Pissed off

[Loula]

... at my Nan.

She called ( eventually!) to see how we got on at the hospital last week so I told her that IVF will be commencing in February - and her comment? knowing the history etc?

Oh all you need to do is relax!




Why can't they just shut the F up??

 

[Sinead]

 

[loopylew]

I get the same from my mother who just keeps saying "its the pill ... it'll happen..." but in the next breathe asks when am i going to give her a Grandchild. These people don't understand the pressure!!

 

[CurlySue]

"It hasn't been that long in the grand scheme of things," a woman at work told me yesterday. "It's not like it's been five years."

She got pregnant first month, both times. What on Earth right does she have to say it?

People, eh?

 

[FJL]

Oh Loula, that is so unsupportive, I think you need a big

CC and LL I think you girls also need a big

Want me to come over and let loose on these people?!? The days of me holding back are long over

 

[chefamy1122]

aww honey people just DON'T GET IT!! I get stupid comments from people all the time and I am waiting for the day that I freak out on someone.

 

[Mynxie]

yep, I understand that. My aunt is a bitch for inappropriate hurtful stuff. Can't talk 2 her on msn without her mentioning my TTC and how my babies weren't meant to be and how it'll happen and i'll be a good mum etc etc etc....first time i as pregnant she told me how stupid i was and irresponsible being pregnant and a crip....

 

[wannabmum]

People can be so insensitive, I wish they would think before opening their mouth

xxx

 

[Loula]

forgot about this part till I was just talking with my cousin about it - she said that she thinks some things are better left be and that if it was meant it would happen..........

 

[Beckic]

AARRRGHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!

Loula - I am sooooooooo annoyed for you.

My friend said exactly the same thing to me this week - she listened to me going on about wiaiting for appointments, worrying abut test etc.., and then said ' dont you think if you just stopped trying and just relaxed then it would happen'!!!!

NO - I dont - thats the bloody point - I need medical help.

For every person I know who conceived whilst 'on a break' or not actually really 'trying' I know a person who got pregannt whislt they were charting, or through IVF / assisted conception, or whilst they were going through a load of stress at work etc.. so they can stick that in their pipe and smoke it.

Have a good scream sweetheart and let it all out.

Bx x x

 

[pixielou]

They just don't understand... they think they are being helpfull but we know otherwise!

 

[akcher]

I hope your feeling better sweetie

 

[buffycat]

oh pixielou.....i'm sorry....this is not what anyone should be hearing right now.....

big hugs..

 

[Mazmos]

If I had a £ for every person that told me "Just relax" or "It'll happen when the time is right" or something equally as patronising, I would have enough money for IVF!!!!
It drives me mad, and really doesn't help the situation at all. I wish they wouldjust shut the f**k up - they don't know how it feels every month.

There, rant over - I feel better now

Maz xxx