Parents Opinions..

[**ALRE&Bump<3]

The longer you leave it the scarier n more worried you'll be n thats not good for baba! Think about it that way, good luck xx

yup n then they probs b all like "y dint u tell us?"

 

[**ALRE&Bump<3]

Unfortunately not. Im still here.

aww, *labour dust* 4 u hun, must b awful waiting

 

[Leannex]

gawd you must be hiding it well if they aint noticed!! lol x

ive never met them lol!

x

 

[duejan19th]

well im not a teen anymore but i had my first child at 17, fell pregnant at 16.
when i told my mum she kinda hit the roof and said "well ur not gonna keep it are you" and straight away i said YES, i might have been 16 but a termination had never even crossed my mind as when i was 13 docs told me i wouldnt be able to carry a child, i would concieve but due to damage on my womb i wouldnt be able to carry the baby and would miscarry so to me the baby was a sign from god i said to my mum "but what if i cant have a baby again and i terminate i would never forgive myself for it" when i said that she understood what i ment and said your young and im just worried u wont be able to cope, she knew i was mature for my age i just think she didnt want me to miss out on my tenage years like she did as she had me at 17. my step dad was really cool and spoke with my mum and made her understand it was my choice and my life and that she should be happy coz shes gonna be a nanny, after a few days she was great offering me advice on how to eat and what i should and shouldnt do when pregnant, she bought me clothes and loads for the baby and even moved my little sister into her room so i had a room for me and the baby to ourselves, i didnt tell my dad until i was 8 months gone, he lived with his new wife and i was scared to tell him coz well he's my dad and i know he would be dissapointed but when i told him he was really cool about it but his wife had different opinions, she really hurt me and said she didnt want me around the house as i would influence her daughters into doing the same thing when they got to my age which was ridiculous ans iv always told my sisters that they should wait until they are older and have a home and money of there own, well my mum dad and step mum all love him to pieces now and always take him for weekends and have done for the past 6 years, now im nearly 35 weeks pregnant with my second child and i must say everyone is over the moon about it. a teem mum is just as good a mum as an older mum iv never relied on anyone to help me bring up my child as it was my choice to have him, so congrats to all the teen moms out there you'll be great!!!!!

 

[Tishimouse]

Oh, babybean your story is really sad.

Somehow 19 doesn't seem that young to me. Not after reading about the other younger teenagers experiences. We all have such different lives and what seems like a problem to one, isn't a problem to another.

I think it sounds great that you are in a relationship and have been ttc (which sounds like you have made an informed decision). 19 can be very mature for some girl. I have to admit, I was a baby at 19 and am still waiting to grow up (I'm 45!!!!!). My story is that I have lived my life with very old fashioned values and wanted to wait for the right partner before ttc. It's taken me this long believe it or not and now we are ttc for bubba #1. Hope we can manage it.

Congratulations and not long now before you see your little one's face (and count fingers and toes). How exciting.

 

[Sarah_16x]

Im 16 and I was scared to tell my parents i told my dad first and he goes are you keeping it and i goes yeh and he goes how far gone are you and i told him and hes okie about it neva shouted at me.......My mum dident shout at me either xx

 

[snugglemuffin]

My dad sussed me out my mum left when i was one year old. I was so scared to tell him and i thought my only choice at the time was termination. He guessed and said he would support my desision either way but told me i had alot of years ahead of me to regret the one i had made. When i decided i could not terminate and i loved my baby to much he nearly cried with relief. He got my mum up the duff at 18 and he knows how hard it is to bring up kids i figured i would be ok with him behind me Oh i tracked down my mum in london and called her and told her she was going to be a grandmother at 37 she turned up after about 8 years of being missing (again) the next day.

 

[**ALRE&Bump<3]

Im 16 and I was scared to tell my parents i told my dad first and he goes are you keeping it and i goes yeh and he goes how far gone are you and i told him and hes okie about it neva shouted at me.......My mum dident shout at me either xx

amazing scan piccy there hun x

 

[gillyxox]

im 20 years old, not really a teen, but i feel young! i still live with my parents, so when i told them, my mom kinda already had it figured out.. and my dad didnt talk to me for a couple days, they're just coming to terms with it now, and im 23 weeks! lol. my moms been tryin to get me to get the baby to kick for her but she wont do it for my parents yet! .. lol!

 

[mommy2raven]

Well I told my mom the day I found out I was 15 and I had Raven on my 16th Birthday.My mom raised us on her own and when I told her she shouted a bit said she was dissapointed and was angry for a lil while but she got over it and she wouldn change Rae for the world!!! My dad (who I saw twice a year every year so he was a father not really a dad) went absolutley mad and told me I was a slut and I was throwing my life away and I didnt see him for over 2 years. He saw Rae for the first time a couple of months ago and he was civil but not really nice!!! My brothers and sisters were really supportive and my oldest brother and sister were kinda dissapointed as well but they were all there for me xoxoxoxoxoxoxox

 

[lilmumma]

telling my parents was the easy bit, it was the grandparents i was more scared about lol

 

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[Jayden'sMummy]

My mum went mental and started takin the house apart, i expected her to do this and worse but i guess she knew id react worse the more she went mad. now am 11 weeks i think shes secretly gettin excited about it talkin about names an stuff lol. ther are family members hu are still mad at me but theyl have to get used to it one day = ]

 

[isil]

I'm 22, but still in education (postgrad) and so probably in fairly similar situations to some of you. My Mother was told by a person who works where she does who had seen me getting my dating scan. She confronted me about it and got really upset. My Dad hasn't really said much about it. They both started to gently push the idea of me and my bf getting engaged. He proposed last night so we are. But I kind of feel like we just did it because my mother doesn't want to tell the rest of the family without having something "good" to tell first. So they are telling the grandparents about the engagement now, but not telling them I'm pregnant for a couple of months. I feel really hurt by it. It's like they're trying to soften the blow but I feel like me being pregnant is just as good, if not better, than us getting engaged.

Anyway, I guess I don't really belong in this forum but I feel like I do a bit because I don't have the stereotypical ideal kind of situation that most mums-to-be seem to have. It won't help that my brother (10 years older than me) has just had a little girl, almsot a year to the day after getting married...and they have a beautiful house. And my sister has just got her 2nd house...and there's me, a bit of a failure, at the back of the family!