot of people on here seem to have success, but I wonder how many would have gotten their bfp with or without preseed.

yay for 2nd tri!!
I know you dont want a big party as you are cautious/shy (very like me), so I will just have a little booby bouncing in your honour....

 

[sarahincanada]

awwww ndh...wife and mummy to be! when is your 27th birthday, I think you did it in time?? any news on the house?

 

[sherylb]

I think preseed did it for us. Of course it depends on if you normally use something.