Kiki1993
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Hi, some background I was invited to an ex co workers hen night, not the wedding just the hen night. We aren't that close, we get on and are friendly but we don't meet up or anything.
Anyway, I got invited about 5 weeks after everyone else which I found offensive but was stil going to go to celebrate with her (she got engaged just after me) but then I found out from my friends its our ex boss who is her friend organising it, it is at her house and then to the pub with them. Now I don't know if anyone has read posts about my ex employers but it didn't end well, they did nothing but torture me. Made me work through sickness, work with too many responsibilities for job title, they told me to lie or be fired, i had to look after their pets, put up with their children who would often say "Well my mummy said i can come in and make as much mess as i want because you all have to do what she says", they made fun of a co worker when she came out (why she left) and when i told them my dad wass terminal they said thank you for letting me know, thats it, they also said because he isnt my biological dad i wouldnt be entitled to any leave, when i got a call at work for mums cancer they made me work while i was in tears for 2 hours, they called me into their office and would be just horrible, they said they didn't care about my mum or dad, i still had to come to work when he dies .. i would get 3 days for my mum but only because thats a legal matter, they tried to keep me from my holidays claiming i had used them all but i threatened them with citizens advice and then they finally backed down, they tried to set up a co worker for robbing the place when clearly they set it all up and the police have now cleared her. ANYWAY, now my dads died i don't think i could stomach being around them, i dislike them very much, reported them for the way they run their business and treat their staff as has 3 other staff members who left. I could not handle going to this persons house, and not saying anything, now i dont need them as reference or anything i dont think i could handle playing nice with people who made my life and my families life hell. Anyway the bride knows everything that went down, she knows how i reported them and tbh because we aren't that close i feel like im being set up in a way. IT would just be me, this girl, the management, and the brides sister .. i just don't want to put myself in an awkward or dangerous situation as i am guessing they know i have reported them by now?
Anyway, I got invited about 5 weeks after everyone else which I found offensive but was stil going to go to celebrate with her (she got engaged just after me) but then I found out from my friends its our ex boss who is her friend organising it, it is at her house and then to the pub with them. Now I don't know if anyone has read posts about my ex employers but it didn't end well, they did nothing but torture me. Made me work through sickness, work with too many responsibilities for job title, they told me to lie or be fired, i had to look after their pets, put up with their children who would often say "Well my mummy said i can come in and make as much mess as i want because you all have to do what she says", they made fun of a co worker when she came out (why she left) and when i told them my dad wass terminal they said thank you for letting me know, thats it, they also said because he isnt my biological dad i wouldnt be entitled to any leave, when i got a call at work for mums cancer they made me work while i was in tears for 2 hours, they called me into their office and would be just horrible, they said they didn't care about my mum or dad, i still had to come to work when he dies .. i would get 3 days for my mum but only because thats a legal matter, they tried to keep me from my holidays claiming i had used them all but i threatened them with citizens advice and then they finally backed down, they tried to set up a co worker for robbing the place when clearly they set it all up and the police have now cleared her. ANYWAY, now my dads died i don't think i could stomach being around them, i dislike them very much, reported them for the way they run their business and treat their staff as has 3 other staff members who left. I could not handle going to this persons house, and not saying anything, now i dont need them as reference or anything i dont think i could handle playing nice with people who made my life and my families life hell. Anyway the bride knows everything that went down, she knows how i reported them and tbh because we aren't that close i feel like im being set up in a way. IT would just be me, this girl, the management, and the brides sister .. i just don't want to put myself in an awkward or dangerous situation as i am guessing they know i have reported them by now?
I feel for her, she feels trapped because she has bills to pay but there is always a way out She told me they gave me a bad reference (i already knew this because my 2 new employers told me and said it was so obvious they were being spiteful because i left) 
