one night stand!

[nikky0907]

Is it really impossible to get a false positive?Because I did 5 pregnancy tests this morning and I'm afraid to look at them now.We are in the same situation...I'm terrified

 

[nikky0907]

Well,I looked at them and they were all positive...I think I am going to die now....

We are in the exact same situation.My doctor's appointment is on Tuesday.Can anybody tell me what to expect?

 

[confusdclaire]

horrible feeling isn't it? i know that sounds terriblebut its such a strange and scary thing. i have cramps 2day dont know if thats normal or not. also feel like i might have a cold coming on. lol not a good day i don'tthink. and i haven't been to the doctors knowing i'm pregnant yet (first time i've said that!) but i'm assumin it blood pressure etc, just generally checking we're healthy??? x

 

[flowers123]

Yeah, if the test is positive, then youre more than likely to be pregnant. False positives are really really rare, and as seen as youve had 5 of them then.... :S
I dont know what you should expect in the docs, but they wont harm you, so dont be scared Good luck to you both xxx

 

[confusdclaire]

lol i keep tell myself dw about it, it's not the end of the world. but atm it seems like it. doesn't help that i keep cryin, but still i will keep it a secret til i have seen a doctor! gonna stay in bed all day 2day i think. x

 

[nikky0907]

I'm not scared,I'm terrified...I know the doctor will confirm it so I'm dreading Tuesday.I've been felling sick all the time and now I'm crying...You're right Claire,it's the strangest feeling ever...When will you go to the doctors?And do you know what you're going to do?

 

[confusdclaire]

i went last week they took urine samples, they should be back tuesday so i'll make an appointment for then. no idea, haven't even told the father yet. i am absolutely clueless as to what i want! u? x

 

[nikky0907]

I just took a home test,I guess they'll take my urine samples on tuesday...
I'm still completly shocked.My friend tells me I should have an abortion.but I don't know.I was always pro-abortion,but it's dofferent when its my child.I don't know how I'm gonna tell the father or my family...The father was a one night stand...How far along are you?And can I ask you some personal questions like do you go to school,college,live with your parents?

 

[confusdclaire]

i know what u mean, i was always against abortion but i have to be honest and says it has crossed my mind(other way around i know!) i must be abpout 4 weeks, ant work out my last period but i know when i could have conceived. i'm in uni but i live with my parents x

 

[flowers123]

Hey girls! I kinda know how you feel. When I thought I was pregnant I was absolutely terrified and crying all the time! One of the girls on here sent me this video and it helped. Made me cry but it helped!! Ive been trying to find the whole version but I cant!! Its annoying that its in three parts for some reason.
https://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=eXIE-7VSwlg
https://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=3k615lXbnJA&feature=related
https://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=BwwxopZGwiY

There they are anyway hehe. Also, I found a website (Pm me if you want the address) which kinda helped me make a decision on what Id do if I was.

Good luck girls. Keep your chins up xxx

 

[nikky0907]

I know exactly when I concived...And I know when my last period was because I'm on the pill so you have to keep track...

I'm sure that adoption is not an option for me,but I'm not sure if abortion is...
btw.I'm 18,I'm in college and I have my own apartmant..And my parents will disown me...I'm sure of it...

 

[confusdclaire]

i know my parents will go mental, my sister was a single mother at 20. they came around after a while but the arguments when she was pregnant were terrible. i'm not too worried about them, i have to decide what i wanna do, not what they want me to do......i just have no idea what i want to do!!! thanks for those videos, sent me a bit loopy to be honest lol my first name is rachel so was confused when i saw the first bit! x

 

[nikky0907]

My parents are totally conservative.They will want me to marry this guy and I can't...They will be sooo disappointed.My sister is cool,she'll understand.I just don't know how I'm gonna graduate,everyone in my family graduated...They won't understand...

 

[confusdclaire]

wel i'm in uni atm. i've got a yr and a half left so if i decide to keep the baby i will do continue until summer hols then i'll only have a year to go back to when i have the chance, i'm still hoping i will gratuate just mayb not as soon as everyone else. then mayb confide in your sister? i haven't talked to anyone yet but my best mate and my sister will be the first ones i go to. and i guess its not so bad, u have your own apartment so if ur parents are not ok with it, atleast u don't have to live under the same roof as them, like i do x

 

[nikky0907]

I'm only a freshman,so if I have it I have no idea how I'm gonna graduate...I'm on a scholarship and if I take some time off I'm gonna lose it.I work at a bookstore to support myself but my parents still help me with money...If they cut me off,and I have a baby I don't know what I'm gonna do with myself...My best friend knows about this and she wants me to abort,and I'm gonna tell my sister...It's really hard for me to think right now,my mind id buzzing with questions..

 

[TashaAndBump]

My doctor's appointment is on Tuesday.Can anybody tell me what to expect?

I've replied on your other thread letting you know what to expect, best of luck, hun.

 

[confusdclaire]

lyin in bed, feeling like i've got more gas in me than a helium balloon! cant stop farting and burping lol! been constipated so i'm guess this has something to do with that, i also have cramp in my lower right stomach, kinda like period pain but with twinges lol. all i wanna do is sleep but everytime i try i need a wee! then go to the toilet have the struggle of gettin comfy again then after about half an hour i either need a drink or a wee, ARGH!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[bird24]

Hey guys

I think you are both being really brave as it must be so scary

How are you feeling now? did you get any sleep?
x

 

[nikky0907]

I also couldn't sleep...I can't eat,I feel sick,weird and worried...I'm going to the doctor tomorrow so I'm freaked out about that too...

 

[xclairex]

let us no how docs goes