Tegans Mama
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How do you feel about your LO going to school?
Tegan starts preschool very soon and I'm really nervous. She has to be lifted a lot (she is paraplegic and uses a wheelchair) and I'm nervous about another person having to do that. At the minute we are the only people who look after her, except respite for one day a month.
I think the fact she is so physically dependent on other people is what is making me more nervous about her going. She's also incontinent and will need someone to change her nappy/pants if she soils herself (she is mostly dry now). I just don't know how I feel about it? She has a TA, and it will be the same TA all the time. We will meet the TA before she starts and my OH is going to be staying at preschool with her for the first few days while she settles in. She's going for 2.5 - 3 hours a day (she only has a TA for 2.5 hours a day and is unsafe to be left unsupervised)
We originally planned to homeschool her and we will if school turns out to be too demanding for her (she has concentration/energy issues meaning she gets very very tired very quickly) but we decided since we plan on having another child we need to at least TRY to put her in school, because if we're homeschooling one, we're homeschooling both.
Tegan starts preschool very soon and I'm really nervous. She has to be lifted a lot (she is paraplegic and uses a wheelchair) and I'm nervous about another person having to do that. At the minute we are the only people who look after her, except respite for one day a month.
I think the fact she is so physically dependent on other people is what is making me more nervous about her going. She's also incontinent and will need someone to change her nappy/pants if she soils herself (she is mostly dry now). I just don't know how I feel about it? She has a TA, and it will be the same TA all the time. We will meet the TA before she starts and my OH is going to be staying at preschool with her for the first few days while she settles in. She's going for 2.5 - 3 hours a day (she only has a TA for 2.5 hours a day and is unsafe to be left unsupervised)
We originally planned to homeschool her and we will if school turns out to be too demanding for her (she has concentration/energy issues meaning she gets very very tired very quickly) but we decided since we plan on having another child we need to at least TRY to put her in school, because if we're homeschooling one, we're homeschooling both.