We took DS last year when he was almost 3 and it was a bit of a mixed experience. We went with a group of friends and managed to get front row seats. Unfortunately, it was Peter Pan and the beginning was really loud and dark with shouting etc from the Pirates and Captain Hook! DS was terrified and started screaming so we took him outside to calm down and then went back in a few mins later. As soon as we got to our seats, he freaked out again. In the end, we spotted some empty seats near the back and asked then usher if we could sit in them and they said yes. DS was still a little nervous but he seemed to enjoyed it towards the end.
We are going again this year but we don't have seats right at the front and it is Jack and the Beanstalk so hopefully no loud banging or shouting this time!
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