please help

[GG Marie]

Hi
I am new here and need some advice, if anyone can help. I apologise for the detailed info!
I found out i was pregnant 8 days ago, my periods have always been irregular so it is difficult to know when i ovulated, but i think conception was around 19/20 days ago. The day after i found out i had some lower stomach cramps and had light bleeding,which continued until yesterday,it is not normal to my period and i only had a very small amount of clotting, whichwas barely noticeable. I went to hospital who tested my hcg levels which were then only 50. The doctor could not see whether my cervix was open or closed but predicted i had miscarried. 2 days ago i had another lot of blood tests which showed my hcg was 480, the doctor said i was at high risk of ectopic and i had not miscarried. They did an internal scan and could not find anything in the uterus or my tubes, i now have to go back to doctors for blood tests every 2 days. Is it possible that the baby is so small it couldn't be detected on the scan, or do you think it is likely it will become ectopic? The scan showed the lining in my uterus was smooth, i am not sure what that means. I am scared and an emotional wreck, i have been on google far to much which is scaring me more every time i look (which is all day pretty much).

Please can anyone give me advice or does anyone have any ideas about what is happening to me and the baby?!

thanks for listening

GGM

 

[GG Marie]

sorry i am not sure where i should have put this post, would just really like some advice

 

[Arcanegirl]

Im not to sure myself, hopefully someone will have some advice for you

 

[hayley x]

Im sorry I cant help but wanted to send you a hope someone can answer your question. xxx

 

[DiddyDons]

Sorry I cant help Im not too sure what it means either. Maybe baby was too small to see?

hope you get some answers soon

 

[GG Marie]

thanks guys....it is so hard being patient, expecially as they said it was likely to be ectopic and gave me a leaflet on how to cope...

this site is really helping

xxx

 

[Jemma_x]

I cant help but wanted to send you

 

[babytots]

sorry hun i have no advise either but wanted to send you some and i hope you get some answers soon. x

 

[GG Marie]

i have just been for another blood test, the doctor said it is too early to say, but if she is judging from my last period (7weeks ago) it is not looking good, although as my periods and ovulation is so irregular there may be a glimmer of hope...i am keeping everything crossed!

thank you for the hugs everyone here are some extra special ones back

 

[todteach]

Wishing you luck and sending you some much needed

 

[Omi]

I think you should stay hopeful- it aint over until its over and you have loads of reasons to believe yet!! Also, i believe you having a smooth uterine lining would mean you're not actively miscarrying (i could be wrong) but last time i was mc you could see on the us that i was bleeding and it was the opposite of smooth..

Anwyway, FX hun!!!

 

[GG Marie]

thank u xxx i think everyone on here is so brave , and it has given me strength to stay positive.

lots of love and hugs xxxxx

 

[superp123]

Didn't want to read and run. Although, I don't have any adivce on what you're going through. I hope that they figure it out soon, and like Omi said there's always hope. fx
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[GG Marie]

hi ladies

I thought i would update u all, as u have all been so kind in sending hugs etc. The doc phoned this morning and my results showed my numbers doubled initially but are now falling. They suspect i will miscarriage naturally although risk of ectopic is still there, i just need to look out for the signs and symptoms, i am still bleeding and they think my body will sort itself out without the need for surgery, i just have to have another blood test tomorrow and then every week until my levels are back to normal. So now i have to wait for it to takes its course.
I have cried more than i ever thought possible, and am trying to get my head around what has happened. I am finding it hard to understand the concept of waiting, i am waiting to miscarry, it is so surreal and painful.

people are saying the usual unhelpful things like it has happened for a reason etc etc, but it doesnt seem to help me emotionally. I think time will be the biggest healer, that and support of my fiance.

I am sending love and hugs to all of you that have been through a loss, it is the hardest thing i have ever been through and i hope that we all get what we so deeply want one day.

love to all of u

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

 

[Snowball]

 

[Reason]

I'm so sorry that you're having to go through this. I am also waiting to miscarry, have had light bleeding for the past 2 weeks. After wanting a baby so much it's devastating to know that once again life's been cruel. I just feel so angry with myself that my body has let me down once again.

to you hun x

 

[londonbabe]

Sending you hugs

 

[superp123]

Hun, so sorry to hear this. I was wondering about you yesterday and I'm sad that you weren't given better news. Sending you big hugs and don't forget that we're here if you need us.
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[babytots]

so sorry to hear that hunni was hoping for better news for you. we are all here if you need us.x