[[OPEN]] From Butterflies to Babies (5! bfps, 1 angel)

[x-ginge-x]

my CM is creamy today, cervix is hso, and i dont know if i get ovulation cramps, i dont think i have ever felt them if i do. probably something to do with my PCOS, will swap them and see what happens tomorrow with temps!

 

[TTTTina]

I may start to temp this next cycle if no bfp.

*had read online somewhere that the blood pressure meds my dh is on could cause infertility and I didn't know whether to believe that so I asked my doctor today and she said that normally doesn't cause infertility, it's not one of the common side effects. She said since we've only been trying for 3 months it's still early(which I knew) to have any concerns so Just keep on doing what im doing, using the opks, and having sex often. She said to give it 3 more months and if we haven't fallen pregnant to come in and they'll gladly see what's going on. She said I know 3 months can seem like a long time but it's really not. It was nice to talk to her and have some reassurance. She tested my thyroid back in may and It was fine then, so she said she'd check it again in 3 more months.

 

[x-ginge-x]

Well temp spiked this morning as I suspected it would, not bd'd since saturday and don't intend to. Long story short me and the husband have had a falling out, I am actively avoiding TTC this month!! Hoping that saturday was too early!

 

[Maggs]

I'm sorry to hear you and your hubby are arguing!

FF has adjusted my O day to Monday now. So should be 3dpo now, possibly 4 at most of FF is wrong.

 

[x-ginge-x]

Had a very much negative ovulation test at around 8pm, huge temp spike this morning so pretty sure ovulation was yesterday, on a side not my belly piercing is very very sore today Hasn't been sore for years! I even had my bar in until I had my caesarean!!

 

[Maggs]

How's it feeling today? Have you and your hubby made up?

 

[x-ginge-x]

Nope not made up, still pissed off, avoiding contact sexually, chances are low this month as we only bd'd 4 days prior to ovulation!

 

[x-ginge-x]

Looks like there will be no more TTC for me for a while, I am looking for a job instead and so cannot get pregnant right away. Means my children will have a larger age gap that I didn't want. But hey ho!! Good luck to everyone TTC and to you all.

 

[xxmyheartxx]

Aw hun, good luck with the job search and hopefully wont be too long until your ttc xxx

 

[TTTTina]

Good luck on your job search. I hope you continue to stick around this thread and stalk us all!!

 

[x-ginge-x]

I will stalk, don't worry about that I still have one final 2 ww at least as we did go unprotected right before we had our fall out! x

 

[TTTTina]

AF showed. Boo

 

[Maggs]

Are sorry to hear Tina!

Good luck job hunting Ginge... I hope things are better between you and your hubby!

 

[x-ginge-x]

Yes they are better and boooo TTTTina!!

 

[TTTTina]

I cried so hard last night because i was so upset i wasnt pregnant. I also think getting pregnant is so important to me right now cuz life is short. I want a larger family with dh. The end of may dh had a brain aneurysm rupture while he was on the way to work and when I got to the hospital he was already intubated and unconscious and they had to drill a hole in his head for the fluid to drain and they coiled the aneurysm off with an angiogram. He Was in the hospital for 3 and a half weeks and I stayed with him every night. I never broke down and cried, but it was the worst thing I had ever gone through. Before that I wasn't wanting another kid yet but while he was in there it got me thinking that life is short, anything can happen at any time, so I want to expand our family. DH got really lucky and is like he was before it happened. His car got messed up a little bit but otherwise there was no accident. I'm happy at how lucky he was. Dhs mom watched DS for me the whole time. So I also think that's a reason I am so upset it's not happening as easy as the first time

 

[Maggs]

He's very lucky! I hope you get your bfp soon

 

[x-ginge-x]

Thats unreal Tina, he is very lucky indeed! You will be getting a bfp soon, even the healthiest couples only have a 20-25% chance each month! x My temps are looking amazing, I am rather impressed, my ovulation is very clear this month!

 

[x-ginge-x]

Can I have updates from everyone please!!

 

[Maggs]

I'm in the 2ww. Right in the middle of it to be exact. AF due a week tomorrow I think so not sure when to start testing in the hopes of a faint line. Nothing symptom wise at the moment so feeling a bit discouraged.

 

[x-ginge-x]

i say 2 more days then start testing!