Please help, about to give up.

Calibeachbum

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My ds is 11 days old. He has latched on straight from birth and has not had any problems latching. My milk started to come in around 5 days pp so I was advised to suppliment with formula for 10 minutes after each feeding. At 6 days my ds was admitted to the hospital for jaundice, his levels were high at 23 and was under light therapy for 1 1/2 days. He had breastmilk jaundice. For this time he was exclusively formula fed and I had to pump every two hours. At this time I was getting about .5 to 1 ounces per pumping session. The dr released us from the hospital and said I could resume breast feeding.

We had a follow up pediatrician Appointmnet the next day. He was 10 days old and has not gained his birth weight (4 oz off). So the pedis told me to breastfeed for 10 mins on each side and then 10 minutes of formula. First of all I think the pedi should have put into perspective that he had breastmilk jaundice and is healthy now. He also said I could resume breastfeeding as soon as I was engorged, leaking/spraying milk wtf.

I called and spoke to a lactation specialist about getting my supply up and she was not useful at all. She said "well if that is what the dr says".

Yesterday I was able to pump 1 oz after a feeding. Then later that night after ds had nursed I pumped again and hardly got anything. (i was told to pump adter feeding by my LC after birth) I have been told to do 4 different things by different LC and drs. I just want to know what I can do to keep my supply up. Im about ready to give up! Sometimes ds is satisfied after 10 minutes and sometimes after 45 minutes. He had more than enough wet/dirty diapers. I am so close to being done breastfeeding, I feel like I have no support from those that are suppose to help (drs and LC). Please any advice.
 
my advice would be to stop the pumping and formula and just feed!

i have always understood that the body will produce what the baby needs and until you let it by not topping up then it wont

it might be rough for a few days but might work as long as baby is producing wet and dirty nappies...........
 
^wss

Just feed. Let him feed whenever and for however long and don't supplement. I can't believe an LC didn't tell you the best way to build supply is by letting your LO suck. If you think your empty and he's still sucking let him. Odds are your not empty and by him sucking your body is getting the hint to produce more milk.
 
I hope it works for you. When it comes to bfing concerns I always come to bnb because my doctor doesn't know a single thing about it and is usually quick to push formula because its the easy way out.

Good luck and don't let anyone talk you into giving up unless youre ready!
 
Just wanted to update. I always search on google and find threads that are never updated.
I cut the formula and EBF on demand. I started drinking tons of water and Mothers Milk tea. My supply is awesome now! So happy I did not give in to a Dr who does not support breastfeeding. He is gaining weight and has plenty of wet/dirty diapers. Just wanted to say don't give up on BF, because I was close! Thanks BnB.
 
Well done :D so happy it hS worked out for you! I wish I had found BnB earlier as it might have saved my bf journe a whole load of trouble! I agree with how rediculous it is to have different 'professionals' all giving you conflicting advice! Took me ages to find one who has finally helped!
 
I'm glad things worked out for you.

It's amazing the difference in advice everyone receives. LO lost 1 lb 3 oz (from 7 lbs 15 oz to 6 lbs 12 oz). He also had jaundice and had to be admitted for two days for light therapy. It took him a month to get back to his birth weight and his doctor never once suggested I supplement. He was happy he was gaining, even if it was slow.
 
thats so great!!! good for you for trusting your gut and your baby!!!! <3
 

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