I know I am not the first or the last to suffer through this tragedy, and I wish that no one ever had to suffer the loss of their child ... but how do you move on? This was my first pregnancy, and lost him at exactly 16 weeks, I was so happy so in love with my baby ... I cant believe i lost him. I had him cremated and have his little remains with me, some people say he's an angel, some people say you'll try again, some say at least you know you can, and oh your young! I know all those people mean well but it really brings me no cosolation sometimes. I cry, I go over my week, wonder if there was anythign i should have done, or did. I replay those moments in my mind and it brings me such torment, but i cant stop them. I wonder if any moms out there can give me some advice, i try not to cry in front of people because they just worry, sometimes thinking of trying again makes me happy and at the same time brings me fear and doubt that i couldnt go through it again.