So glad it's not just me this is happening to. I am lying in bed practically in tears because yet again I get a peak on my monitor and he finds some bs excuse. I give him notice, tell him to retain a little bit of energy for me - the one thing I ask him to do and he has cried off again, he has promised we can do it in the morning but it's not the same. He is claiming he has Hurt his legs and says he is in too much pain to do what he needs to do. I really could clobber him right now. I have a 35 day cycle and it just feels like so long between the witch and ov.he swears he is on board with this baby thing I never would have married him otherwise grrrrrr he's snoring away next to me and I am left here seething. how are you ladies coping with this?