overwhelmed

[croydongirl]

Not sure if this is the right place to be but I am overwhelmed by our situation. I recently went through my 4th miscarriage this year, all before 6 weeks. In all my tests nothing has come up as a problem, but the doctor put me on progesterone a few days after ovulation to see if that helps but I was on it this last time and it didn't help.
My husband just had a sperm analysis and has great mobility and quantity or whatever, but his morphology was only 2% normal and they think that might be the cause of our early m/c. We have got pregnant every time we have tried and so the doc thinks that my body is just not being selective and trying to implant everything even if it is not a good quality embryo so it fails to stick around.
So now we are overwhelmed with decisions, do we try again even though it seems our chance of m/c is very high or do we stop trying and save up for IVF- that would be an expensive process, and I am already 32 years old, nd it seems so very involved and uncomfortable.

I just don't know what to do. Do you know anyone who ha got pregnant with low sperm morphology? I am looking for hope or looking for something!

I just never thought this would be my life

 

[JaniceT]

Hi, we have very very very low morphology. However, thats the blessing of ICSI because the embryologist picks the few healthy sperm that will be used to fertilize the egg. If we had chosen IVF without ICSI, we would either have failed to fertilize any eggs or my body would have rejected those embryos fertilized by bad morphology sperm.

Do consider ICSI, it may be the best option for you.

 

[mrs_lukey]

Please see my thread about seeing my consultant today!! We seem to have very similar situations!

We have decided to have my hubbys sperm tested further and if ICSI is needed then that is what we'll have.

We are not going to prevent pregnancy in the interim and just hope if we do get pregnant it is one of the good swimmers that made it!!

xxxx