happyladybugg
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If there are any other stepmoms out there (who have got this craziness down pat) and if you feel like being somewhat of a mentor to someone could you please pm me?? I NEED some support and badly!! My stepson (9) is with us until the 25th of this month and I'm already ready for him to go back to his mother! My daughter (8) is a good girl and already I have caught my stepson trying to tell her what a stripper is and also just a minute ago said something along the lines of "i'm not gay" to her (I dont even know if she knows what that means ) uggghh we just simply don't talk like that in our home. The whole situation with my stepson is an extremely loooooong story...His mom is worth a bag of rocks, my dh works alot and is never here when his son is, my stepson lived with us for a year and went back to his mom after $10,000 and a huge custody battle, this poor kid is a big ball of issues and my dh is basically paying his ex (ex girlfriend at that not even a wife) to live she spends none of the enormous amount of money on the kid, she sends him over in rags and packs one pair of pajamas for a two week visit!!! Obviously I have had it!!! I have tons of resentment, anger and anxiety when it comes to my stepson and I also have no one to talk to about it. Anytime I say anything to my dh it turns to an arguement...totally not worth it to me. I'm really hoping someone knows what I'm going through and can offer me a bit of support because I really am at the end of my rope!