heavenly
40+ TTC for the 1st time
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Hi ladies
Need some advice really. I am 44, almost 45, and me and OH (34) have been trying for almost 2 years. We have both had tests and things are fine. 4 months ago I started getting anxiety attacks then depression, I am on a low dose anti depressant, the anxiety has subsided though I still get low moods occasionally. GP wants to up my dose slightly in the new year if my moods don't improve. It made me sad that she started mentioning fostering and adopting to me, it made me feel that the door had been slammed firmly shut with me TTC.
So, baby making has gone on the back burner since falling ill, which obviously is making my depression worse. Sometimes I feel like we should still go for it, and on my good, positive days, that is how I feel. But if I am having a low day, I just don't know how I would cope with pregnancy if it should happen. I don't know what to do for the best as I don't have a lot of time left.
Need some advice really. I am 44, almost 45, and me and OH (34) have been trying for almost 2 years. We have both had tests and things are fine. 4 months ago I started getting anxiety attacks then depression, I am on a low dose anti depressant, the anxiety has subsided though I still get low moods occasionally. GP wants to up my dose slightly in the new year if my moods don't improve. It made me sad that she started mentioning fostering and adopting to me, it made me feel that the door had been slammed firmly shut with me TTC.
So, baby making has gone on the back burner since falling ill, which obviously is making my depression worse. Sometimes I feel like we should still go for it, and on my good, positive days, that is how I feel. But if I am having a low day, I just don't know how I would cope with pregnancy if it should happen. I don't know what to do for the best as I don't have a lot of time left.