ParisJeTadore
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Guys, I really need some advice. I'm not even sure if this is the right place to be posting this except that I am 20 weeks pregnant, very emotional and this recent event has had me in tears all night and into this morning.
I lost a close friend who just had her baby three weeks ago yesterday. This is a devastating loss for both my husband and I as we were very close friends with her and her husband for many years. We have no idea what happened other than she was experiencing shortness of breath and died a short time later in hospital. The fact that she will never get to raise her baby boy, be a loving influence in his life and experience life past the age of 30 is more than I can bare atm This seems SO unfair. She waited three years to conceive, we were so overjoyed when we found she was pregnant and now this. I am so broken up and in the same instance feel helpless.
What should I do for her husband? What's the best way to help him? Should I visit or give him some time to grieve in peace? Any advice would really help.
Remember to hug those closest to you. I know it always seems to happen to someone else but when it happens so close to home it's a reminder how fragile and precious life is.
I lost a close friend who just had her baby three weeks ago yesterday. This is a devastating loss for both my husband and I as we were very close friends with her and her husband for many years. We have no idea what happened other than she was experiencing shortness of breath and died a short time later in hospital. The fact that she will never get to raise her baby boy, be a loving influence in his life and experience life past the age of 30 is more than I can bare atm This seems SO unfair. She waited three years to conceive, we were so overjoyed when we found she was pregnant and now this. I am so broken up and in the same instance feel helpless.
What should I do for her husband? What's the best way to help him? Should I visit or give him some time to grieve in peace? Any advice would really help.
Remember to hug those closest to you. I know it always seems to happen to someone else but when it happens so close to home it's a reminder how fragile and precious life is.