hinkybinky
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This is a kind of 'branch off' thread from a ttc thread in the Over 35s section where I have made lots of good friends, most of whom now have large bumps or babies to show for it! Two ttc-ers remain from that thread, so I thought we could relocate over here. It goes without saying that anyone who would like to is more than welcome to join us and share the ttc roller coaster!
After having my son in Nov 2010 we were ntnp and fell pregnant in Aug 2011 but unfortunately mc at 11 weeks. Since then I've had 3 more miscarriages (2 where the embryos probably failed to implant properly and another missed miscarriage just before Christmas).
I turn 36 next month, and feel that my time is running out. My son would love a little brother (or sister, I suppose!) and I would love to go through pregnancy and childbirth and nurturing a newborn again, not to mention all the fun that comes next. I have loved every bit of it and never imagined for a second that it might be the last time. I have now changed from "when we have another one" to "if we have another one", and am beginning to consider the possibility that one might be it. That makes me so sad though.
I'm due to see the consultant at the local hospital in March. I know there are lots of tests they don't do on the NHS (all the endocrinology stuff for a start) and while we have no savings or spare money, I think I would consider just sticking it all on a credit card and worrying about it later if the initial appointment doesn't bring us any closer to an answer.
Please feel free to join this thread, especially if, like me, you feel that you have been on this treadmill for far too long!! Let it be our turn next
After having my son in Nov 2010 we were ntnp and fell pregnant in Aug 2011 but unfortunately mc at 11 weeks. Since then I've had 3 more miscarriages (2 where the embryos probably failed to implant properly and another missed miscarriage just before Christmas).
I turn 36 next month, and feel that my time is running out. My son would love a little brother (or sister, I suppose!) and I would love to go through pregnancy and childbirth and nurturing a newborn again, not to mention all the fun that comes next. I have loved every bit of it and never imagined for a second that it might be the last time. I have now changed from "when we have another one" to "if we have another one", and am beginning to consider the possibility that one might be it. That makes me so sad though.
I'm due to see the consultant at the local hospital in March. I know there are lots of tests they don't do on the NHS (all the endocrinology stuff for a start) and while we have no savings or spare money, I think I would consider just sticking it all on a credit card and worrying about it later if the initial appointment doesn't bring us any closer to an answer.
Please feel free to join this thread, especially if, like me, you feel that you have been on this treadmill for far too long!! Let it be our turn next