Please don’t judge just really need help x

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  1. Melanie1226

    Melanie1226 New Member

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    I had sex on the 16th 17th 19th and 23rd (3times that day) Of August with guy 1 and stupidly someone else on the 20th August my ovulation day was the 22nd who is likely to be the dad because all the online things are saying my conception date is the 23rd xx
     
  2. carstep

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    There is no way to know without a DNA test. Sperm can live 5 days inside waiting for an egg, but it doesn't take long for the new guys to get there either. It just depends if a sperm waiting for a day or two got to the egg first or and sperm from the day of ovulation.
     
  3. Bevziibubble

    Bevziibubble Well-Known Member
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    You will have to take a dna test once baby is here to know for sure as the dates are so close
     
  4. JessaBear36

    JessaBear36 Praying for a healthy Rainbow Baby

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    DNA test is only way to know.
     
  5. Suggerhoney

    Suggerhoney Praying for a BFP and healthy Rainbow baby ❤

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    Oh no this must be so horrible bless you.
    But sadly there is only one way to know and thats to get a DNA test.
    Sprem can survive for up to 5 days so its really hard to say.
    Good luck.
     
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  6. Chaotic6

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    With this I would suggest a paternity test upon delivery.
     
  7. kittiecat

    kittiecat Mum to Noah

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    :hugs: this must be really difficult. As others have said the only way to find out will be a DNA test.
     

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