Hi,
I really want to start trying for a baby sooner rather than later especially after having a mc last year. We didnt try again and have been waiting because my OH sais he is not ready yet. But he has been mentioning it more recently and this morning he said he would want to start trying in a couple of months, which is obviously a good thing but he then said that he wanted to do it for me because he knows how much i want it.
So now iam confused because obviously its good what he said but i only want to go ahead if its what HE wants himself aswell, and he was confused when i said i wouldnt want to then, and he didnt really understand when i tried to explain how i feel about the whole thing. I cant work out if he's saying he'l do it for me because he doesnt want to admit to himself that he would like to try or if he really would do it just for me.
I wish men could understand more how it makes us feel. so confusing!
We have to wait till after we get married now anyway because otherwise i wont fit into my dress!!
Thanks for reading
xxxx
I really want to start trying for a baby sooner rather than later especially after having a mc last year. We didnt try again and have been waiting because my OH sais he is not ready yet. But he has been mentioning it more recently and this morning he said he would want to start trying in a couple of months, which is obviously a good thing but he then said that he wanted to do it for me because he knows how much i want it.
So now iam confused because obviously its good what he said but i only want to go ahead if its what HE wants himself aswell, and he was confused when i said i wouldnt want to then, and he didnt really understand when i tried to explain how i feel about the whole thing. I cant work out if he's saying he'l do it for me because he doesnt want to admit to himself that he would like to try or if he really would do it just for me.
I wish men could understand more how it makes us feel. so confusing!
We have to wait till after we get married now anyway because otherwise i wont fit into my dress!!
Thanks for reading
xxxx