Ok, so I went to my DR's appt this morning...and got weighed...I thought I was doing really good and I've already put on a TON of weight...so was hoping for little numbers. Well no chance there! I got 8lbs in 2 weeks!!! WTF? Anyway the nurse left and I just starting ...couldn't help it. Thought the DR would be another 10 mins or so....but of course not this time. He walked in and saw me, asked what was wrong, I said my weight. He said 'so what, you're healthy, your baby's healthy, so what you put too much on, you'll just have more to take off afterwards....your real problem is that you're too emotional and too reactive'. Then he goes on for 10 mins about how awful being emotional is and how wonderful my sister is (he was her DR for both pregnancies) and how unemotional she is...told me how he tells his 3 sons that they should never cry, otherwise it makes them weak and not like a real man! WHAT?? This is 2009!! He also said that I may have issues with post-partum as I probably imagine this wonderful beautiful experience with my newborn baby and won't be able to handle the reality of it...??? Oh, yeah that's how I've pictured my first months as a mom...just laughing and playing, and sleeping all day. I'm not an idiot! Oh and said I'll probably be the mother that will take my child to emergency all the time and that he never took his kids to emergency....UHMMM HELLO??? YOU'RE A DOCTOR!!! He wasn't being 'mean', he was just engaging in a debate I guess...and just telling me what he believes is fact. I thought you have NO idea who I am! He sees me for 5 mins every 2-4 weeks...I have never cried in his office before. He just made me feel like there's something wrong with me! SO I went back to work, called my best friend and cried at my desk! LOL....hmpf...too emotional...me? Sorry, long rant...but I was pissed!