kit603
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Hi Ladies,
I know that everybody is different but was just wondering if anybody who is in, or has been in, a similar position to myself might be able to offer me a little bit of support and advice.
My partner and I are considering ourselves as "TTC" but i'm not having periods at all and according to my GP i'm not ovulating either. My GP also diagnosed me with PCOS and referred me to a Gynecologist for treatment. I went to see the Gynecologist last night and she was absolutely awful and has just left me feeling like having PCOS is all my fault because i'm overweight and that I'm not trying hard enough to shift the weight (read my journal for more info). Nevertheless, she prescribed me Metformin and has referred me to see a dietician. I took my first tablet last night and already i've had quite painful stomach cramps - apparantly this is quite common?
Back to the weight issue... I know that I am overweight - in the last 18 months i've actually put on 5 stone and now have a BMI of 34. However, I don't understand what I did that caused me to put on weight so rapidly: my diet, if not healthier, is exactly the same and, if anything, I exercise more than I did before. As soon as I noticed myself putting on weight I tried to control my diet better - I started eating smaller portions of healthier foods. But, the weight just kept coming.
I carried on trying to "diet" from January to July but I just kept putting weight on and eventually gave up At this point, when I just ate whatever I wanted, my weight actually stopped going up and stayed the same?! I've since started trying to diet again, by eating small portions of healthier foods and doing more exercise and some months I find that I lose a few lbs and some months I still put weight on even though I don't do anything differently?! I can't seem to shift more than a lb per week no matter what I do, although its usually more of putting the weight on IO think. Lol.
My Gynecologist is referring me to a dietician which I hope will help but when the Gynecologist asked what exercise I do and I said swimming and gym once a week she said well I obviously don't care about my weight that much because if I wanted to loose it that badly i'd be there everyday for at least 2 hrs until the excess weight was gone... Am I just lazy or does she have too much free time?!
I just feel so depressed right now, and I feel like nothing i'm doing is going to make any difference to my weight or my attempts at trying to conceive.
I know that everybody is different but was just wondering if anybody who is in, or has been in, a similar position to myself might be able to offer me a little bit of support and advice.
My partner and I are considering ourselves as "TTC" but i'm not having periods at all and according to my GP i'm not ovulating either. My GP also diagnosed me with PCOS and referred me to a Gynecologist for treatment. I went to see the Gynecologist last night and she was absolutely awful and has just left me feeling like having PCOS is all my fault because i'm overweight and that I'm not trying hard enough to shift the weight (read my journal for more info). Nevertheless, she prescribed me Metformin and has referred me to see a dietician. I took my first tablet last night and already i've had quite painful stomach cramps - apparantly this is quite common?
Back to the weight issue... I know that I am overweight - in the last 18 months i've actually put on 5 stone and now have a BMI of 34. However, I don't understand what I did that caused me to put on weight so rapidly: my diet, if not healthier, is exactly the same and, if anything, I exercise more than I did before. As soon as I noticed myself putting on weight I tried to control my diet better - I started eating smaller portions of healthier foods. But, the weight just kept coming.
I carried on trying to "diet" from January to July but I just kept putting weight on and eventually gave up At this point, when I just ate whatever I wanted, my weight actually stopped going up and stayed the same?! I've since started trying to diet again, by eating small portions of healthier foods and doing more exercise and some months I find that I lose a few lbs and some months I still put weight on even though I don't do anything differently?! I can't seem to shift more than a lb per week no matter what I do, although its usually more of putting the weight on IO think. Lol.
My Gynecologist is referring me to a dietician which I hope will help but when the Gynecologist asked what exercise I do and I said swimming and gym once a week she said well I obviously don't care about my weight that much because if I wanted to loose it that badly i'd be there everyday for at least 2 hrs until the excess weight was gone... Am I just lazy or does she have too much free time?!
I just feel so depressed right now, and I feel like nothing i'm doing is going to make any difference to my weight or my attempts at trying to conceive.