Once again left looking STUPID!

[jaytee146]

fob asked to keep lo from 6 until... I said no you can come get her at 10.. first he over sleeps. I had a hair appointment set for 1030.. he finally answered and snored in the freaking phone... Then without calling he shows up at my house.. close to one. ... asks where is his baby and leaves. He never showed up at six.. and once he comes in he says I took pictures with her and her brother. .. he's one.. which means this lady and I gave birth to our children around the same time.. and we were pregnant around the same time. he looked me dead in the eye and told me that he had oral sex while I was away but that's it.

I'm so dumb for believing him.... and I was called so many names.... made to feel lower than the ground but I still stuck to fob like glue.. he use to tell me "the aids epidemic is high" I haven't been with anyone else.. and if I were I'd tell you... I find out today out of 4 years that he has a one year old son... He came and told me he had to go get his other child and drop him off to his mom.

He asked could he keep lo next weekend... I said we'll see.

I told him well how could you have a one year old and we've been dating 4 years. he smiled and walked off..I must still love this ASS HOLE because I'm actually heartbroken that he has another child with someone else.

Why do I keep believing this lying guy, and allow him to make me feel this way.. I wish I could snap my fingers and be over him and moved on.

 

[whatwillbe]

Hun, he is another of the many losers in this life, he sounds selfish and immature and by the sounds of it he doesnt care for any one elses feelings, it must hurt to find out he had another child while he was with you, i would be hurt, but now you know what he's about, thank god you had a lucky escape x

 

[teal]

You're much better off without someone like that