please help my friendx

[honey08]

fungul infection and shes a greatmum ......... no shes not a great mum hun and u need to do best by the baby, get SS phoned up b4 the child gets something worst !!

 

[AppleBlossom]

If she was a great mum she would buy some proper nappies for that poor child. I don't doubt she has the ability to be a good mum but she is doing a bad job of showing it

 

[Always&4ever]

I hope something gets sorted soon for her and her childrens sake *hugs*

 

[Miss Lisa]

fungal infections and seldom baths?

those poor children...

i came from an area where almost everyone was like that. im glad i got myself out of there cos it really is an awful state of affairs.

 

[xarlenex]

A friends of mines Aunt gave her 7 nappys one day, didnt tell her what kind they were and told her to try them then give her a phone. She loved them, didnt leak and her little boys bum was fine. Turned out to be Tesco's Value range! Price doesnt always matter. Saying that, I use Pampers for Kyle lol But just wanted to say that you shouldnt judge just because the price.

I hope she gets her head together sooner rather than later xx

 

[Naya69]

the area she lives in is rough and run down the women who lives next door whos husband shes now pregnant too she leaves her kid either in his high chair or pram all day he walks on his tip toes due to being left in his play pen too long which is also his cot the little boy is 2 and cant say not one word doesnt even babble he never smiles and walks around picking toys up and throwing them again he never plays with them the social services have already been round to her house and took him off her once so they are keeping a close eye on her.

i could never be the one to report my friend i just try and help her i go down regualry clean her house buy new clothes for the lad give her advice even try and sort her money out her new boyfriend helps out a lot now by cleaning up getting up in the morning with the boy which she hated doing but shes got double of this soon so shes got to sort herself out soon. she has started using tesco nappies the nicer ones not the value ones but i dont know how long thats gonna last iam gonna past on the info yous have gave especially about her bank.

 

[AppleBlossom]

i could never be the one to report my friend i just try and help her i go down regualry clean her house buy new clothes for the lad give her advice even try and sort her money out her new boyfriend helps out a lot now by cleaning up getting up in the morning with the boy which she hated doing but shes got double of this soon so shes got to sort herself out soon. she has started using tesco nappies the nicer ones not the value ones but i dont know how long thats gonna last iam gonna past on the info yous have gave especially about her bank.

That isn't your responsibility. She needs to wake up! She has a child. And is soon to have another. She can't rely on you to clean her house and buy her kids clothes. She should get a job and do all this stuff for herself. I know you just want to help your friend but at the end of the day she can't depend on you for everything. She has had a baby and has to take responsibility. If she is struggling so much with money then it is beyond me why she is even having another baby and should just get a job to support the one she already has!

 

[colsy]

shes just texted me shes pregnant she doesnt like workin so she will never find a job

Oh dear. I don't suppose many people actually really love working, but it's pretty much a fact of life. I feel very much for her children. I hope they don't suffer. You're obviously a very good, very kind person looking out for her the way that you do. I admire you very much. I hope that one day you can pass on some of your good personality and character to your friend.

 

[Reedy]

This girl seriously needs a kick up the backside x
Nobody likes going to work but we do because we want the best from life x
I just get so fecking angry when people like this pop kids out like they are going outta fashion, there are woman out there that would give their right arm to have a baby to love & care for (me being one of them) & heres your friend having kids just because she cant be arsed to go out and get a job x
You really do have the patience of a saint & I admire you alot but like the other girls have said she isnt your responsibilty x I know she is your friend but a child's health is at risk do you really want that on your concience (sp) if the child gets worse?? You need to call SS you dont have to give you name sweety x I think it best for all involved x x x

 

[Naya69]

ive just been down to my other mates and shes fumming that she has got herself pregnant again because she knows what this girl is like shes even told me to not give her none of my stuff and let her feel the consiqences of having another child because i was gonna sell all my old things because i take such good care of things they all look brand new and then i was gonna buy josh something new like i have just sold a load of old things of his and with the £60 i got given i bought him the infant to toddler rocker chair and a fisher price polar costa toy i might take my friends advice and sell it like i was going too and let my mate realise what mess she has got herself into even tho it will be hard to do xx

 

[v2007]

Your friend needs to be taught a harsh lesson and if this is the way to go then so be it.

Keep all the stuff you have and sell it, instead of helping her, help yourself the money you get from selling bits and pieces will improve yours and your sons life.

It shudnt help some1 who clearly is screwing over the system, i know it will be hard but she dosent seem to care about anyone.

I know you said that you couldnt report her but if this is what it takes for her to pull her finger out then it may have to be done.

This will sound horrible but if they take her son of her and her new baby when they are born she wont have any money coming in at all. She is using her kids as cash cows.

V xxx

 

[ChloesMummy]

Totally agree with v2007.

She needs to wake up and face the realities of life X