lets just say im in a big age gap relationship, im engaged. My fiance moved up from southampton over a year ago to live with me and since then he has never gotten a job. I really dont need the stress at the moment, why wont he just attempt to try to find work, even if he tried and failed i wouldnt mind, its the fact he's only applied for two jobs in the past 15months which is bothering me. whenever i talk to him about it he says he isnt having this convo with me and gets in a right strop. We live together. I really dont know what to do.