Please help me -- But please don't judge or take offence..

[lhancock90]

woah, you seriously have the wrong end of the stick. I would understand if red/ginger hair was actually bad? but its not?...

I think you're missing the point. The point was not that being a ginger is bad but that she was concerned that her child would be ridiculed for having it.... which does happen. She was worried about her child being bullied- she doesn't have an issue with redheads.


Regardless though, should you REALLY come into someone's thread and tell them that their concerns aren't valid.. even if you feel that way? Of course not.

Exactly what i've been trying to say but i think i've struggled and come across differently. aha.

 

[DanielleM]

Thank you to Lellow and Midnight Fairy understanding where I am coming from. I had come and posted that comment after I had receieved a phonecall from the NHS wheelchair centre and they have told me that due to financial constraints that Evan is going to have to wait months for a new wheelchair (he got this one at 3 and is now 7 so far too small) for him to become more of a priority! Yes I had a shit on, I commented inappropriatley and shouldn't have done that, you can go through all of my other posts and see I am not like that at all!!!

 

[MizzDeeDee]

Thank you to Lellow and Midnight Fairy understanding where I am coming from. I had come and posted that comment after I had receieved a phonecall from the NHS wheelchair centre and they have told me that due to financial constraints that Evan is going to have to wait months for a new wheelchair (he got this one at 3 and is now 7 so far too small) for him to become more of a priority! Yes I had a shit on, I commented inappropriatley and shouldn't have done that, you can go through all of my other posts and see I am not like that at all!!!

I agree that you are usually not like that.. and I can surely appreciate the fact that you came on here and admitted that it wasn't an appropriate response. I can also see how what happened right before you commented might have clouded you a bit and I get it. We all have our moments.

 

[lhancock90]

Thank you to Lellow and Midnight Fairy understanding where I am coming from. I had come and posted that comment after I had receieved a phonecall from the NHS wheelchair centre and they have told me that due to financial constraints that Evan is going to have to wait months for a new wheelchair (he got this one at 3 and is now 7 so far too small) for him to become more of a priority! Yes I had a shit on, I commented inappropriatley and shouldn't have done that, you can go through all of my other posts and see I am not like that at all!!!

I apologise if i was rude, I've just been attacked in posts before and wanted to defend the OP.
Its disgusting that your son has been treated that way, i did hear on the news the other day about this happening and people where having to rent wheelchairs.

 

[tu123]

Thank you to Lellow and Midnight Fairy understanding where I am coming from. I had come and posted that comment after I had receieved a phonecall from the NHS wheelchair centre and they have told me that due to financial constraints that Evan is going to have to wait months for a new wheelchair (he got this one at 3 and is now 7 so far too small) for him to become more of a priority! Yes I had a shit on, I commented inappropriatley and shouldn't have done that, you can go through all of my other posts and see I am not like that at all!!!

I apologise if i was rude, I've just been attacked in posts before and wanted to defend the OP.
Its disgusting that your son has been treated that way, i did hear on the news the other day about this happening and people where having to rent wheelchairs.

Makes me so cross! How can it be allowed! Do they really think a 7yr old will fit in a chair designed for him when he was 3????!!!

Man, you must be sooo angry!

 

[VieraSky]

I personally don't get why people like to pick on redheads. I personally love red hair!

 

[emyandpotato]

Rory has auburn hair at the moment and if it goes red I might change mine to match it. I think it's a lovely colour and don't really understand the stigma attached, especially as a few decades ago it was coveted.

 

[justjill]

Aww! Nothing's wrong with you! It just that's it's been drilled into your head your whole life and people tend to notice red heads! I think it's just because red heads are somewhat rare!

I think little red head girls are just the cutest!!