One night, could it change my life?

[dan-o]

I agree, possible but unlikely.
A pregnancy test should definitely show up positive a couple of weeks after you ovulated/had sex, if you are pregnant.
This is my 5th pregnancy and I've not had implantation bleeding, I think it's something only a few ladies get x

 

[YngNConfused7]

He is a friend of a friend, and Ive already went to the doctor, and Im fine, will test again in 6 months. anywho I was ovulating around the time that I had sex but That doesnt really mean squat.I took a test today, 20 days after I had what I had believed to be implantation bleeding, tomorrow will be three weeks from what i had thought to be implantation bleeding, but anywho, back to the test, I took a first response and it came out completely negative.
But I know someone whos tests, even the blood tests were negative til she was 10 weeks along. My period was def off, Like it was so super light and mostly brown. But I dont think that I am, all tests have been neg and Im basically three weeks past the bleeding if I was going to turn up pregnant(+) I would think that it would show up by now. Everyone please give me your thoughts and opinions.

 

[YngNConfused7]

Yes, I know how long my typical cycle is, My doctor had me keep track to see if I was getting my migranes around the time of my periods, and I only know my temps this month bc I made a mistake and was worried, a baby isnt something to take lightly, im not that stupid. I made a mistake and I would NOT try to have a kid by a perfect stranger! I Have a plan, and children dont come into play until at least 25. But you know what if I Had gotten pg i would be the best damn mom there ever was but Im not, and Im glad that Im not. Just bc someone makes a mistake is scared you think its okay to pick them out and presume that you know them and their intentions, well you dont know me, I regret what I did, and I sure as heck wasnt tryn!

 

[jessandaj]

I would say you are not pregnant but you never know and if you were getting heat from people on here its because most women here have been trying to concieve so its a touchy subject for them to hear a person say they might be pregnant from a one night stand so just excuse it, theres alot of emotion on this website. good luck

 

[helena]

You may not want to be pregnant, and maybe you are and maybe you arent. but maybe you won't ever be ale to have kids if you don't practice safe sex, you do now some stds lead to infertility if not treated? Even those from friends of a friend.
Get to the doctors. In answer to the title, yes one night could change your life in several ways...
We can all make mistakes, I almost did the same, but some mistakes are more serious than others..Don't end up regretting.

 

[stuckinoki]

Make sure you follow up and get retested in another month or so.

Some stds like Clamydia can take up to 6 weeks to show up and can often be a-symptomatic in women (meaning you an have it and not have any symptoms)

I'm glad everything came back clean for you, but make sure you get retested.

Everyone has an off cycle once in a while...lots of reason can cause them, from stress to hormonal imbalances.

 

[laila 44]

I used the pull ou method for 5 years with my hubby ( bf at the time) and never had a problem. When I fell pregnant with dd it was planned. When dd was 10 months though my trusted method failed me for the 1st time in 5 years and I got pregnant. So I'd say it's sooooo not safe!! Lol

 

[YngNConfused7]

I only did my temps this month AFTER I had sex, bc I was scared and had read that it can be helpful. And I only Know that I was ovulating around that time bc i checked on the internet AFTER I had sex. And I only know my cycles bc my doctor asked me to keep track to see if my migranes were happening around the time of my period. Not bc I TTC whatever that even means

 

[hayzeb]

Nobody on here can tell you if you're pregnant - only a test can do that but I don't approve of people just calling out troll - seems a bit mean and judgemental.

Op I hope you get the answers you need but I don't think here is the place you will get them.... Go to the dr!

 

[YngNConfused7]

Ive had two off cycles my entire life. normally my periods are 33-36 days long and extreemly heavy, tmi ik sorry. thats why I freaked out when I had my last cycle, 28 days long and so light I didnt need pads or tampons, nothing. it was even there then I wiped, and when I did use tampons thered be a dot and it was all brown and sometimes a tidbit of pink, but mostly brown. But like I said earlier, thankfully, I got a negative this morning. Its 20 days since my bleeding, and While Ik that its possible to get a positive later on Im quite confident that Im not! ThankGosh.

 

[PeaceLoveBaby]

If your temp was ever 78 degrees.... I'd be kinda concerned.

 

[jesseleigh88]

It sounds as if you are in the clear since it's been so long since your encounter. I would think if you are pregnant, it would have shown on an hpt (or in 99% of cases) by now

My husband and I have used charting and the pull out method for many moons over the years while trying to avoid pregnancy since I don't do birth control. It has only gone awry once, and that was because he didn't pull-out. I thought I was about to get my period when in fact I was o-ing, so I told hom he didn't have to lol. It was cd 28 that my 4th child was conceived hahaha!

I agree with the pp that emotions can run high in a forum like this where most are trying to conceive pretty seriousy, so please don't take it to heart. Just know that getting and std or an unplanned pregnancy are not things most of us take lightly . You need to take better care of yourself dear...

 

[morm91]

Sorry for these women on here that are blasting you for your mistake.. Give the girl a break, like there hasnt been atleast one time in your lives that you made one.. I mean this is sapposed to be a site for people looking for answers not to be blasted because they had unprotected sex when not ttc. There is nothing more hurtful then telling people they are stupid just because the did something stupid.. If she were your daughter is that the way you would react NO I dont believe so, youd be sapportive and try to understand where she is coming from.. and dont be so awful, im sure when you were younger you made stupid mistakes because you had one to many.. gezz Im sorry people are so harsh to you. I understand that getting preggo is nothing to take lightly but accidents happen. Doesnt make her any dumber then the rest of you ladies.. I wish this world had more empathy for others.. Just imagine yourself in her position and try to make her feel better not worse

 

[MegnJoe]

I was in her position. Thats why I am being so hard on her. I wasnt temping and charting and knowing my cycles days, so unlike her, I didnt know any better. She is educated on this kind of thing. Therefore makeing it a little bit silly to be in the predicament. Best of luck to you though YngNconfused. I hope you make better choices and learn from this one!

 

[MegnJoe]

Yes, I know how long my typical cycle is, My doctor had me keep track to see if I was getting my migranes around the time of my periods, and I only know my temps this month bc I made a mistake and was worried, a baby isnt something to take lightly, im not that stupid. I made a mistake and I would NOT try to have a kid by a perfect stranger! I Have a plan, and children dont come into play until at least 25. But you know what if I Had gotten pg i would be the best damn mom there ever was but Im not, and Im glad that Im not. Just bc someone makes a mistake is scared you think its okay to pick them out and presume that you know them and their intentions, well you dont know me, I regret what I did, and I sure as heck wasnt tryn!

I am sure you will be a good mom! I have a hell of a past, and I am a damn good mom myself. Sorry I was hard on you, but like pp said. Conception doesnt come easy for a lot of us so when someone is careless it makes some ppl get their back up and become defensive.

So, I am sorry if I hurt your feelings.

 

[mnjhowell]

I've delivered 100s of pull out babies!! Good luck

 

[YngNConfused7]

Thanks for evrything yall. Im still testing Neg so I believe that Im in the clear!Will Test againg if I miss my period, but im sure I wont=) I got lucky. And good Luck to all of you that aretryn to concieve.

 

[YngNConfused7]

But does anyone know why my temps are stayn high? 98.8-100.4 is that just normal for some people? Bc like I said I only took my temps this month after sex bc I thought it could help.Should start AF between the 8th n 12th.

 

[MissVeronicaa]

I feel like the reason people are being hard on her is because she's coming to a site, a particular section of the site, where some women have been trying & trying for months & years to finally conceive a baby, and whenever you came here saying "Could this one night have changed my life?" or something along those lines ( I forget ) it just makes us jealous is all. It's the one thing we want more than anything, and sometimes people just take it for granted. So I hope that you're okay, and know that I'm not at all trying to be mean, just trying to explain why people's responses to this could be harsh.

 

[MegnJoe]

But does anyone know why my temps are stayn high? 98.8-100.4 is that just normal for some people? Bc like I said I only took my temps this month after sex bc I thought it could help.Should start AF between the 8th n 12th.

I naturally run at 99 even, so some ppl do run high. Sometimes if u r about to O the progesterone will go up and cause a temp increase, then dips then goes back up if u r pregnant.
98 isn't that high, 100.4 is kinda low grade fever. Could u have a cold or something?