ok so who wants to get pregnant in 2011? (closed group)

Oh look at her - she's gorgeous! I've never seen black cocker spaniel's before - she's lovely.

Sarah, glad the first dose of clomid wen't well - I hope taking them at night will help keep the mood swings on clomid to a minimum.
 
flying - that dog is gorgeous!

And sheryl - that top with the foot prints sounds so cute!
 
beautiful pic flying, :hugs: and thank you so much for the assurance, i feel better now and am not worrying much, i keep wondering why im not able to feel anything yet.

:hugs: to everyone, have a lovely weekend. xxx
 
If your placenta is covering the whole front area then I wouldn't be surprised if you won't feel anything for even longer too; I still can't feel anything across the front or right either!

But I know that really nothing will allay your worries until you DO feel that bub kick! I know I was ok with waiting, but at the same time was really impatient! It's hard when everyone else is feeling kicks from 15 weeks...!!!!! :hugs:

Just wait till it's kicking, and then you realise you haven't felt it in a while... last night I hardly slept cos I couldn't remember when I last felt it and was trying to prod and poke my tummy to feel *something*. I fell asleep eventually but it was worrying until I woke at 2am to a big kick in the guts. lol! I swear that we keep thinking the next stage will give us more confidence, but I think it just gives us more WORRY! lol!

Mind you, knowing how much my mum worries about my well-being *now*, I can see that the worry of a mum will never ever end... We're in for the long haul now!
 
thanks flying ! i dont know if my placenta is covering the entire front, well i have an appointment with this lady doc who is my second option on the 21st of june, with dh, she wants to do something to see the heart of bubs, i want to ask her then and even about vasa previa , people prone to vasa previa are those who have a low lying placenta and have had a D&C and i have had a d &c and have a low lying so im concerned.,though it is very rare and occurs in about 1:2000 or3000, did you see that video in second tri? wow it was so disturbing

this woman whos kid died after two days of being born they had to pull him out of life support because of permanent brain damage etc because of vasa previa and vasa previa has to be scanned for in the third tri with a trans vaginal colour ultrasound doppler.

luckily they scan you here every month so i am certainly going to request for one. this happened in australia, and im worried about going to the UK etc because i know what attention i got and i know they dont really scan you after the 20 weeks until the end. so i would say request for one of these ultrasounds. plus, those two factors i mentioned are not the only ones at risk for vasa, there are others. boy was i shocked after reading that post.i was in tears here.

not offending any country or say any other place is bad or anything, but just stating my understanding of scans in the uk and other places, thats all :flower:
 
Sarah, I like your avatar pic, you look very beautiful and your hubby is so cute :) are you wearing a jacket over your gown? Was it cold when you got married?

awww thanks :flower: yes we got married jan 3 2005, that was my daddys bday who passed away 3 years before :cry: its usually cold and snowy in toronto that time but we had a lovely day, but we still needed coats!! I had a fake fur wrap thing underneath that I wore to the church too that was hubbies grandmothers. she ended up passing away 3 months after we got married :cry:

I know you want to remain anonymous but perhaps you could change your avatar for a day to you guys....its very small so we cant see much :winkwink: I would love to picture you in my head when we talk!!
 
Sarah, I haven't noticed any shifting of fat yet, though hopefully it will; I hate my flabby arms too!!! LOL!! I HAVE noticed though that despite the somewhat massively growing stomach now, I've not gained an ounce of weight on the scales. Bub is obviously strong cos I just got a big boot in the guts right now, so I am hoping that all the food I'm eating is going straight to bub, and my body is burning fat to keep itself going... Meaning that as bub grows, my body is burning fat too so I'm staying the same weight!?? I'm not dieting at all, just eating smaller portions (easy to do; bub is taking up the room now so small meals fill me easily!) and trying to keep fairly healthy with what I do eat... FX that means I might be able to loose weight after bub comes, or even come out of this better off than I was before...!!! lol! I still have another 17+ weeks to gain weight though I guess, so we'll see.

AFM, I'm babysitting my bosses dog, Duffy, at the moment. She's nearly a year old american cocker spaniel, and she is likely to be shown at some point so we're keeping her coat long for now, which means she has MASSES of it! lol!
https://i80.photobucket.com/albums/j162/flyingduster2/IMG_22711.jpg

Her and Paris, my poodle, are best friends so it's nice for them to get to spend a whole week living together! Riki, my old foxy X isn't quite so impressed by it and is grumbling away in her bed and telling Duffy all about it if she comes too close. LOL!

I have read that if you were considered overweight before then you dont have to put anything or as much weight on as someone who was normal weight before. so Im assuming its because as you describe that food is feeding baby and body is burning fat. I will also be much healthier when pregnant Im sure, I dont seem to have the willpower now but when growing a bub will be much more serious about what goes in my body.

beautiful dog but OMG I cant imagine the hair that must come off! Im always covered in little white hairs from my 3 jack russells :dohh::haha:
 
Baby- I didn't feel my real kicks until week 20 so if you haven't yet, its no biggie. Also, if it's measuring smaller then it wont be felt yet. It will be suddenly you start feeling it a lot. Hopefully its soon! I have not heard of vasa previa....

Sarah- I think I post a lot of pics on here to give away my cover! Lol. I love your picture, looks like a papparazzi pic, like you 2 were being rushed through a crowd. Lol. Clomid still not having any icky side effect? I wonder if your ovulation will feel more kick ass or not. Hope its not more painful or anything since its stronger.

Flying- love the doggie, hope you are having fun vacuuming every 10 mminutes!

Hope everyone else is good this weekend, I am just going to enjoy my only day off but was working until 1230 am last night so kinda sleepy...:sleep: May need a coffee today. Yummmm.
 
Hi everyone!

Ive survived a 2nd dose!

omg I was watching a show last night about a couple who had 6 babies....I said to hubby oh lets watch the first part and she must have had IVF. so she says they had unexplained infertility and she was on injectible meds and when she went for her scan there was 4 follicles. She then had IUI, and when they went for the scan had 6 hearbeats :wacko: I did have a little panic thinking omg what if this is a sign!!! someone in another folder had 4 follicles ready after clomid but was told its ok they wont all be fertilized.

can you imagine....she decided to risk it and keep them all but she was in the hospital for the 2nd part of the pregnancy and almost died after. hubby was like 'no way would I take that risk' but I said I dont know if I could choose to reduce early on. Such a hard choice, as you are putting all babies and yourself at risk by keeping all.

so everyone please pray I dont get more than 2 clomid babies!!!! the funny thing is I will probably have a bunch of follicles on the scan and still not get pregnant :dohh:
 
Sarah- I think I post a lot of pics on here to give away my cover! Lol. I love your picture, looks like a papparazzi pic, like you 2 were being rushed through a crowd. Lol. Clomid still not having any icky side effect? I wonder if your ovulation will feel more kick ass or not. Hope its not more painful or anything since its stronger.

yes Im very happy to have seen your lovely face and picture it when I read your posts :kiss:

the wedding photos did have a candid style, its called something but I cant remember what. it was less staged photos and more in the moment and the staged ones were beautiful too. I will attach a couple of my nieces, and another I think I already posted but I dont have any more of us on my computer :wacko:

haha I feel I look quite thin for my wedding 6 years ago, I was 170 then, my normal was 150 so I felt overweight. Now im 200 and would love to be back to 170 :dohh: although I remember hating my flabby arms back then too and was glad to have the fake fur wrap around me.

no side effects yet, I wonder if it gets worse with each dose though. someone did tell me their ovulation and even 2WW symptoms were worse on it. so far so good, if its like this all the time then Im annoyed at how people talk about it. everyone seems to know someone who had a terrible experience on it but if the majority are fine it does get a bad rap from the few bad. in the leaflet it says symptoms are less than 10% but the way people talk you would think it was 90%! the only symptom they say is more than 10% likely is hot flushes :blush::blush::blush:
 

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LOL you would think from all my photos that my neck is actually stuck facing the right :rofl:
 
Sarah wouldn't it be stuck facing the left? Technically it looks to the right in picture but you're looking to the left! hhahaha. I love the fur wrap. I would always love to have one of those on too, they are so classic looking.

Are injectables something that happen after clomid if it doesn't work? I am confused by all the different drugs a woman can be on...
 
Sarah, injectibles for IUI are totally different from clomid. As you said earlier, it only slightly increases the chance for multiples, and the chances of multiples being more than twins is crazy small. Try not to worry about 6 babies unless the doctor finds 6 heartbeats lol.

But wow that's crazy - 4 follies and 6 babies means some of them would have been identical, and I'm not sure how much effect fertility drugs have on the chance of identical multiples. I wouldn't have thought there would be much if any effect, but I suppose they could somehow make the egg more susceptible to splitting. If it wasn't midnight I'd be researching that because I think its' fascinating.
 
sarah, those pics are so lovely and those paige girls,.. omg so cute !!

yay for surviving day 2. i dont know a lot about injectibles, but i think ive heard that you are at a risk for multiples with clomid. not sure, i read it somewhere.

afm, just cooking dinner, and will then head to the mall, its the first day of the week tomorrow. ugh !!

Ny, yea i guess ill ask my doc at my next appointment, im keeping the lady doc as a second option and have an appointment with her on the 21st, so i want to ask her about vasa and everything. if you go on to 2nd tri , there is a woman mummy2miller or something who has posted on this condition. have a look at the video, it brought me to tears !!
 
Sarah, injectibles for IUI are totally different from clomid. As you said earlier, it only slightly increases the chance for multiples, and the chances of multiples being more than twins is crazy small. Try not to worry about 6 babies unless the doctor finds 6 heartbeats lol.

But wow that's crazy - 4 follies and 6 babies means some of them would have been identical, and I'm not sure how much effect fertility drugs have on the chance of identical multiples. I wouldn't have thought there would be much if any effect, but I suppose they could somehow make the egg more susceptible to splitting. If it wasn't midnight I'd be researching that because I think its' fascinating.

or I wonder if more follicles can advance right after the scan? I know my scan is going to be quite a few days before my ovulation so theres a chance some others form??

someone in the over 35 folder who has been trying since 2009 just got a BFP on her 2nd IUI :happydance:
 
yay for surviving day 2. i dont know a lot about injectibles, but i think ive heard that you are at a risk for multiples with clomid. not sure, i read it somewhere.


their leaflet says 10% chance of multiples, general population is 1%. but I think it went onto say most are twins.
 
incase anyone looks at my chart Ive worked out my BDing schedule for the next week, I wanted to make sure I didnt BD the night before my ultrasound on Friday, having a period is bad enough but I would worry about there being semen still in there if we BD'd the night before :blush::blush::blush::haha: I read on here one girl who was having a sono right around ovulation, she BD'd the morning of the procedure as she didnt want a miss a chance.....yuk poor technician!!!!

Ive been slacking on the temps during my period but thats because I didnt wake up at 8am every day, so started again today. I hear clomid can mess with your temps but Im sure I will get to see ovulation.
 
lol! Cockers don't shed so much, especially when her coat is left long! Hardly any hair comes out even when she gets her weekly bath/dry brush and I'm TRYING to get it out! lol! She's a show girl, so I'm stripping her back coat out every week to flatten it. lol! So yes she has piles of coat, but generally speaking if a dog grows a loooonnng coat, it's because it doesn't shed everywhere!
*insert random grooming/dog hair lesson*
Only short coats are heavy shedders, cos the hair itself has a short lifespan from first growing out of the follicle until it's at it's full length and dies, only to be pushed out by the new hair growing in. They shed SO much cos it doesn't take long for the hair to reach it's full length and stop growing. Long coated breeds, like cockers, their hair does shed somewhat, but as the full length is actually really long, it takes aaagggeees for any hair to reach the end of it's life span and come out, and so the shedding is very very minimal. And with a long coat, shed hairs don't tend to actually fall OUT, they loosen off at the base, but stay caught in the rest of the long hair surrounding it, so hence why they HAVE to be brushed & combed regularly, or those loose hairs tangle and mat up terribly... The hair along her back does shed a little, as it's shorter (only around 1-2 inches) and lays flat so can fall out easier, but it's still NOTHING compared to a short haired dog! I honestly can't find more than a few short back hairs in her bed, and certainly she doesn't drop any on your clothes or furniture etc. :)
*end of lesson*

LMAO! Can you tell I'm a groomer? hahahaha!!!


Now, I DO have a fox terrier X (or jack russell X? Who knows what she is!) who drops white hairs EVERYWHERE; you can't touch her without there being a cloud of hair all over you and the ground... Her bed is totally pelted with tiny little white hairs that weave into the fabric of her bed and blankets, and she'll drop a blanket of hair on furniture and clothes within minutes... I've coped with her for the past 13 years, so the amount of hair coming off the cocker staying here for a week (ie; none) is totally fine! lol!!

Having had my wee terrier for so long (I can't believe she's coming up to 14 now!) I do appreciate the poodle coat a lot more though... lol! I've only had the poodle for a few years now, so I'm still LOVING that she can cuddle without leaving a puddle of hair behind... hahaha!

Poodle coats moult too, but it's even more minimal than something like a cocker, cos they don't have the shorter hair along the back to shed out; it's all loooong hair that gets really long before ever moulting out (and it doesn't drop/shed out either, hence the need to brush & comb religiously on a long coat!) poodle hair is more like human hair; we all moult to some degree (hair comes out in the brush!) :)

And cos I can, this is the poodle yesterday afternoon as well:
https://i80.photobucket.com/albums/j162/flyingduster2/IMG_22601.jpg

She's getting awfully hairy right now, but I'm grooming her next week! lol.
 
Flying: dogs are soooo good looking, I want them :D thanks for sharing the pictures and information about them :hugs:

Sarah: beautiful you in beautiful wedding gown...love all the pictures :thumbup: you do look like a Hollywood celebrity in avatar pic :winkwink:

as for me sharing more about myself, the reason I don't do that is my DH who is a crazily private person and thinks I share too much of 'us' with others (even with family and FB). That's why I come here as anonymous person and share my feelings with you guys which I can't do with anyone else...hope you understand :hugs: OK, if I get my BFP this cycle I will post my pic for a day (as long as I don't have to use tinypic etc)...my promise to you :flower: :)

I am glad Clomid hasn't given you any side-effects yet. Hope it remains that way. Good luck!

Congrats to all you PG ladies hitting important milestones in 9 month journey :thumbup: :hugs: take care everybody!! :flower:
 

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