[[OPEN]] From Butterflies to Babies (5! bfps, 1 angel)

[CoralInGold]

Babifever, I like your take on TTC. We are the same. Although I am a little bit of a POAS addict!

 

[xxmyheartxx]

Still early yet coral.
Todays ov test, sat and sun above it,Hoping for a big fat positive tomorrow xx

 

[CoralInGold]

Hope you get a nice positive!

 

[x-ginge-x]

FX for a positive heart, I am battling with my toddler who won't eat!! Grr!! hes eating this sandwich if it takes him an hour hes been asking for an hour!

 

[xxmyheartxx]

I hate that stage of not eating /messing with food, my dd2 still has issues lol.
I put my ov test on count down to pregnancy and people are voting its positive? Im confused ha xx

 

[x-ginge-x]

Most folk on there dont even look properly, especially at the OVULATION part, :/ i can clearly see a line on the invert of the picture i posted but they have voted negative!

 

[Savasanna]

Hey ladies, I'm back.. sort of. Last cycle was bfn for me which was devastating (which, ginge - I'm so sorry you're having a hard day today) and made even worse when our donor informed us that he doesn't want to be our donor anymore.. effective immediately. We cried and hugged and cried and talked and decided to bite the bullet and use our credit card for frozen sperm. However, this is already a financially irresponsible decision so we'll only be able to do it this one last time. After that we'll have to stop.

So, first dose of clomid was today. Fx like they've never been before for this cycle. C'mon, little miracle. We're all waiting for you!

 

[babifever]

Whether the opks are positive are not, still doesn't guarantee you will ovulate, even if you ovulate doesn't mean you will conceive, even if you conceive doesn't mean it will stick. I hate to sound negative. BUT at some point, especially when you are overly stressed, you should just take a break from all the testing, etc. People naturally conceive babies all the time not keeping track of anything. Its less stressful. Not knocking anyone, but when you are getting depressed and annoyed with it, TAKE A BREAK!!!

 

[x-ginge-x]

Yeah NTNP with pcos doesnt work, trust me, we have been NTNP since my boy was born and hes 2 in december, without temping I wouldn't have a clue what was going, and to be fair, it is nice to be in control, or at least feeling like you have some control, and getting depressed and annoyed doesnt mean take a break otherwise some of us might as well not TTC at all as some are a stressful type.

Sava-why doesn't he want to be your donor anymore??

 

[xxmyheartxx]

Ive never tracked before with my 3 babies, but since not having af since stopped bc in june, i am using them to see what was happening if anything was, but ideally i want to conceive before mid oct, if not will have 4 months off as dd2 will be starting school next September, it took me 3 years to get caught with my first and 4 months for my other 2, so im hoping this will be the same.

 

[babifever]

Yeah NTNP with pcos doesnt work, trust me, we have been NTNP since my boy was born and hes 2 in december, without temping I wouldn't have a clue what was going, and to be fair, it is nice to be in control, or at least feeling like you have some control, and getting depressed and annoyed doesnt mean take a break otherwise some of us might as well not TTC at all as some are a stressful type.

Sava-why doesn't he want to be your donor anymore??

everyone has their opinions

do you hunni

 

[babifever]

Also, ginge have you seeked medical attention? That may be your resolution, considering you've been doing this for over 2 years

 

[x-ginge-x]

All i get is you need to lose weight, being overweight is the answer to everything in the UK, hence me returning to charting and using opks this time

 

[babifever]

All i get is you need to lose weight, being overweight is the answer to everything in the UK, hence me returning to charting and using opks this time

yeah doctors say that here too. Have you tried to lose? Is pcos related to being overweight?

 

[Savasanna]

Ginge - I honestly don't know. We tried to talk with him about it but he was having none of that. I wish he could be honest with us, as it might make it easier to be understanding.. but that's his choice so I have to accept it.

 

[x-ginge-x]

That sucks Sava, and yes weight gain and the inability to lose weight is a pcos symptom, by far the most annoying one too

 

[Savasanna]

Thanks. It does suck. This whole damn process sucks sometimes.

How are you holding up?

 

[x-ginge-x]

Aside from feeling miserable about the am i aren't is there isn't there with these stupid IC's but otherwise I am good, this stupid sore throat has finally let up!

 

[x-ginge-x]

I have discarded my dodgy temp from 2 dpo as well as it was way weird

 

[Maggs]

I'm sorry to hear that Sav! Such hard news to take.

Ginge...I hope you find some peace and less stress of you decide to take a ttc break.