One year since conception

[LauraBee]

There's no real point to this thread, I just have to admit that I'm very disappointed to have not heard from FOB.

Bee is twelve weeks today and it was exactly one year ago that I travelled up to see FOB, naively thinking that he missed me enough to be satisfied with a cuddle, and that if we did end up having sex, I'd be special enough to be invited to his house to do it, where he would have condoms.

We ended up on some cliff-type thing without protection and then broke up about ten days later.

Bethlouise was a mistake NOT a regret, and I'm gonna make sure she knows that. Best mistake I ever made.

It's so weird that it's been an entire year since I last spoke to him properly, without an argument or a baby to think of.

 

[whoops]

I was thinking the exact same earlier - it's coming up to a year since my entire world was turned upside down.

I wouldn't change a thing though, even if it's been the maddest year of my life.

Our FOBs are the ones losing out here - everyone who meets my LO adores her and I'm sure it's the same with yours. They're missing out on the chance to get to know these amazing little people.

 

[anna matronic]

Please don't ever tell you lo she was a mistake!!! "Unplanned" is a better word I think!!

14 months for me this week since conception and apart from 2 nasty arguments of words via text or email we haven't spoken since I told him I was pregnant nearly a year ago. Hey hum, we are happy and I know he thinks about him

 

[teal]

I've not seen FOB since before I found out I was pregnant and I've not properly spoken to him since I told him I was pregnant (June 2009). LO is now 13 months xx

 

[lal]

This month is a year from conception for me too...I speak to FOB, but it took just about that whole year for us to be able to be friendly and we still have our moments. Its so crazy to think how much a year changed everything, when the 29 before that were pretty much all the same

 

[Surreal]

Same here, nearly a year. I spoke to him once back in July via e-mail, and told him his wife told him not to talk to me until after LO was born(Loooonnnggg, messy story). Needless to say, he never contacted me after that.

Just recently found out he's got a preemie with his wife, a little boy, and only four months difference between Elijah, and their baby.

.... Guess he doesn't think of Elijah at all, now.