Manchester_Lu
Me & DF & two lovely boys
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just a quick follow up......went to the GP this morning to share my copncerns and ask for some support, nothing. She looked at me blankly and even suggested that I went on the pill for a while!!! I told her that I've been dieting for about 6 months with no success and that I have tried to up my activity the only way I can which is by using things like Wii fit at home and this was due to working full time and having a young son to look after so her answer for this was to take up squash!
Anyway I explained how worried i am about my periods being absent and my weight steadidly increasing yet PCOS being ruled out but she didn't seemed concerned at all.
That's when I burst into tears. I'm not usually a crier and especially not to a stranger but I think it was her uncaring attitude and lack or any constructive help that got to me. the next thing on her list was to offer anti-depressants, I politely told her "no thank you" and she shrugged her shoulders so I left the surgery in tears.
I'm not looking for a miracle cure but I thought I might have a bit of support, even if all she did was offer me some bed time reading.
Hopefully the fertility hospital will be able to help us succeed in having a healthy pregnancy and that is my main priority but I am also really concerned about my complete lack of periods and would've liked this addressing as well, alongside any fertility treatment.
Sorry for the story, but I was in bits earlier. I guess I'm picking my way through this situation using sites like this one for guidance.
xxx
Anyway I explained how worried i am about my periods being absent and my weight steadidly increasing yet PCOS being ruled out but she didn't seemed concerned at all.
That's when I burst into tears. I'm not usually a crier and especially not to a stranger but I think it was her uncaring attitude and lack or any constructive help that got to me. the next thing on her list was to offer anti-depressants, I politely told her "no thank you" and she shrugged her shoulders so I left the surgery in tears.
I'm not looking for a miracle cure but I thought I might have a bit of support, even if all she did was offer me some bed time reading.
Hopefully the fertility hospital will be able to help us succeed in having a healthy pregnancy and that is my main priority but I am also really concerned about my complete lack of periods and would've liked this addressing as well, alongside any fertility treatment.
Sorry for the story, but I was in bits earlier. I guess I'm picking my way through this situation using sites like this one for guidance.
xxx